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Best way to keep my dad warm apart from have the heating on 24.7

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TheOpalFox · 15/12/2025 15:31

Sadly I can’t have my heating on 24.7!!!! And my dad is elderly and sits in his chair all day.
Whats the cheapest heater to run? Someone said an oil filled radiator? Someone else said halogen? Thankyou I have it on 21 degrees and he’s still cold so need a heater by him? Thanks

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Hankunamatata · 15/12/2025 18:15

Warm clothes really help.
I brought my mum an oodie and a hearted blanket.

Pigriver · 15/12/2025 18:03

DPotter · 15/12/2025 17:25

basically I agree with everyone else - heat the person not the room.

Way, way back in the midst of time as a staff nurse I took the temperature of all the elderly ladies on the ward i worked on. It was the height of summer & hot and each and everyone of them was verging on hypothermic. In very large part the way we human keep ourselves warm is by moving about. If you can get your dad moving around - not always possible but if you can get him standing up and walking around every hout, even just a few paces it really helps generate warmth. If he can't stand then arm exercises can also help. Trouble is when we feel cold we sort of tighten up and stop even fidgeting so we have to be deliberate in choosing to move.

This is a great recommendation. If he is mobile can you get a reminder to do some movement every hour? Chair exercises in YouTube maybe?
But second everyone else
Sheepskin slippers
Heated throw
Heated seat pad/booties
All on sale in Costco at the moment

tipsyraven · 15/12/2025 17:56

I also recommend a heated blanket but take care if he has thin skin or any cuts or wounds.

CandyCaneKisses · 15/12/2025 17:28

Layers
Warm socks
Slippers
Dressing gown
Blankets
Hot water bottle
Hot drinks and food

DPotter · 15/12/2025 17:25

basically I agree with everyone else - heat the person not the room.

Way, way back in the midst of time as a staff nurse I took the temperature of all the elderly ladies on the ward i worked on. It was the height of summer & hot and each and everyone of them was verging on hypothermic. In very large part the way we human keep ourselves warm is by moving about. If you can get your dad moving around - not always possible but if you can get him standing up and walking around every hout, even just a few paces it really helps generate warmth. If he can't stand then arm exercises can also help. Trouble is when we feel cold we sort of tighten up and stop even fidgeting so we have to be deliberate in choosing to move.

MooseBeTimeForSnow · 15/12/2025 17:07

Thin wool or cashmere layers. I would recommend a high neck jumper or even a buff to stop heat escaping around the neck.

If you can get Icebreaker in the U.K., get some of their base layers. The higher the number, the better.

Best way to keep my dad warm apart from have the heating on 24.7
TheDandyLion · 15/12/2025 16:48

What everyone else said but also to add sheepskin slippers.

Wigtopia · 15/12/2025 16:47

Thermal longsleeved top and leggings to wear under his usual clothes. If you can find a 100%merino wool set that will be better than synthetic materials claiming to be thermal.

then as other have said, hot water bottle or heated blanket to warm him rather than the room. But it might be the thermal clothes are enough to take the edge off without need a hot water bottle or heated blanket

ThirdStorm · 15/12/2025 16:44

I think its all been said but an electric throw was the best investment I made. I went with Keplin via Amazon and I use it all the time. I'd also suggest a gilet (traditional or heated) as that is a good layer that can go on top of anything and fingerless gloves. If you could get him moving more - at least once an hour that might help a bit. "Heat the person not the home".

Noshadelamp · 15/12/2025 16:31

Heated throws and hot water bottles. You can put a hot water bottle under his feet, or even heated slippers/foot muffs.

Hats keep in a lot of heat and a cosy scarf for his neck and chest area.

Warm drinks and soup help as well.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 15/12/2025 16:29

Would he wear an oodie? I have to say though a heated gilet is great. I sometimes wear one to work. OK I resemble the Marshmallow man as I have to wear it under my work fleece but it does mean you don't get cold when getting up to go to the loo or whatever
Hat and thermals especially socks.

CoffeeBeansGalore · 15/12/2025 16:20

I have a Berkshire heated throw for my chair in the living room. 4 heat settings & 4hr cut out. It's velvety soft & not too heavy. I have mobility problems & it's easy to move. Currently available in Costco for approx £32.
On my bed I have the Dreamland one. 6 heat settings & 3 timer settings. Heavier but nice & warm.

GasPanic · 15/12/2025 16:18

Gas central heating is cheap but is better used to warm the whole house rather than one spot where the person who needs to keep warm is.

Heated blankets I think are the most efficient in terms of keeping people warm and the costs down.

All electric radiators are 100% efficient but tend to be very expensive to run to keep people at high temperatures as they are often situated several feet away.

People seem somewhat obsessed with oil filled radiators but they are no more efficient in terms of thermal output than any other radiator.

BettysRoasties · 15/12/2025 16:13

Definitely a heated blanket we have one for the sofa for sitting and watching tv.

Bobbedhairdontcare · 15/12/2025 16:12

My mum has a heated pad behind her back and she loves it. A heated throw would be a tripping hazard for her as she struggles to get up.

Aluna · 15/12/2025 16:11

First things first - does he have thermal vest and long johns on under his clothes, with wool socks & sheepskins slippers?

Secondly, ime 21 is just not warm enough for elderly it needs to be 22-23. If you can’t afford that does he have any savings that could contribute to the bill?

Be warned that elderly can get hypothermia very easily.

Monty34 · 15/12/2025 16:11

I am afraid older people do feel the cold. And do need the heating on. Cheapest heating will be gas central heating. Electricity and oil are expensive.
By all means get a heated blanket but if the air around is freezing this is not enough.
Is he claiming all he can ? In terms of pension, etc. Nobody should be cold.

BauhausOfEliott · 15/12/2025 16:09

I second the recommendations of a heated throw/blanket. My mum (82, always freezing for some reason even though she's quite active) loves hers and uses it every evening. I also use one when I work from home and want to avoid having the heating on all day.

I'd also say to make sure he's wearing warm, preferably sheepskin-lined slippers as for some reason having cold feet tends to make the rest of your body feel cold too.

Thisistyresome · 15/12/2025 16:00

Heated blanket
Heated foot thing
You can get electric gilet.
You could get a small Infra red panel that provides directed heat just at him.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 15/12/2025 15:55

Heated blanket and electric hot water bottle, it avoids any spillage.

TheDevilFindsWorkForIdleMums · 15/12/2025 15:52

Heated throw......I have the dreamland one. DP got me it years ago, everything I plug it in I say to him this makes up for all the crap presents you've got me over the years tenfold 🤣🤣🤣

darkmoor · 15/12/2025 15:45

There are lots of tips on this, including a comparison of costs, on Money Saving Expert linked below:

https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/utilities/heat-the-human-not-the-home-save-energy/

Tigercrane · 15/12/2025 15:44

Feather duvet, second the heated blanket as well.

murasaki · 15/12/2025 15:41

PashaMinaMio · 15/12/2025 15:39

There’s some good advice here.
My mum is very ancient so feels the cold.
I contacted her utility supplier and asked if they offer complimentary heated blankets/throw? Indeed they do. They sent one to mum, free.
it’s worth asking.

Ooh, interesting. We might try that as a spare for him, I didn't know they did that.

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