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I do not like nativity plays

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ZippyPeer · 09/12/2025 17:34

Went to my first one to watch my daughter, huge discovery that I do not like them. My view:
The play wasn't funny or an interesting story.
An irritating number of sexist stereotypes in the reimagined story - innkeepers wife fgs.
A few kids clearly actively hated being involved - not enjoyable to see them suffering.
Lots of the kids looking exceedingly bored or like they didn't really want to be there.
Reminded me of when I had to perform in them as a child and the literal hours of waiting around doing nothing during rehearsals and on the day and being told to shush and sit still - so boring.
Nice to see my daughter doing her bit and some of the other kids I know, and see the differences in the way the kids were on stage, but like, no where near enough to offset the other stuff...

Probably I won't go again and will leave it to the enthusiasts, but are there other people who feel this way?

Am absolutely bemused by the number of people who seem to love them.

Yabu - do you have no soul, the nativity is delightful
Yabu - it's a pain in the arse we all have to endure

OP posts:
User79853257976 · 09/12/2025 17:49

You won’t go because you don’t like them? What about just showing up for your child?

sittingonabeach · 09/12/2025 17:47

@NormasArse I was a parent helper and governor at DC's school. I ended up helping with many rehearsals and watching plays that my DC weren't even in!

KilkennyCats · 09/12/2025 17:47

What’s your issue with the Inn keeper’s wife??

Myoldbear · 09/12/2025 17:46

I feel the same as @Didimum.
Absolutely loved them and so pleased to have the memories.

NormasArse · 09/12/2025 17:45

If you think you suffered watching it, spare a thought for the teachers who have had to endure it for weeks…

Didimum · 09/12/2025 17:43

I love them. My kids are too old now, but I was always so so proud of them for getting up there. They enjoyed themselves so much and I have brilliant memories of them.

ZippyPeer · 09/12/2025 17:43

FanofLeaves · 09/12/2025 17:36

No one’s an ‘enthusiast’ 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 Have you written this ironically , and I’m missing the joke 😳

Honestly loads of people have said things to me like ' oh I miss those now my kid is older', ' oh they are so brilliant', 'i love a nativity' and they were being serious

OP posts:
Ladybyrd · 09/12/2025 17:42

What were you expecting, Dostoyevsky?

sittingonabeach · 09/12/2025 17:42

Are you saying you won't go and watch your DD in a nativity/other play again?

RustyShackIeford · 09/12/2025 17:41

There are lots of parts of parenthood that aren’t all about the parent.

youalright · 09/12/2025 17:40

You're thinking far to deeply about this its a kids play you go to watch your kid.

TheVengaBusIsComingMyBusPassIsForthcoming · 09/12/2025 17:39

It's just one of those things you do for the sake of showing up for your kids.

FanofLeaves · 09/12/2025 17:36

No one’s an ‘enthusiast’ 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 Have you written this ironically , and I’m missing the joke 😳

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