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To be frustrated by the reactions to the current news stories around the current flu?

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TooHotWaterBottle · 12/12/2025 16:52

I took charge of my own health and got the flu jab back in October. I get a voucher through work but would have paid it myself anyway.

It’s frustrating to see the panic now people are seeing it in the news given flu is a risK EVERY. SINGLE. YEAR.

“I’m vulnerable, I don’t normally have the flu jab but it is bad this year - where can I find somewhere with the jab in stock?” - no-one knows how bad the flu is going to be each year, so you’re taking a risk if you don’t have it when you’re offered.

”why haven’t the government provided more stocks of the vaccine” - probably from the same people slating the covid vaccine

“the flu is so bad this year, I don’t know how ill
manage if I get it as I’m a single parent” - see above. Get yourself vaccinated early if you’re a carer of any sort.

All the laughing emojis on any SM posts about masks being worn in hospitals - why the fuck wouldn’t you want to take reasonable precautions to avoid getting/transmitting the flu/covid in an environment where people are clinically vulnerable? It is a sorry state of the world.

The panic for vaccines (probably from those slating the covid vaccine) - the jab takes TWO WEEKS to take effect fully, meaning it’s not going to be of much help to you right now (though it will be of course for Christmas, so people should still get it if they can)

AIBU to think people should take more proactive and preventative responsibility for their own health for a KNOWN ANNUAL RISK and can’t really moan if they’ve not bothered until the last minute?

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Poms · 12/12/2025 17:07

I think this post is based on your self-perceived moral superiority, and a not so subtle ‘told you so’

KitsyWitsy · 12/12/2025 17:06

My reaction was to go get the vaccine.

Poms · 12/12/2025 17:05

TooHotWaterBottle · 12/12/2025 17:02

There are numerous posts from people who clearly can afford a vaccine (or are eligible for a free one). They just didn’t choose to get it earlier.

Again, you’re just jumping to conclusions. I doubt you could point to “numerous posts”

Duckyfondant · 12/12/2025 17:05

I don't think it's that simple. I had loads of trouble booking for the jab privately last year and some years it's not found to be that effective anyway. It seems this year it's particularly important/helpful and people are seeing that now

TooHotWaterBottle · 12/12/2025 17:02

There are numerous posts from people who clearly can afford a vaccine (or are eligible for a free one). They just didn’t choose to get it earlier.

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NotSorry · 12/12/2025 16:58

I agree OP, my husband is on chemo and we’ve all had the flu and Covid jab in our house (weeks ago) but all of this in the news is making me feel really anxious for him. Don’t know what else we can do to mitigate, we’re trying to avoid busy places, wear masks and have a low key Christmas to get through it,

sprigatito · 12/12/2025 16:57

You’re in a position of privilege to be able to fund your own vaccine. Oddly enough, the kind of people who need one but aren’t offered it free are often marginalised , especially those with poor health or disability that doesn’t qualify for any help under the current rules. They can’t just cough up. And if the strain going round doesn’t match this year’s vaccine, then it’s tough luck for a lot of vulnerable people even if they do qualify for the vaccine programme.

I agree with you about the sneering at masks, but I’m not sure your post is much better.

TooHotWaterBottle · 12/12/2025 16:55

MidnightPatrol · 12/12/2025 16:53

YABU

Why?

OP posts:
Poms · 12/12/2025 16:55

“The panic for vaccines (probably from those slating the covid vaccine)” what is your evidence for this assumption?

MidnightPatrol · 12/12/2025 16:53

YABU

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