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What age did you have your kids?

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Lacatrina · 12/12/2025 14:04

What age did you have your kids and would you say it was before, bang on or over average age wise?

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DramaAlpaca · 12/12/2025 14:10

I was 29, 30 and 33. I think it was about average for the time, the mid-90s, and the perfect timing for me.

AhBiscuits · 12/12/2025 14:10

35 and 37.
On the older side but it was the right time for me.

balkanscot · 12/12/2025 14:09

First and last: at 40 and wasn’t considered a geriatric mother (I think 41 was the cut off point). My mum had me when she was 36. She was considered well over the hill/geriatric. That was in 1972.

Girasoli · 12/12/2025 14:09

I've got a friend whose got a teen, a primary aged child, and a toddler - am v. Impressed that she's not permanently exhausted tbh.

Iloveeverycat · 12/12/2025 14:08

30,33 35, 4 kids perfect.

Girasoli · 12/12/2025 14:07

28 and 32, a little earlier than average. Still considering one more - would be 38 then.

Whereismyfleeceblanket · 12/12/2025 14:07

I've had dc in my teen's, 20's, 30's and last dc at 43.... Pro's and cons to all ages.

Ime.

AgentPidge · 12/12/2025 14:07

I was 34 (twins). It was in the '90s and at the time I was considered a 'geriatric mother'. I think it was about the right time, as DH wouldn't have been ready earlier (he was 32).

ByLemonFish · 12/12/2025 14:06

17 and 29

Sesma · 12/12/2025 14:06

34, a bit later than average in the early 90s, I chose to just have one

Loveduppenguin · 12/12/2025 14:06

27 and 30…slightly before average I think