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Any doctors? Is this lack of cardio fitness or am I on course for a cardiac issue?

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Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 15:11

Any doctors out there? I'm post meno, have exercised for years and years but whilst for a long time did HITT classes, more and more focussed on heavy weights. This past year, cardio dropped to very little, exclusively weights. I skip for a minute at the end of each session. I walk the dog, but you know - no great pace. I have sedentary job. I have slightly elevated cholesterol (familial)

Two weeks ago, walked up a steepish road with a friend, a bit pissed, talking - got winded, had to stop. Same thing next day uphill on phone.

I then tried to test myself walking up an INCREDIBLY steep hill with difficult foot markings and I did it but it was hard. Husband and kids tore up, annoyingly.

So, am I cardio unconditioned, as they say, or could there be something else?

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YelramBob · 13/12/2025 23:01

Walking up a steep hill is really difficult, most people would struggle with that.

You don't need to see a doctor, you just need to improve your fitness.

Catwoman8 · 13/12/2025 23:00

If you have a sedentary job and only go walking on flat roads, I am not surprised that a steep hill felt challenging. I broke a bone and had to stop playing netball for months, when I started playing again I was out of breath and felt unfit, my job is very sedentary too. You can lose it quickly, especially if you have a sedentary job. If you are concerned I would talk to a doctor, but I wouldn't completely rule out that it might just be a lack of fitness.

15minutesaday · 13/12/2025 22:53

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 22:33

I'm not sure what the difference is - I had to stop as I felt winded. That's the only way I can explain it

Out of breath = breathing really heavy and really quickly and your heart's off like the clappers but no discomfort.

Short of breath = feeling like you can't suck enough air into your lungs or there isn't enough space in your lungs for the amount of air you're trying to suck in - it feels tight and uncomfortable and you feel like if you could have a good cough that would sort it.

anothercortisolqueen · 13/12/2025 22:43

When I found out I had an overactive thyroid this was one of
my biggest symptoms, I used to be able to walk up flights of steps or steep hills without issue ( despite not really doing much cardio) and then all of a sudden I couldn’t and had to stop as felt super tired and winded almost. A visit to the doctors and a blood test might help?

Alpacajigsaw · 13/12/2025 22:41

Have you had your vitamin B12 checked?

FernwoodRydal · 13/12/2025 22:40

I'm not a doctor, but this could easily be anaemia. I'd say it's worth checking that as its a simple blood test. I have a medical condition that means I get anaemic easily and how easily I can walk up hills is the best way I've found to guess my haemoglobin status.

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 22:35

mindutopia · 13/12/2025 22:24

Are you regularly walking at pace up hills? If not, of course, it won’t be easy. Also, it sounds like in one instance, you were drunk. That will absolutely have an impact on your heart rate and respiration. Is drinking rare or a weekly/ more regular thing?

I’d start putting in time to build your stamina up. If you don’t use it, you lose it. I was diagnosed with cancer last year. It meant I was able to do pretty much nothing in terms of exercise. I was regularly doing 20 mile hilly hikes pre-diagnosis. After a year of no exercise, I finished treatment, but was winded and had to sit down and rest just walking a mile. But a month of regular walking 1-4 miles at a time, and I’m back to mostly normal. I mean, I couldn’t yet do 20 miles, but I can walk 4 again without having to stop and rest.

That's really great, well done. I'm sorry for what you've been though but I'm glad you're back on track.

No, I hardly ever drink and no, I rarely walk at pace up hills - or with other people, talking!

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Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 22:33

15minutesaday · 13/12/2025 22:19

@Mollytohiding When you say "got winded" do you mean out of breath or short of breath/tight chested?

The former would be normal if you've let your cardiorespiratory work slide, the latter indicates a problem.

I'm not sure what the difference is - I had to stop as I felt winded. That's the only way I can explain it

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LemaxObsessive · 13/12/2025 22:33

Crikey I get out of breath just turning over in bed. My dad died of congestive heart failure but not until he was 71. I’m 41

mindutopia · 13/12/2025 22:24

Are you regularly walking at pace up hills? If not, of course, it won’t be easy. Also, it sounds like in one instance, you were drunk. That will absolutely have an impact on your heart rate and respiration. Is drinking rare or a weekly/ more regular thing?

I’d start putting in time to build your stamina up. If you don’t use it, you lose it. I was diagnosed with cancer last year. It meant I was able to do pretty much nothing in terms of exercise. I was regularly doing 20 mile hilly hikes pre-diagnosis. After a year of no exercise, I finished treatment, but was winded and had to sit down and rest just walking a mile. But a month of regular walking 1-4 miles at a time, and I’m back to mostly normal. I mean, I couldn’t yet do 20 miles, but I can walk 4 again without having to stop and rest.

echt · 13/12/2025 22:24

@Mollytohiding I am not a doctor, but get checked out. I was, and am slim and fit. While this is anecdotal, at 67, I experienced a shortness of breath when going uphill on a road I use every day. Not panting, just a distinct intake that wasn't there before and immediately disappeared. I went to have it checked and nearly broke the bloody BP machine. My BP was though the roof after a lifetime of being on the low but OK side. I had an immediate EKG which showed an electrical issue which has a high correlation with cardiac issues.

Many more tests later and a mild dilated cardiomyopathy was identified. I'll be on medication for this for the rest of my life. I can do everything I used to do. The symptoms have never returned.

BTW, if you have an EKG, take a photo of the print out. It was the one thing all doctors wanted to look at as it showed the electrical fault.

15minutesaday · 13/12/2025 22:19

@Mollytohiding When you say "got winded" do you mean out of breath or short of breath/tight chested?

The former would be normal if you've let your cardiorespiratory work slide, the latter indicates a problem.

Sorryagain · 13/12/2025 22:14

MajesticWhine · 13/12/2025 21:45

My cousin around age 50 had treatment for narrowed arteries and the only sign of a problem was him getting unexpectedly out of breath. I would definitely get checked out by a doctor.

Unexpectedly - when he was exercising or general day to day?

travailtotravel · 13/12/2025 22:07

Slowly focus on being less sedentary - find a route of a set length eg 3 miles. Walk ot every day. At first it might take you an hour - but you'll soon be around in 40 mins which is manageable in your day IF you make it happen etc.

MajesticWhine · 13/12/2025 21:45

My cousin around age 50 had treatment for narrowed arteries and the only sign of a problem was him getting unexpectedly out of breath. I would definitely get checked out by a doctor.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 20:07

Isn't it normal to get out of breath when exercising? Otherwise it's not really exercising, is it?

TappaMcFeety · 13/12/2025 20:01

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 19:27

But maybe my walking hasn't been brisk or uphill enough. Or not enough of it. Some days, maybe a few on the trot, I don't walk because I'm so busy with work etc. You could have simply maintained better cardio fitness baseline

Not trying to justify or just say it's cardio but giving realistic pic. Of course, I will be discussing with GP

Very possibly but reading your OP it sounds like you should have a good baseline fitness wise with years of exercise behind you, or so I would have thought. I just think that at our age it’s best not to take any chances.

Terrytheweasel · 13/12/2025 19:30

Is it just when you’re walking and talking? I only notice it if I am chatting to someone.

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 19:27

TappaMcFeety · 13/12/2025 19:16

I’m mid 50s and I’ve done the same exercise wise, this last year very little cardio and more walking/weights. However, I am surrounded by hills and haven’t noticed myself getting out of breath whilst walking up them - I definitely think this as PPs have already suggested, that it’s worth a discussion with your GP.

But maybe my walking hasn't been brisk or uphill enough. Or not enough of it. Some days, maybe a few on the trot, I don't walk because I'm so busy with work etc. You could have simply maintained better cardio fitness baseline

Not trying to justify or just say it's cardio but giving realistic pic. Of course, I will be discussing with GP

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TappaMcFeety · 13/12/2025 19:16

I’m mid 50s and I’ve done the same exercise wise, this last year very little cardio and more walking/weights. However, I am surrounded by hills and haven’t noticed myself getting out of breath whilst walking up them - I definitely think this as PPs have already suggested, that it’s worth a discussion with your GP.

W0tnow · 13/12/2025 19:08

I dropped cardio pretty much too in favour of weights. Because, menopause, bone health, etc. I get it!

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 19:03

W0tnow · 13/12/2025 19:02

I find cardio drops off quite dramatically if you stop or cut down. It does come back quickly though. There is a steep set of steps quite close to me. I use it as a benchmark for my cardio fitness. You know, how I feel when I stride up it at pace. If I feel I need to stop, etc

I suspect I have completely underestimated what level of cardio I was at and what I needed to do to maintain it. I've done hardly anything really cardio for over a year or so.

I was stupid. But there were good reasons to focus on strength.

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W0tnow · 13/12/2025 19:02

I find cardio drops off quite dramatically if you stop or cut down. It does come back quickly though. There is a steep set of steps quite close to me. I use it as a benchmark for my cardio fitness. You know, how I feel when I stride up it at pace. If I feel I need to stop, etc

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 18:58

tipsyraven · 13/12/2025 18:44

Yes. I won’t go into details but do go and see your GP.

Thanks, for reasons I won't go into, I am mostly focused on it not being the heart - hence the query! Apologies and thanks

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tipsyraven · 13/12/2025 18:44

Mollytohiding · 13/12/2025 18:07

Thank you.
What sort of underlying problem? Like something connected to anaemia, but not the heart?

Yes. I won’t go into details but do go and see your GP.

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