DP was diagnosed with a life limiting but not life threatening cancer (CLL) 12 months ago. He doesn’t want me to tell the children as you wouldn’t know to look at him. Children are 9 &16. He is young and it’s been awful for us. I support him and we have come through the worst of it. Prognosis is good.
However…
I cannot talk to anyone about this as he doesn’t want children finding out. I support him but there is no one to support me. I’m not being honest with my children or family and it’s really upsetting me. We argue about it which is putting strain on our relationship.
Would I be unreasonable if I told the children and went against his wishes?