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Fed up of hearing about the flu

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SpoonBaloon · 11/12/2025 16:46

I know I’m being unreasonable but am I the only one who’s getting wound up by the constant coverage of the flu on every national news outlet?

It is December. Of course the flu is going around! Every winter we hear about the NHS being overwhelmed.

I can accept minor coverage but it’s been the main story for days on end and it doesn’t seem like it’s going to stop! And I know the flu kills and people need to be aware to take precautions but surely people don’t need it to be pointed out to them that they have an increased chance of catching the cold or flu in the run up to Christmas?

I was deathly ill with it last year but luckily have managed to avoid it up to now.

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Sesma · 11/12/2025 19:07

Some of it is to try and persuade the doctors not to strike, maybe if they keep saying how bad it is they think they will not strike.

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:06

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:50

For goodness sake. Whatever it is you want, be it lockdown, then do feel free to lock yourself away from active society and mask up. You won't be judged.

I never needed your permission to do anything. The topic is flu and media coverage

lifeonmars100 · 11/12/2025 19:06

Cynic17 · 11/12/2025 17:30

The media made Covid out to be much worse than it actually was. Now they are doing the same with the current strain of flu.
Let's not fall for it again!
Some of us will get it & some of us won't. Then we'll all move on. That's it - no need for drama.

Well you are a real cynic aren't you? I am sure the families and friends who were bereaved by Covid will disagree , but what do they know compared to you?

Lilifer · 11/12/2025 19:05

Sahara123 · 11/12/2025 17:10

The uptake of the flu vaccine this year has been extremely low for some reason

But isn’t it given in all primary schools? It is here in Northern Ireland

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:04

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:58

Yes it’s a problem for the hospitals. It’s not something that’s going to kill us all.

Oh well, if we aren’t ALL going to die…then so many things aren’t important …🤦‍♀️I’ll leave you to your relativism

Thank heaven for qualified people, experts and scientists …and sometimes a concerned public health strategy ♥️

NineteenSeventies · 11/12/2025 19:04

AInightingale · 11/12/2025 18:55

Do you know what the criteria are for receiving an NHS jab in a pharmacy in NI? If you are a carer/ in receipt of Carer's Allowance does this count? Because we've got FA chance of getting through to the GP, tbh.

These are the general NHS UK guidelines - there is no caveat about regional variations. Carers are eligible if they care for an older or disabled person or receive carer's allowance. I had mine at a pharmacy and while they grilled me about the Covid jab I had originally been booked in for (and wouldn't give it to me as I no longer met the criteria) they gave me the flu jab readily.

  • are aged 65 or over (including those who will be 65 by 31 March 2026)
  • have certain long-term health conditions
  • are pregnant
  • live in a care home
  • are the main carer for an older or disabled person, or receive a carer's allowance
  • live with someone who has a weakened immune system
Xmasdemon · 11/12/2025 19:04

The vaccine isn't working

newbluesofa · 11/12/2025 19:03

I'm fed up of hearing people talk about how they're not getting themselves or their children vaccinated. Maybe we wouldn't be hearing about the flu so much if people actually got vaccinated.

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:03

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:00

You’ve stopped musing about your pretend qualifications as an immunologist and now you are a public health expert…the biggest threat to obese people is weight stigma which you add to. Children’s teeth?!! 🤦‍♀️

I am obese. I am aware of how bad it is for my health. I am also not blind to what is happening in society.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 19:02

I've just heard the news on the radio "An EXPLOSION of flu cases TEARING through hospitals." You have language like this being used in flu season and people wonder why there's so much hysteria. It's absolutely f'king pathetic,

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:01

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:59

The NHS is heavily rationed healthcare with a box-ticking culture, which then leads to bed-blocking and lengthy handovers. Combine that with people clogging up A&E because their GP fobbed them off.

Are you starting a new thread? The topic was flu and media coverage

BoredZelda · 11/12/2025 19:00

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:58

Yes it’s a problem for the hospitals. It’s not something that’s going to kill us all.

Unless you need hospital care tonight.

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:00

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:57

Of course they are. Obesity rates have risen. In 2020 35k children had teeth removed at hospital. In 2025 that was 47k. More people than ever are on prescription medications. Mental health has tanked. It all points to a generally more unhealthy society.

You’ve stopped musing about your pretend qualifications as an immunologist and now you are a public health expert…the biggest threat to obese people is weight stigma which you add to. Children’s teeth?!! 🤦‍♀️

smallglassbottle · 11/12/2025 19:00

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 11/12/2025 17:54

I'm not a vaccine sceptic - got mine ages ago and have finally convinced my husband to let me take our son.

But I do think that unfortunately, the "the Nhs is on it's knees" line has been played one too many times to work in public messaging.

The NHS is on its knees permanently and people can't access help for even serious illness, so what's the difference? You either die or you don't, but it's all a lottery regardless.

BoredZelda · 11/12/2025 19:00

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 18:50

I have to say I’m with you OP and I’m not usually like this.

I was getting worried about it until the news said the “crisis” is c2000 patients in hospital with flu. Last year it was 800.

from the dramatic coverage I was expecting at least 200,000 😱

There are an estimated 5000 critical care beds in the U.K. If half of them are taken up with flu patients, that’s a problem. It not only impacts on emergent patients, it means routine surgeries are cancelled as there has to be critical care beds available for post operative patients. This means the already massive waiting lists will grow ever longer. Add to that a shortage of staff due to illness, and the fact those cases won’t be spread across the country, but will be where there are major outbreaks, that makes a threefold increase in hospitalisations a crisis.

notatinydancer · 11/12/2025 18:59

howtoprotect · 11/12/2025 17:02

I’ve read in various places that this strain has mutated and although the vaccine offers some protection it’s not as good as it could be ? I can’t remember where but I’ve read this in a few places

The vaccines never cover all strains.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:59

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:57

Where do you thing 1,200 extra beds to treat those people come from? What does their loss of availability affect?

It’s not complicated ..how many beds does your local hospital have? The NHS have said the equivalent of THREE full NHS hospitals are occupied by flu inpatients…the result of that is delays in A&E….which leads to …preventable deaths, cancelled planned surgeries which leads to delays and deaths…

A child could understand this is a problem

The NHS is heavily rationed healthcare with a box-ticking culture, which then leads to bed-blocking and lengthy handovers. Combine that with people clogging up A&E because their GP fobbed them off.

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:58

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:57

Where do you thing 1,200 extra beds to treat those people come from? What does their loss of availability affect?

It’s not complicated ..how many beds does your local hospital have? The NHS have said the equivalent of THREE full NHS hospitals are occupied by flu inpatients…the result of that is delays in A&E….which leads to …preventable deaths, cancelled planned surgeries which leads to delays and deaths…

A child could understand this is a problem

Yes it’s a problem for the hospitals. It’s not something that’s going to kill us all.

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:57

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 18:50

I have to say I’m with you OP and I’m not usually like this.

I was getting worried about it until the news said the “crisis” is c2000 patients in hospital with flu. Last year it was 800.

from the dramatic coverage I was expecting at least 200,000 😱

Where do you thing 1,200 extra beds to treat those people come from? What does their loss of availability affect?

It’s not complicated ..how many beds does your local hospital have? The NHS have said the equivalent of THREE full NHS hospitals are occupied by flu inpatients…the result of that is delays in A&E….which leads to …preventable deaths, cancelled planned surgeries which leads to delays and deaths…

A child could understand this is a problem

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:57

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:48

“No but” ???…..you aren’t an immunologist and your conclusion aren’t remotely reasonable

Of course they are. Obesity rates have risen. In 2020 35k children had teeth removed at hospital. In 2025 that was 47k. More people than ever are on prescription medications. Mental health has tanked. It all points to a generally more unhealthy society.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:56

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 11/12/2025 18:52

Even in healthy people, flu can lead to sepsis. Flu can cause secondary infections such as pneumonia which can then lead to sepsis. A bad bout of flu, even in an otherwise healthy individual with no comorbidities, can cause a catastrophic outcome as it can put immense strain on the immune system.

Ah so that's the how. Sepsis is a secondary problem. That's how flu can lead to organ failure and limb amputations, right, now it makes sense. Thanks for not belittling me.

AInightingale · 11/12/2025 18:55

Cherryblossom99 · 11/12/2025 17:14

All Boots around here are out and here in NI we don’t have pharmacies in Tesco or Asda. I rang a pharmacy earlier to try and get one and they are only doing them for those eligible on NHS

Do you know what the criteria are for receiving an NHS jab in a pharmacy in NI? If you are a carer/ in receipt of Carer's Allowance does this count? Because we've got FA chance of getting through to the GP, tbh.

PaisleyGilmourStreet · 11/12/2025 18:54

The trajectory is the same as last season, the only difference is that the season has started earlier (something which isn't unheard of).
The media is whipping up hysteria, click bait if you like. It's irresponsible, because we're already seeing restrictions akin to covid restrictions - visiting being suspended in hospitals, two localities in Scotland have reintroduced online learning. Vaccine stocks are running low too, because people for whom it's not deemed necessary are hoovering it up. The scare mongering will hit retail and hospitality.
I don't think it's a coincidence either that the government is making big on flu at a time when they're desperate to influence public opinion on the doctors strikes.

You are not being unreasonable.

DeanElderberry · 11/12/2025 18:53

Teleporter · 11/12/2025 18:52

He didn’t leave bed he was found with hypothermia and rushed to hospital.

That's so sad. It's an illness to be taken seriously.

the80sweregreat · 11/12/2025 18:53

Nobody is going to do lockdown again.
I do feel that there would be a riot if anyone suggested this. I feel sorry for the staff in the hospitals.