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To think that antisemitism now needs to be tackled in the strongest possible way?

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LucyWestenra · 15/12/2025 11:30

The Bondi thread in chat was eye opening.

Forty pages and a lot of it whataboutery, excuses and vile antisemitism.

It’s disgusting.

It needs to be called out. It needs to be rooted out.

I feel so sorry for the Jewish communities everywhere. How can they possibly feel safe?

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Nine2five · 16/12/2025 07:39

Echobelly · 15/12/2025 12:16

I would disagree that our government 'enables antisemitism'. I presume in that sense you are referring to allowing the Gaza marches?

I am Jewish and attended several of them, as have other Jewish friends. I have got a different picture of them from what was painted in much of the press. We never saw any placards nor heard any chants targeting Jews - yet they've often been portrayed as some anti-Jewish hate fest where Jews would be abused or worse just for being in their vicinity which they weren't at all. Protesters were there to highlight the appalling violence Netanyahu's government was committing, and continued to committed despite the ceasefire, in Gaza.

I think in many ways things are being conflated - to me, extreme Islamist violence is a separate thing to antisemitism as we traditionally think of it. We can't compare threats of awful things like Bondi beach to the different awfulness of the Nazi regime which people sometimes seem to be trying to do. We're not at risk of having an extreme Islamist government in the UK for example (despite what Elon Musk thinks, he's an idiot). I think the government and security forces are doing their best to prevent attacks, and to discourage antisemitism.

I think the best solution is more community cohesion, interfaith work, and just getting people in some communities to simply meet Jewish people and see us as human beings.
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I don’t believe a single word you said.

noblegiraffe · 16/12/2025 07:26

I've noticed that the people who prattle piously about how criticism of Israel isn't antisemitism never engage with discussions of actual antisemitism. The most they will ever say is "antisemitism is bad" followed by a "but Israel".

EllaDisenchanted · 16/12/2025 07:23

Mischance · 15/12/2025 21:35

Antisemitism is fundamentally wrong. No question.

Criticizing the actions of a government that you feel is acting unacceptably is not wrong.

They are 2 different things.

They are indeed two different things. The issue is when Jews raise antisemitism (ie the first thing) we are dismissed and shouted down with the by now trite phrase that criticism of Israel is not antisemitism (ie the second thing). Ie the implication is either we’re inflating levels of antisemitism when really it’s just legitimate criticism of Israel / or we’re using antisemitism claims to deflect from blame on Israel.

I have lost track of how many times over the last couple of years I’ve openly said that fair and proportionate criticism of Israel is not antisemitism, and it fell on deaf ears.

also it’s not just criticism of Israel really is it - another incident the other day when a Jewish couple in America opened their gift wrapped chanuka pyjamas from Bloomingdale’s and there was free Palestine scrawled on the Bloomingdale’s card tucked inside the package. I mean is that fair criticism of Israel? Does that count as antisemitism?https://x.com/stopantisemites/status/2000688445929181461?s=46

StopAntisemitism (@StopAntisemites) on X

A @Bloomingdales customer orders Hanukkah pajamas for his girlfriend. Upon opening the gift, she finds “Free Palestine” written on a Bloomingdales card. The employee responsible does not belong in a customer oriented field.

https://x.com/stopantisemites/status/2000688445929181461?s=46

hazelnutvanillalatte · 16/12/2025 06:58

Celestialmoods · 15/12/2025 20:05

Because I’m told that’s what it was like before Isreal came into existence by people whose parents were there.

This is so beyond ignorant. You sound like some old racist saying 'before the Civil War blacks and whites got on fine.'

It was great if you didn't mind having no rights under the law, the ability for your family to be robbed and murdered with impunity, run out of your home, not allowed to serve as a legal witness, not able to participate in society. Jewish people were servant class and routinely abused.

My family are Middle Eastern Jewish people. After the formation of Israel, all the Middle Eastern Jews that weren't killed either fled or were exiled there. Finally a place where they could live and exist free from harm - from their own government, obviously, they still had to defend themselves against constant terror attacks from the surrounding states, just like the ones you cheer for.

Carla786 · 15/12/2025 23:23

Followthattaxi · 15/12/2025 22:53

That's standard for any event at a synagogue. My non Jewish friends were shocked to have to walk past security at the synagogue during our wedding.

This is the case for many groups, but especially for Jewish people : meaning, two groups moving in different worlds. Many Jews have evidently been living in a world of constant security threats long before the recent terrible intensification of anti Semitism, and for far too long most non Jews have been at best, unaware, at worst, apathetic.

Followthattaxi · 15/12/2025 22:53

Datchydoo · 15/12/2025 12:02

my DD attended one of her good friends Batmiztvah parties recently at their local synagogue. They had to hire security ar the front gates. Security guards for a 13 year olds party. What is this country/world coming to? 😢

That's standard for any event at a synagogue. My non Jewish friends were shocked to have to walk past security at the synagogue during our wedding.

Carla786 · 15/12/2025 22:47

LucyWestenra · 15/12/2025 19:29

Thank you for sharing your experience.

I find all of this very sobering and upsetting.

I know it may not mean much (and i am a foreigner to these shores too although my husband isn’t) but you have an ally in me.

I stand with all Jewish people. Today, tomorrow and the day after that.

✡️ ❤️

Thank you. I'm not Jewish myself, my grandmother visited this school because she was teaching RS then. I'm also a strong ally of the Jewish people. We must do everything we can to ensure no one has to fear for their life because of being Jewish- it's disgusting this kind of violent prejudice is spreading in the 21st century.

SunnyViper · 15/12/2025 22:40

LucyWestenra · 15/12/2025 21:39

GO AWAY

Exactly what I mean

noblegiraffe · 15/12/2025 22:17

Cybiil · 15/12/2025 22:15

No it really didn’t

It certainly wasn’t saying that commenting that Netanyahu and co are war criminals is antisemitic so no idea why you felt to say that it isn’t.

Cybiil · 15/12/2025 22:15

noblegiraffe · 15/12/2025 21:58

Think it flew right over your head.

No it really didn’t

BrinkWomanship · 15/12/2025 22:09

Yuja · 15/12/2025 21:23

I’m Jewish and I am so upset by the anti-semitism creep that has been tolerated in this county. My grandmother is in her late 90s - still alive and very much with it. Her father was killed at Auschwitz and she escaped to the UK on the Kindertransport -one of the last living Kindertransport children here. And here she is, living through an uprising of Jewish hatred again, having people throw things at the window of her Jewish care home and shout threats outside. Almost a century of being hated for her race and religion. Reading this thread just shows that anti-semitism is going nowhere

Thank you for asking.
My suggestion is that you call out antisemitism when you see it in others. Racists give themselves away because they’d believe many others agree with them. If they think their hatred is unacceptable then they’ll shut up and the cycle will decline.

noblegiraffe · 15/12/2025 21:58

Cybiil · 15/12/2025 21:56

Yes I did.

Think it flew right over your head.

Cybiil · 15/12/2025 21:56

Hollar · 15/12/2025 21:54

I don't think you actually read/engaged with my point.

Yes I did.

Hollar · 15/12/2025 21:54

Cybiil · 15/12/2025 21:49

I think the current Israeli government are dangerous war criminals. I think Hamas are dangerous war criminals. This does not make me anti semitic nor anti Muslim.

I don't think you actually read/engaged with my point.

LucyWestenra · 15/12/2025 21:50

Hollar · 15/12/2025 21:41

There's a lot of disingenuous people who say, 'if we criticise Israel we're called anti-semitic', and who take absolutely no trouble to consider why that might be. Robust criticism of the Israeli government could be entirely normal. As a non-anti-semite I might criticise the Israeli state in the same way I criticise the USA or India. And sometimes that is genuinely what people are doing.

But often, it's not just criticism. It's a nasty, visceral hostility that is very familiar to anyone who has experienced racism. It's calling for the complete eradication of the only Jewish state. It's the left's single-minded obsession with Israel. It's calling for intifada (attacks against Israeli civilians). The people who say there nothing problematic going on here are either complicit in anti-semitism or just blind.

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Yes!

It’s usually the same people who claim ‘from the river to the sea’ doesn’t mean anything sinister.

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Cybiil · 15/12/2025 21:49

Hollar · 15/12/2025 21:41

There's a lot of disingenuous people who say, 'if we criticise Israel we're called anti-semitic', and who take absolutely no trouble to consider why that might be. Robust criticism of the Israeli government could be entirely normal. As a non-anti-semite I might criticise the Israeli state in the same way I criticise the USA or India. And sometimes that is genuinely what people are doing.

But often, it's not just criticism. It's a nasty, visceral hostility that is very familiar to anyone who has experienced racism. It's calling for the complete eradication of the only Jewish state. It's the left's single-minded obsession with Israel. It's calling for intifada (attacks against Israeli civilians). The people who say there nothing problematic going on here are either complicit in anti-semitism or just blind.

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I think the current Israeli government are dangerous war criminals. I think Hamas are dangerous war criminals. This does not make me anti semitic nor anti Muslim.

Hollar · 15/12/2025 21:41

There's a lot of disingenuous people who say, 'if we criticise Israel we're called anti-semitic', and who take absolutely no trouble to consider why that might be. Robust criticism of the Israeli government could be entirely normal. As a non-anti-semite I might criticise the Israeli state in the same way I criticise the USA or India. And sometimes that is genuinely what people are doing.

But often, it's not just criticism. It's a nasty, visceral hostility that is very familiar to anyone who has experienced racism. It's calling for the complete eradication of the only Jewish state. It's the left's single-minded obsession with Israel. It's calling for intifada (attacks against Israeli civilians). The people who say there nothing problematic going on here are either complicit in anti-semitism or just blind.

LucyWestenra · 15/12/2025 21:39

SunnyViper · 15/12/2025 21:34

I am u following this thread as its just an echo chamber with no debate.

GO AWAY

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Mischance · 15/12/2025 21:35

Antisemitism is fundamentally wrong. No question.

Criticizing the actions of a government that you feel is acting unacceptably is not wrong.

They are 2 different things.

SunnyViper · 15/12/2025 21:34

I am u following this thread as its just an echo chamber with no debate.

Hollar · 15/12/2025 21:33

noblegiraffe · 15/12/2025 21:12

I was shocked by this court verdict last week

https://www.jewishnews.co.uk/jury-finds-two-men-accused-of-khaybar-chant-not-guilty-of-inciting-racial-hatred/

Jewish communal organisations have expressed frustration after two men who allegedly chanted an infamous slogan citing the massacre of Jews were found by a jury to be not guilty of intent to stir up racial hatred.
Video footage from an anti-Israel demonstration in May 2021 near Hyde Park showed a group of men, part of a wider anti-Israel protest, chanting “Khaybar Khaybar, ya yahud, Jaish Muhammad soufa yaʿoud”. The chant translates as “Jews, remember the battle of Khaybar, the army of Muhammad will return”, and cites a 628 CE battle where Jewish tribes in Arabia were exterminated by Muslims

Like, how in the actual fuck is that not stirring up racial hatred?

Video of the chant here:
https://x.com/the_zionist1/status/1393559694023725056?s=61&t=U9XrcF693-JpMxeIueYG7g

This is really sad and shocking, and also perfectly illustrates the point. In this case, two men were literally going around chanting 'Jews, remember when you all got slaughtered by Mohammed's army' and the jury did not convict.

This is not 'criticising Israel', this is a clear anti-semitic threat just being treated as acceptable.

Sewingaddict · 15/12/2025 21:24

Mondaymorning567 · 15/12/2025 21:10

I am not Jewish and I have been appalled at the comments on the threads on here and under newspapers online. It is utterly horrific. The antisemitism is shocking. Is there anything that I as an individual can do which is useful? Are there places I could donate, or is it worth writing to an MP? I know it sounds useless, but I'm just so horrified, not just by the attacks on Jewish people, but by the responses of people. Is there anything practical I can do to make a difference?

The CST are a great organisation to donate to if that is something you wish to do.

www.cst.org.uk

CST – Protecting Our Jewish Community

https://cst.org.uk/

Yuja · 15/12/2025 21:23

I’m Jewish and I am so upset by the anti-semitism creep that has been tolerated in this county. My grandmother is in her late 90s - still alive and very much with it. Her father was killed at Auschwitz and she escaped to the UK on the Kindertransport -one of the last living Kindertransport children here. And here she is, living through an uprising of Jewish hatred again, having people throw things at the window of her Jewish care home and shout threats outside. Almost a century of being hated for her race and religion. Reading this thread just shows that anti-semitism is going nowhere

EllaDisenchanted · 15/12/2025 21:22

PurpleThistle7 · 15/12/2025 21:14

Yes. Believe us. Teach the next generation. Donate to a Jewish cause that speaks to you. Show up at a public Chanukah event to lend your support. I wouldn’t want to presume to suggest specific donations but there are many.

mostly though just speak up when people say something stupid. I would like to believe it’s often ignorance and those are the people I try to reach.

This.

Personally, when people who are not Jewish speak up, it means so much. We’re a very small minority, and the more orthodox you get on the spectrum of religious observance, the less likely to have any kind of online vocal presence, meaning even fewer overall numbers of Jews who can stand up and call out antisemitism. And some are frightened; generational trauma lends itself to a culture of keeping your head below the parapet and not calling attention to yourself. When allies speak up, you lend your voice and your strength, and it makes us much less isolated.

PurpleThistle7 · 15/12/2025 21:14

Mondaymorning567 · 15/12/2025 21:10

I am not Jewish and I have been appalled at the comments on the threads on here and under newspapers online. It is utterly horrific. The antisemitism is shocking. Is there anything that I as an individual can do which is useful? Are there places I could donate, or is it worth writing to an MP? I know it sounds useless, but I'm just so horrified, not just by the attacks on Jewish people, but by the responses of people. Is there anything practical I can do to make a difference?

Yes. Believe us. Teach the next generation. Donate to a Jewish cause that speaks to you. Show up at a public Chanukah event to lend your support. I wouldn’t want to presume to suggest specific donations but there are many.

mostly though just speak up when people say something stupid. I would like to believe it’s often ignorance and those are the people I try to reach.