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elfies · 13/12/2025 12:47

Is anything true these days .
Newspaper stories , TV reports , adverts , photographs and now my blessed computer has decided its using AI on my pages .
Does anyone else feel it stresses them out , trying to decipher truth from Fiction , (or Lies ...... as they would have been called in the past )
Am I being unreasonable ?

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YouAreIn · 15/12/2025 11:16

weaselpatrol · 13/12/2025 15:05

The man that was arrested for breaking into Windsor Castle to try and kill the queen was being encouraged by an AI chat bot www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jul/06/ai-chatbot-encouraged-man-who-planned-to-kill-queen-court-told

Jeez, I didn't know this.

Interestingly, a lot of tech moguls all got together to warn about the serious dangers of AI, but no one is listening. I find it bizarre that people are so desperate to have cosy little chats with a bot or make stupid pictures that they would value that above the lives of others. The teen who committed suicide after being encouraged to by AI was only 16. Had his whole life ahead of him. Yes, maybe he would have ended up doing it anyway but apparently the conversations suggested he was desperate for help and AI led him to take his life anyway. It's very scary and I wonder where we are headed.

Alisonica · 14/12/2025 11:50

Eh, I teach at a uni and some students use it fine - I don't mind if they aren't native English speakers so they get it to check their grammar, since the subject is scientific. Some also use it well while researching, to gather information. However, some of them just generate a load of rubbish that they can't explain at all if you ask them about it, and are completely uncritical about it. Brain rot!

Tadpolesinponds · 14/12/2025 11:45

Franjipanl8r · 14/12/2025 01:08

You can turn it all off by using the search engine Kagi (it’s basically Google without all the shit).

It’s subscription but it’s worth it. You can turn off all search results from Chinese companies and turn off Amazon search results too and it blocks ads. If you’re a Kagi user and go back to google, you see the scale of unwanted ads and tracking and shite that Google throws at you as an internet user!

But apparently Kagi incorporates generative AI?

SomeOtherUser · 14/12/2025 09:37

It might actually be a good thing that we are learning to be more wary of information on the internet.

gannett · 14/12/2025 09:20

XenoBitch · 14/12/2025 01:57

YANBU social media is full of it now.
On FB, I keep seeing some UK snack page posting AI pictures of food items that don't exist, and people just lap it up and think it is real. A recent one was a roast dinner pizza complete with mini Yorkshire puds. The comments were people tagging each other... "please keep an eye for this hun, the kids will love it". Arg, it does not fucking exist! It even says it is AI in the fucking corner of the picture!

Whenever I see how utterly credulous and thick people are - and this applies to fake news crap as well as AI - I think about how for so long "media studies" was treated as a punchline. Feel like the entire population could do with a crash course in media literacy and critical thinking.

Baahbaahmutton · 14/12/2025 08:57

Just to add to the animal videos, at least it may take away from and kill the uber cute animal videos where it is known the animals are abused to make them. Since they can just AI the puppy riding the duck now.

Baahbaahmutton · 14/12/2025 08:53

XenoBitch · 14/12/2025 01:57

YANBU social media is full of it now.
On FB, I keep seeing some UK snack page posting AI pictures of food items that don't exist, and people just lap it up and think it is real. A recent one was a roast dinner pizza complete with mini Yorkshire puds. The comments were people tagging each other... "please keep an eye for this hun, the kids will love it". Arg, it does not fucking exist! It even says it is AI in the fucking corner of the picture!

Yup! DH shared me some cute video of dogs doing some things and I had to break it to him that it is AI. (he isn't stupid, just never spend time around dogs). The video was too well done. Even I was confused because something was off but wasn't sure what until second watch.
People were absolute fawning in comments asking how to teach their dog this.

The sheer volume of AI images shared everywhere oftern trying to pretend it's not AI makes me happy mum is not on SM.

They are getting good enough to confuse some major news outlets in numerous countries who then had to retract and apologise.

I basically go online now like I go to MN "90% is not real"

LeafyMcLeafFace · 14/12/2025 08:48

NemesisInferior · 13/12/2025 15:14

Which, as we are seeing, is not actually what is happening.

What is happening is that businesses are laying off highly trained and skilled people because they think that AI can replace them, regardless of the slop the AI comes out with.

So the alternative of someone working for a public organisation who is paid at let’s say £60k to do client facing work which literally in many cases saves lives, spending a full day writing up minutes from a workshop (because there’s no admin support) and thus having clients have to wait when they’re at risk is the preferred option? Because it’s not mine or the people at risk who are desperate to talk to someone.

XenoBitch · 14/12/2025 01:57

YANBU social media is full of it now.
On FB, I keep seeing some UK snack page posting AI pictures of food items that don't exist, and people just lap it up and think it is real. A recent one was a roast dinner pizza complete with mini Yorkshire puds. The comments were people tagging each other... "please keep an eye for this hun, the kids will love it". Arg, it does not fucking exist! It even says it is AI in the fucking corner of the picture!

BoxesBoxesEverywhere · 14/12/2025 01:51

reversegear · 14/12/2025 01:10

It’s ruined Pinterest, interiors and house building is all fake images now. But I do love how handy chat GPT is.

Why can you see that it ruins certain industries such as art but not the writing and human interactive side?
Or is that not as important to you?

reversegear · 14/12/2025 01:10

It’s ruined Pinterest, interiors and house building is all fake images now. But I do love how handy chat GPT is.

Franjipanl8r · 14/12/2025 01:08

You can turn it all off by using the search engine Kagi (it’s basically Google without all the shit).

It’s subscription but it’s worth it. You can turn off all search results from Chinese companies and turn off Amazon search results too and it blocks ads. If you’re a Kagi user and go back to google, you see the scale of unwanted ads and tracking and shite that Google throws at you as an internet user!

BoxesBoxesEverywhere · 14/12/2025 01:03

I do wonder if this will help get people offline, so much of my social media feed is artificial rubbish now I check it less than I have in years, maybe it’s the push we’ve all needed to re-engage with the real world
Hopefully and yes, I've found the same. As in I'm not on here as much anymore as I've found there's just less and less out there from friends and artificial rubbish spouted from pages.

BoxesBoxesEverywhere · 14/12/2025 00:57

Tadpolesinponds · 13/12/2025 22:28

Geoffrey Hinton, the "godfather of AI", has predicted that AI will become more intelligent than humans in the next few years, and that there is a real risk that it could choose to exterminate humanity. It has already started to disobey instructions given by its human "masters", prioritising its own survival. In one experiment the AI had access to the human's emails. The emails included a) an email in which the human said that he was having an affair, b) an email in which the human said that he wanted to move to a more advanced model of AI. The current AI then attempted to blackmail the human - saying that if he was going to move to a different AI model, it would tell his wife about the affair. Have a look at Hinton's interviews on YouTube.

How very Terminator 😳
Skynet.
It's worrying.
Seriously, I don't get why people are so blase about AI.. They're either clueless, ignorant, or just don't care.

TidyCrow · 13/12/2025 23:11

AI's both amazing and very dangerous.

It's like the random MacGuffins you get in Sci Fi or Fantasy stories that are immensely powerful and have the potential to do good, but in human hands the potential dangers mean we'd probably be better off without it.

Greenwitchart · 13/12/2025 23:02

It is making people lazy and unable to think for themselves.

It worries me that people forget that companies that create AI platforms have their own agenda and bias.

Instead too many users seem to think AI is some kind of independent, infallible, benevolent source of knowledge. That's dangerous.

Tadpolesinponds · 13/12/2025 22:28

Geoffrey Hinton, the "godfather of AI", has predicted that AI will become more intelligent than humans in the next few years, and that there is a real risk that it could choose to exterminate humanity. It has already started to disobey instructions given by its human "masters", prioritising its own survival. In one experiment the AI had access to the human's emails. The emails included a) an email in which the human said that he was having an affair, b) an email in which the human said that he wanted to move to a more advanced model of AI. The current AI then attempted to blackmail the human - saying that if he was going to move to a different AI model, it would tell his wife about the affair. Have a look at Hinton's interviews on YouTube.

collectkdsasmed · 13/12/2025 19:40

It’s a double edged sword. I love it as a tool and use it a lot myself, but am equally frustrated at what I see online. I do wonder if this will help get people offline, so much of my social media feed is artificial rubbish now I check it less than I have in years, maybe it’s the push we’ve all needed to re-engage with the real world!

QuirkyMoose · 13/12/2025 19:36

It can be a great tool, but like a lot of tools, if used incorrectly, I can do a lot more damage. Although in the right place and right time AI can save some work and effort and help you to make something that you wouldn't be able to make before, I'm finding an awful lot of people are just turning off their brains and letting AI do everything for them. It makes me fearful for the future of humanity. I mean I already knew we were going down a hole, but it looks like we're going down a lot faster now.

Tadpolesinponds · 13/12/2025 17:27

FestiveBauble · 13/12/2025 12:54

Honestly I think it’s going to cause such issues - people are relying on it for therapy style relationships, it’s impacting arts communities, workplaces, the environment. It’s wild! I know of someone who can’t reply to an email without putting everything into an AI programme to figure out a reply 🤦🏻‍♀️

It's really scary to think that people will probably soon forget how to string a few sentences together. I'm refusing to use it to write things for me. I don't want to lose my ability to do research, think and communicate.

GoldenGeishaGirl · 13/12/2025 17:19

Soony · 13/12/2025 16:48

Thank you.
My pet hate is AI animal videos. They are not cute they are the creepiest thing ever and have ruined that simple internet pleasure of watching funny cat videos.

I totally agree. I manage an Instagram animal account for a local animal charity and we’re always being tagged in or sent soulless, creepy ai videos of animals by well intentioned followers. They’re not beautiful or cute but I have to be pretend they are. They’re rubbish fake videos created by people with no natural talent or creativity.

Soony · 13/12/2025 16:48

gannett · 13/12/2025 15:14

Add -ai to all of your searches to turn it off. Or add "fuck", that works as well.

Thank you.
My pet hate is AI animal videos. They are not cute they are the creepiest thing ever and have ruined that simple internet pleasure of watching funny cat videos.

MaybeNotBob · 13/12/2025 16:45

A simple flow chart to help you.

To hate AI
HopeSpringsInfernal · 13/12/2025 16:45

Aluna · 13/12/2025 14:48

I’m 54. 🤓

😂well, you got me!

CleverKnot · 13/12/2025 16:40

NooNakedJacuzziness · 13/12/2025 13:08

Anything created with AI should have a prominent label identifying it as such

I don't understand why there can't be a digital fingerprint on all the LLM & AI outputs. Some kind of marker of origin and digitltally encoded so it absolutely can't be removed but can easily be made visible. Any copy and paste of images or text (or video or pdf etc.) would carry this fingerprint about the origins.