So my daughter’father’ sees her at my place once or twice a week at best, pretty much sits on his phone and barks out orders. Last night he decided he was in a bad mood and started on my two year old daughter, the most used phrase was NO and she was getting as sick of it as I was, by 9pm she was still up uncontrollably crying as he was laying down the law and then saying to me I’m too soft on her and she should be in her own bed and physically trying to pick her up and throw her in bed while loosing his temper. I told him to leave and he was like I’m sorting this out forst, even though making it ten time worse. Eventually after successfully kicking him out, it took an hour to settle down and go to sleep and I received a whole load of abusive messages. My only reply was if you want to lay the law down you need to have more contact with her, but don’t ever come in my home accusing me of not parenting correctly and upsetting her he generally scared her.