Need to vent.
Im 39 and starting IVF soon. My sister in law doesn’t approve of my undergoing IVF, she doesn’t think we’ve been trying long enough (18 months), as her friend was turned down and had to go overseas (now pregnant.)
She has made digs and comments to me that are not obvious to anyone else, at best my other sis in law has said the comments are insensitive towards me.
She recently made a comment about the higher risk of stillbirth with IVF babies. I suffer from mental health issues and anxiety, so this comment has increased my stress significantly.
She recently announced that she was 4 weeks pregnant. Our group chat is incessant with baby talk 24/7. Baby names, pregnancy issues. I can’t escape it.
i tried talking to my MIL but she has said I need to move on from her comment. But I can’t as I know the comment was made to hurt me. All of the other digs and comments have been to upset me too.
just don’t know how to move on