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Fed up of hearing about the flu

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SpoonBaloon · 11/12/2025 16:46

I know I’m being unreasonable but am I the only one who’s getting wound up by the constant coverage of the flu on every national news outlet?

It is December. Of course the flu is going around! Every winter we hear about the NHS being overwhelmed.

I can accept minor coverage but it’s been the main story for days on end and it doesn’t seem like it’s going to stop! And I know the flu kills and people need to be aware to take precautions but surely people don’t need it to be pointed out to them that they have an increased chance of catching the cold or flu in the run up to Christmas?

I was deathly ill with it last year but luckily have managed to avoid it up to now.

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Sharptonguedwoman · 12/12/2025 17:13

howtoprotect · 11/12/2025 16:57

I’m sceptical to be honest. Everywhere I go everyone seems to be coughing, apparently this strain of flu isn’t completely covered by the vaccine and it can also have other symptoms such as GI issues . I think it’s just Covid and we are being misled (not sure why as I don’t think one is worse than the other)

Possibly both, I got Covid, DD got flu, friend got flu. All at the same time. Been a month and still coughing.

PumpkinHedgehog · 12/12/2025 17:11

The NHS should have capacity by design. It’s always at breaking point. Hopefully the doctors will accept the new offer and call off the strike.

Umidontknow · 12/12/2025 17:03

Tdcp · 12/12/2025 16:55

My friend is an a&e nurse. They've been at breaking point for weeks as flu season started early and it still hasn't peaked. Your comment is more than incorrect, it's naive.

They are at "breaking point" every year. They are just pushing it more this year to get the uptake of the vaccine back up. A lot of people became sceptical (I am not antivax). But this does happen every year. I feel very sorry for the people on the front line in the NHS because it is a mess, but this situation is not new.

Tdcp · 12/12/2025 16:55

Umidontknow · 12/12/2025 15:38

A couple of years after a "pandemic" the hospitals shouldn't be overwhelmed. Also thousands die from flu every year. Levels haven't really changed much. Its scaremongering.

My friend is an a&e nurse. They've been at breaking point for weeks as flu season started early and it still hasn't peaked. Your comment is more than incorrect, it's naive.

ChocolateSnow · 12/12/2025 16:53

I have just booked jabs for my husband and two adult daughters for next week. I messaged my cousin who is a professor in infectious diseases in a teaching hospital. My daughters are mid 20s, similar age to his kids. He told me that there was not a compelling argument to get these 20-somethings vaccinated and not to bother. He said the flu jab was not very effective this year. I am now unsure as to what the right thing to do is.

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:34

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:20

My hair instantly went curly and sort of woolly and I felt compelled to get out of a taxi in Hyde Park and munch some grass. You might want to keep any eye out for similar.

ive always wanted curly hair

the80sweregreat · 12/12/2025 16:33

I wish I’d gone to Morrisons ! I paid 22 for my one yesterday.

bonesandbooth2025 · 12/12/2025 16:29

morrisons said they have plenty of flu vaccines
asked just now

Fed up of hearing about the flu
GlomOfNit · 12/12/2025 16:28

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 12/12/2025 05:41

@GlomOfNit I know you have one now but did you try small private pharmacies ?

Actually I don't have one! Bloody Boots either balls'd up with their availability or realised they didn't have enough vaccine to fulfil new orders and they sent us a 'thank you for cancelling your appointment' email, which was somewhat bewildering as we hadn't!

Anyway, I'm chasing up our small local pharmacy - they said they were trying to source some today and I should ring on Monday morning. Fingers crossed...

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:28

ifitsallthesametoyouilltakethesoup · 12/12/2025 16:23

Oh that sounds baad.

😂

Actually, I'm just pleased to fit in with the flock.

ifitsallthesametoyouilltakethesoup · 12/12/2025 16:23

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:20

My hair instantly went curly and sort of woolly and I felt compelled to get out of a taxi in Hyde Park and munch some grass. You might want to keep any eye out for similar.

Oh that sounds baad.

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:20

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:11

Oooh what’s going to happen to me now I’ve had my vax? Should I be looking out for a thing in particular?

My hair instantly went curly and sort of woolly and I felt compelled to get out of a taxi in Hyde Park and munch some grass. You might want to keep any eye out for similar.

gamerchick · 12/12/2025 16:12

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

It's sheeple! Do better!

MsVisual · 12/12/2025 16:12

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

The mortality rate in sheep is much reduced when they are vaccinated.

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:11

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

Oooh what’s going to happen to me now I’ve had my vax? Should I be looking out for a thing in particular?

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:10

I sympathise. I am vulnerable and do is my DH. It’s important to get the message out but the click /fear/rage bait of the internet has changed mainstream news. Everything, including the weather, is now scary.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 12/12/2025 15:45

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

Ahhh, the old cryptic ‘I’m so enlightened’ which usually comes before the person falls prey to their own stupidity.

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

Umidontknow · 12/12/2025 15:38

A couple of years after a "pandemic" the hospitals shouldn't be overwhelmed. Also thousands die from flu every year. Levels haven't really changed much. Its scaremongering.

the80sweregreat · 12/12/2025 15:33

Every time I’ve been near an A and E department ( last time was end of October ) it’s been an absolute nightmare , so goodness knows what it is like now :(
Fighting fire with fire most of the time it seems.
it’s so sad it’s like this now.

Badbadbunny · 12/12/2025 13:54

YABU because it's not just people with flu who are affected. What do you think will happen if you get seriously ill with something else or have an accident? You'll probably spend hours stuck in an ambulance (or waiting for one) then a few days stuck on a chair in A&E being ignored whilst they deal with dozens of other patients before you. It IS a massive problem because it's taking a lot of NHS resources away from other patients/treatments. Hospitals are cancelling non urgent appointments/treatments due to lack of staff (not just staff off with flu doing those appointments, but also staff being re-allocated to other departments). We ALL need to take it seriously, especially taking better personal hygiene precautions.

Xmasdemon · 12/12/2025 13:46

The vaccine doesn't stop you getting it or spreading it

KeepPumping · 12/12/2025 13:29

Oneearringlost · 12/12/2025 11:39

Why, I'm interested why you hold that level of mistrust and scepticism? I worry about how and why we are developing such cynicism.
@Pigeonsandgiraffees was a very good post and very balanced.
I worry that some people are accessing their information from unreliable sources and sometimes that information in absolutely wrong.

Am I right or wrong to say that the vaccine doesn"t stop you spreading it to others?

KeepPumping · 12/12/2025 13:28

LoveItaly · 12/12/2025 00:23

Indian MoD 2.99m
US DoD 2.93m
Chinese PLA 2.55m
Walmart 2.3m
Amazon 1.61m
PetroChina1.45m

So the first three are defence, something that successive UK governments have been happily underfunding. What a mess this country is in.

Very interesting thanks, scary how big Walmart and Amazon are, I know Walmart has been around a long time though, wonder who number 8 is, Birmingham council?

Oneearringlost · 12/12/2025 11:39

Crunchymum · 12/12/2025 11:12

Thanks for the explanation (I asked all the way back on page one what the point of the vaccination was if it doesn't actually protect against the problematic strain).

I'm by no means an anti vaxxer but I now consider myself skeptical (and very jaded!!) after Covid. I just don't feel the same level of trust.

I wonder if this sort of feeling - on a greater scale - is why flu vaccine uptake has been lower over the past few years? We no longer trust the people telling us to vaccinate and we no longer trust the stats the media pump out?

Why, I'm interested why you hold that level of mistrust and scepticism? I worry about how and why we are developing such cynicism.
@Pigeonsandgiraffees was a very good post and very balanced.
I worry that some people are accessing their information from unreliable sources and sometimes that information in absolutely wrong.

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