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Fed up of hearing about the flu

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SpoonBaloon · 11/12/2025 16:46

I know I’m being unreasonable but am I the only one who’s getting wound up by the constant coverage of the flu on every national news outlet?

It is December. Of course the flu is going around! Every winter we hear about the NHS being overwhelmed.

I can accept minor coverage but it’s been the main story for days on end and it doesn’t seem like it’s going to stop! And I know the flu kills and people need to be aware to take precautions but surely people don’t need it to be pointed out to them that they have an increased chance of catching the cold or flu in the run up to Christmas?

I was deathly ill with it last year but luckily have managed to avoid it up to now.

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StarsTwinklingPomanders · 11/12/2025 20:12

@echt no not imaginary exaclty what dd told me today.

You do understand the need for a ventilated space ? It's extremely balmy down south as well.

User122333 · 11/12/2025 20:12

Was at an out-patients appt this afternoon. Almost without exception, staff were wearing masks. Many older patients as well, and I was glad to have a mask with me.

As a family, we’ve all been vaccinated. And we’ve all had the flu. I still cough a bit each day, a month later.

This is in Scotland, where all primary, secondary, and pre-school children are offered the vaccination. Also elderly and vulnersble people. Uptake is around 50% amongst those eligible. and hospital visits are being suspended.

It sounds pretty serious to me.

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 11/12/2025 20:10

@somenerves I know we are due out tomorrow at the theatre in London for our Christmas family day out and I'm.absolutly dreading it.

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 11/12/2025 20:08

@DemonsandMosquitoes why not allowed!!

somenerves · 11/12/2025 20:06

Just had an enormous row with my husband about cancelling our London theatre visit on Saturday. Paid stupid money and have looked forward to it for over a year but I think it’s daft to risk getting ill for Christmas. He thinks I’m overreacting. So hard to know what to do for the best.

echt · 11/12/2025 20:06

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 11/12/2025 20:02

I find it very frustrating , because we can't do much about it.
We won't wear masks in crowded places like Asian countries windows are still being firmly closed in school classes because teacher says she doesn't want a breeze...

What can we do ?

Have a pop at imaginary teachers on MN. Isn't it winter in the UK? I wouldn't be keen on open windows.

if you're thinking of schools, then decent handwashing facilities, i.e. paper towels, not hand driers, and desks cleaned every day would help.

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 20:02

LadyLapsang · 11/12/2025 20:00

Given the rate of infection is rising I don’t understand why the age limit for a free vaccine on the NHS is not reduced to those aged over 50 plus as has happened in a number of previous years. I am in my sixties and paid to have the vaccine privately early in the season although my employer later offered a voucher, but didn’t advertise it widely. In less than a fortnight families will be getting together for Christmas so those getting vaccinated late won’t have optimum cover in time for the holiday period, but it is still worth doing. A national campaign on not going out needlessly when you are ill along with the old coughs and sneezes spread diseases …campaign won’t go amiss.

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And then along comes the lockdown to ruin Christmas.

honestly. All this over 2000 people!

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 20:02

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:57

Yes because funnily enough to build a healthy nation we have to start from the ground up?

So you might feel the impacts of your ideas in 60 years? The vast majority of flu deaths are in the elderly

echt · 11/12/2025 20:02

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:59

A healthier population would be better able to cope with viruses though.

So the children in the schools shut down by 'flu were all already unhealthy?

BorgQueen · 11/12/2025 20:02

For children, the vaccine is 75% effective against being hospitalised, so definitely worth it.
For adults 18-64, somewhere around 35% so as a healthy 59 year old I’ll risk it.

The problem with wall to wall panic baiting news is that it will encourage the unintelligent to think that Flu = hospital so instead of getting a pulse oximeter, taking vit D + Vit C and staying hydrated, they will clog up A+E, adding to the chaos instead of just staying at home.

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 11/12/2025 20:02

I find it very frustrating , because we can't do much about it.
We won't wear masks in crowded places like Asian countries windows are still being firmly closed in school classes because teacher says she doesn't want a breeze...

What can we do ?

Lararoft · 11/12/2025 20:02

An ex Colleague of mine died in ICU in May from complications of the flu; she was only 54.
So I take the flu seriously, I paid to have the vaccine recently.

MaxIrritation · 11/12/2025 20:01

I had it a couple of weeks ago (had my vaccine about 2 weeks before), it was pretty unpleasant. My temperature rocketed up to 40° and stayed there despite paracetamol/ibuprofen, my heart was racing non stop for 3 days. No blocked nose but I did have gastro symptoms and developed nasty tonsillitis. DS caught it and same thing, his temp went up to 40.3°, 2 hours after a full
dose of ibuprofen his temp was 40.6°! I can imagine it’s hitting the very old and very young quite hard

Tdcp · 11/12/2025 20:01

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 11/12/2025 17:23

Yes, one of the flu strains this year has mutated since this year's vaccines were created. It mutated over the Summer. HOWEVER, it is still absolutely worth getting the flu vaccine. It will still offer some protection: it still reduces the likelihood of very serious illness, and it reduces the chances of added complications and the need for hospitalisation should you come into contact with it. The flu strains from year to year are different.

This year's flu vaccine was made early in 2025. The World Health Organisation has the tricky task of trying to figure out which variations of the flu the populations need protection from, and then the vaccine has to be created, tested, and all before it's distributed in time for Winter.

Flu vaccines NEVER guarantee that any recipient will have 100% protection. The goal is to reduce the severity of illness, reduce the duration of illness, and in doing so, this in turn also helps reduce the spread.

Flu can also be asymptomatic in some people, and also present to varying degrees of mildness in others, leading folks to think that they actually just have a cold virus.

Although a flu virus can be mild in one person, the next person whom they pass it on to could end up in a catastrophic situation, particularly if they have a compromised immune system, or unfortunately, in some cases, otherwise healthy people are just very, very unlucky.

It takes up to 14 days for the flu vaccine to become as effective as it ever will be in the human body. If you get a vaccine and feel ill shortly after, it is likely you had already contracted the flu virus before the vaccine.

In short, it is absolutely worth getting the flu vaccine to give yourself and everyone you come into contact with the best chance of being as well as you could possibly be, should you come into contact with one of the flu strains.

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Excellent post 👏

LadyLapsang · 11/12/2025 20:00

Given the rate of infection is rising I don’t understand why the age limit for a free vaccine on the NHS is not reduced to those aged over 50 plus as has happened in a number of previous years. I am in my sixties and paid to have the vaccine privately early in the season although my employer later offered a voucher, but didn’t advertise it widely. In less than a fortnight families will be getting together for Christmas so those getting vaccinated late won’t have optimum cover in time for the holiday period, but it is still worth doing. A national campaign on not going out needlessly when you are ill along with the old coughs and sneezes spread diseases …campaign won’t go amiss.

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:59

echt · 11/12/2025 19:58

None of this will stop people getting 'flu. It's not how viruses work.

A healthier population would be better able to cope with viruses though.

the80sweregreat · 11/12/2025 19:58

I’m in my 60s and most children in my primary school were in hospital having their tonsils out!

echt · 11/12/2025 19:58

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:49

A reform of school meals. Nationwide initiatives to make healthy food cheaper. I would like to see an element of UC/child benefit replaced with the equivalent of snap benefits which can only be spent on certain things. Begin teaching nutrition young. More exercise in school and longer school days to allow for more physical activity.

None of this will stop people getting 'flu. It's not how viruses work.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 19:58

"Where is your evidence?!" knowing the poster might come back with a source with assumed links to the 'right-wing' because it follows a different line of thinking

"Stop reading such rubbish you conspiracy theorist hack! People are DYING!!"

Honestly, why bother? It's a waste of battery on my phone these days.

Lilifer · 11/12/2025 19:57

Winter months not wonder months

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:57

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 19:56

Your ideas relate to children.

Yes because funnily enough to build a healthy nation we have to start from the ground up?

Lilifer · 11/12/2025 19:57

What I would like to know is why are so many kids sick with it? I was a kid and teen in 70s and 80s, and there was no mass absences from school cos of flu. Kids were off now and again for measles etc and the odd bad cold, never more than one or two in wonder months. Why are so many kids sick these days??

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 19:56

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:54

A healthier nation = less comorbidities = fewer people in hospital and dying.

Your ideas relate to children.

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:54

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 19:52

The overweight unhealthy boomers had 1960s school dinners though didn’t they?

and they’re the wealthiest generation we’ve had

and they had “domestic science”
at school

how will any of those things keep them out of hospital?!

A healthier nation = less comorbidities = fewer people in hospital and dying.

Americano75 · 11/12/2025 19:53

My husband and I both qualify for the vaccine and were initially offered
appointments at the end of December. Very glad I managed to get us seen earlier.

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