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Hair cut and colour now exceeds what I earn in a day. Absolutely fed up.

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Burntout01 · 12/12/2025 21:38

Obviously everything is going up and up. Just went to book hairdressers- I don’t go often , maybe every four months since I went grey ( used to box dye it for 30 years before that). Its my one bit of self care.
Cost has jumped from £120 to over £170 since I last had it done in September. For full head highlights for chin length bobbed hair plus wash and rough blow dry.
It’s not that I don’t believe its worth that price and I am not knocking my hairdresser, its not about that. But I am a senior NHS nurse with 30 years experience. My job has taken a lot from me and my family. I take home £150 a day. The hair appt is 2.5 hours.
I just cannot justify the expense for myself any more.

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Greenwitchart · 13/12/2025 10:56

I agree with you.

I now colour my own hair because of the cost but also because I did not think that the colouring I was getting at a salon for an all over colour was any better than what I could do at home!

Ultimately businesses who charge silly prices will just keep losing clients.

BustopherPonsonbyJones · 13/12/2025 10:51

Regardless of their overheads or the relative imbalance in pensions, the increased costs are pricing out more and more of the market. Good pensions don’t give spare cash now. No one is winning and it’s a game of last man standing. We will see more and more people with dodgy teeth, home cut/dyed hair and spectacles fixed with plasters, just like the 1970s. I would guess there will be a number of non-essential service providers who will close as they lose the next income band of customers.

Helpisneeded100 · 13/12/2025 10:49

Hi Op,

sorry I haven’t read the full thread, not sure if this has been suggested. An option could be to take up private work as a nurse to increase your hours? This would be better paid then the NHS or you could do beauty treatments from your home for example Botox etc. More people would likely come to you than a beautician as you are a nurse.

HereIfYouNeedMe · 13/12/2025 10:40

Just cancelled mine, £90 for all over brown. Going to have to do it myself

Yellow544 · 13/12/2025 10:39

Monty34 · 13/12/2025 09:39

Most hairdressers are self employed and rent out the space. So no staff to pay. No NI contributions. Just rent ( which will no doubt be included in the space rental costs) tax and electricity and so on.

They will still have to pay for products, equipment, an accountant, their own pensions, money for sick days, holidays etc.

ChangeIsDue · 13/12/2025 10:36

I alternate ‘highlights’ appointments with ‘just the roots coloured’ appointments and that makes it a bit cheaper. It works for my colouring. Could that be an option for you?

usernamealreadytaken · 13/12/2025 10:20

Burntout01 · 12/12/2025 22:07

I understand re overheads although my hairdresser rents a chair. My pension wont be that good as I have worked part time for the majority of my career and its calculated on ‘whole time equivalent years service’. And much of my pension is under the newer less valuable scheme. In addition I pay professional subscriptions, use of my car costs me a significant amount (I am community based so have to have/ use my car- last month they reimbursed me £27)..

If your contract states that you are community based not office/equivalent based then your employer cannot reasonably deduct your home/office/home mileage from your claim, and yo should clarify that with HR and your manager. If you're claiming the 59p per mile you may be taxed on the amount over HMRC max.

TheFairyCaravan · 13/12/2025 10:17

crossedlines · 13/12/2025 09:53

Just repeating this.

I have huge respect for those working in the NHS, but the OP is not on a pittance. 3k take home a month is decent money.

Exactly.

DS2 and DDIL are both band 6 nurses, DS2 will be starting a band 7 job after Christmas, and they are absolutely not on the breadline. DDIL works part time, two 12 hour shifts a week plus one Sunday a month. DS2 does full time, he does do quite a few nights. They own their own home, not in a particularly cheap area of the country, don’t forego haircuts or new clothes. DGS has a nice little life too.

I do hate threads like this, though. People always grumble about the price of haircuts and nails etc but the women, and it is mainly women, who are doing these jobs are not doing them as a hobby. They still have overheads, families to feeds, houses to pay for and cars to run. You don’t have to go, no one is forcing you to.

listmaker1981 · 13/12/2025 10:07

I go to a local salon, full head foils with a cut and blow dry is £60. I would expect a more expensive salon to be £110. £170 seems an awful lot

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 13/12/2025 10:01

A few women I know who have family outside the south east will have their hair done while visiting. Half the price and usually a better job.

Geranium879 · 13/12/2025 10:00

which home colours have you tried ?

crossedlines · 13/12/2025 09:53

crossedlines · 13/12/2025 08:10

@Burntout01you say you take home £150 a day. That’s £3000 take home per month. I know a hairdresser appointment seems a lot but you’re completing ignoring all the overheads which are clearly outlined on this thread.

if you only work part time, I can totally see why you might struggle but then tbh working part time is a luxury in itself.

Just repeating this.

I have huge respect for those working in the NHS, but the OP is not on a pittance. 3k take home a month is decent money.

BeepBoopBop · 13/12/2025 09:52

€50 here in France cut & colour to my medium length greying hair. Lovely English lady in her home salon. I just don’t have time to get there this week 😢
I’m back to the UK next week and will be paying about £240 to my UK salon based hairdresser. Yes, the colour(s) are slightly better, but £200 better? UK has more expenses involved, but it’s literally 5 x more expensive and I can’t justify it any longer.
It may be my last UK cut & colour.

Monty34 · 13/12/2025 09:50

With any service there will be a price point over which people will not pay. It can depend on location, how good you are, how nice where you work is, the ambience.
If hairdressers get enough custom and can charge around £150 upwards for a highlight and cut and blow dry they will continue to do so. They will charge as much as they can.
If people don't pay it, they have to drop their prices if they want the custom.

Starship74 · 13/12/2025 09:48

This is one of the reasons I also didn't replace the cleaner when she left - just can't justify the cost anymore and I'd rather do it myself.

OhDear111 · 13/12/2025 09:42

@Monty34 No. Most are not working like this at all! The standard hairdresser has overheads. The renting a chair has costs! Plus the self employed have no pension at all unless they pay 100% of the contributions. Rental prices include heat, water, council tax, cleaning, etc. The premises have costs, and they are high!

ChristmasinBrighton · 13/12/2025 09:42

I go to a salon about six miles outside the city and pay £120 for cut and highlights. I don’t pay for blow dry though.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 13/12/2025 09:42

Burntout01 · 12/12/2025 21:38

Obviously everything is going up and up. Just went to book hairdressers- I don’t go often , maybe every four months since I went grey ( used to box dye it for 30 years before that). Its my one bit of self care.
Cost has jumped from £120 to over £170 since I last had it done in September. For full head highlights for chin length bobbed hair plus wash and rough blow dry.
It’s not that I don’t believe its worth that price and I am not knocking my hairdresser, its not about that. But I am a senior NHS nurse with 30 years experience. My job has taken a lot from me and my family. I take home £150 a day. The hair appt is 2.5 hours.
I just cannot justify the expense for myself any more.

Mine is £85ish for full head colour, cut and blow dryer. I have lots of hair and will take 3-4 tubes of colour which are £10ish each. It takes 2.5 hours too. This is a fairly standard amount to pay around me. It’s sounds like the labour part of yours is 3-4* as expensive. Maybe time for a new hairdressser? We live in an affluent ish part of Yorkshire.

Isobel201 · 13/12/2025 09:41

I'm having full head highlights today, £80 and a free cut thrown in if I want it. Hair dresser rents a chair in a salon.

Ginmonkeyagain · 13/12/2025 09:40

You could go to a college. Mr Monkey started getting his hair and beard done for free at a barbers training college when he was out of work but continued to go by choice. They are supervised by a teacher so no horrors, but it does take longer than the usual appointment.

Monty34 · 13/12/2025 09:39

OhDear111 · 12/12/2025 21:53

It’s a business. It has to make a profit and pay staff, electricity, NI contributions, rent, Council tax, products, and other overheads. Nurses don’t pay any of these. You could possibly find cheaper but the high street will go if we all bail out. Their costs aren’t their fault. £150 take home is decent. How many days do you work? What band are you on? I think your take home is decent and I bet your pension will be amazing in comparison to a hairdresser.

Most hairdressers are self employed and rent out the space. So no staff to pay. No NI contributions. Just rent ( which will no doubt be included in the space rental costs) tax and electricity and so on.

SoInLuv · 13/12/2025 09:38

ThatCalmFinch · 12/12/2025 21:45

Find a hairdresser who works from home they tend to be cheaper.

Exactly! Im in the UK and I've found a mobile hairdresser who is very good and who sometimes takes clients in at two different salons which look lovely and cozy etc plus the price you pay (at the salon) is exactly the same as when she comes to your house. I've had a haircut and colour for 60 pounds. And yes, I'm in London. For an ombré it would be around 80 pounds without a cut. For highlights similar. Same results as paying £150 + at salons my friends go to!

OkWinifred · 13/12/2025 09:35

It’s well worth doing some legwork, as they’ll some excellent well trained hairdressers that work from home. Look them up in your local area.

HollyChristmas · 13/12/2025 09:34

I had mine done on Tuesday cut and colour with highlights , in a salon . I'm in Cumbria and was £65 .

Berlinlover · 13/12/2025 09:31

TheTowerAtMidnight · 12/12/2025 21:57

No-one is forcing you to get your hair coloured. Embrace the grey, it's a very chic look these days.

To you maybe.