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1 year old exploring front gardens and Xmas decs decd

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FamilyofTrees · 13/12/2025 19:16

When we've been out walking recently in our fairly small village, my 22 month old has been wandering into front gardens and having a look around. Especially if they have Christmas decorations up, like reindeer or a Santa.

I say to him not to touch and that it's not our stuff, but beyond carrying him away or putting him in his trike (I'm 8 months pregnant so can't carry him if he refuses to walk so we always bring his trike with us, but I give him the option to walk) there's not much I can do to stop him and I'm not particularly inclined to cause a screaming meltdown over a quick little detour that I personally wouldn't be bothered by. He isn't causing any damage.

YABU - You shouldn't let him go into front gardens at all

YANBU - As long as he doesn't break anything or stay too long it's fine

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/12/2025 19:18

YABU, even though your child is small you should still parent them and teach boundaries, not let them do what they want so you can have an easy life. If your child stands on dog or cat poo it will be more hassle for you in the end anyway

Upthenorth · 13/12/2025 19:18

Just hold his hand?! And tell him to stay on the path.

ClaraThePigeon · 13/12/2025 19:17

YABU. This is why reins exist.

MrsDoubtingMyself · 13/12/2025 19:17

YABU