I feel like I’m going mad. My mum is currently in hospital after surgery for a broken hip. She is stable and not in a life threatening state. She is 83 and been in a week so far.
I was unfortunately away when it all happened but have of course visited since I arrived home.
My sisters and I have been pretty much non contact for 4 years due to a falling out during Covid - (i have twin sisters who are very close) but are now messaging me trying to arrange times for me to go and see my mum - literally making sure she isn’t alone for a minute during visiting hours which is fine
However, yesterday I woke up with a heavy cold, sneezing every 1@ mins, aches, sore throat etc. I said this to my sister and her reaction was that I would be fine to go as someone laways has got something - I feel really pressured into going and I don’t want to as it’s not just about my mums health but all other on the ward! The laugh is that our falling out was due to he going to see my mum during Covid (when we could) as I was putting her in danger!
Shpuld I just go? Or is my gut feeling not to go until I’m feeling okay right? I do not know why I am worried about informing my sisters! They won’t believe me! And it is stressing me out