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My DH was gifted a scarf by a female colleague

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Wer78 · 13/12/2025 18:06

Hear me out.
My DH said he lost his scarf on the tube while texting his work colleague. He missed his stop and forgot his favourite scarf. He told his colleague I had lost my favourite scarf while texting you work-wise, so you should get me a new one. He said she felt bad and got him a new one. Is this all a bit weird?!

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Crazybigtoe · 13/12/2025 18:16

Depends a lot on relationship... If just banter, and gift or she felt like she had to give it as he is senior / influential etc

If I was you, I wouldn't be worried about your relationship - unless other signs.

Poms · 13/12/2025 18:13

Your DH is way out of order.

Daytimenighttime · 13/12/2025 18:12

Why was he texting this woman while he was on the tube?
Surely that must have been outwith working hours.
Do they text each other a lot?