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To be utterly sick of this weather?

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VaxMerstappen · 09/12/2025 09:15

We always get plenty of people moaning on here whenever we're lucky enough to get some warm weather and a few days of sunshine in summer, so how about one for the utterly crap weather we have now?

Last weekend was dismal, it felt like it didn't get light all weekend - just constant rain/drizzle and grey skies. Today open the curtains to yet more of the same, Storm Bram this time. Feels like it's been weeks since I've had any sun on my face and my SAD is back with vengeance. It feels like we're just living through near-perpetual darkness at the moment, all the fields and woodland walks have been turned into a sludgey hell and I'm already mentally counting down to the brighter, fresher, happier days of spring. Please tell me I'm not the only one?

And before anyone pipes up with that they actually enjoy this weather and how great it is for getting 'cosy' etc, surely you can't be serious?!

YABU - I love this type of weather
YANBU - I just want to hibernate till spring time

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SolidarityCone · 09/12/2025 10:36

I don’t love it, but equally it’s better than being dead (how I always cheer myself out of it!) I just think of all the people I know who’ve died in an untimely manner and think how much they’d like to be alive even in shit winter weather.

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 09/12/2025 10:34

I don't mind dark or cold if it's dry, it's just the rain I'm sick of at present. Our garden is a quagmire, the fields are muddy and it's becoming difficult to give the dog a decent walk. For the first time ever, we've decided to get a dog coat because we're hardly getting a single dry day. I'd love it to be cold dry, snowy, I'm a winter person, I dread summer, but this relentless rain is getting boring.

HeadyLamarr · 09/12/2025 10:33

Grey and soggy. I'm basically in survival mode until March.

notimagain · 09/12/2025 10:32

blobby10 · 09/12/2025 10:17

I don't hate it anymore than I hate the sun coming up at 4am but it can be depressing leaving for work in the dark and not getting home until its dark. Not a big fan of all the wet as the dog is a pain to dry off but its good to see the reservoirs fuller.

Like a PP I'm counting down to 21st December after which it gets a little bit lighter each evening. Grin.

"Like a PP I'm counting down to 21st December after which it gets a little bit lighter each evening.".

If it helps and for info whilst Dec 21st is the shortest day the earliest sunset happens a few days before that (around about the 12th, but the daily change is so minor that for practical purposes we're pretty much there today ).

By the time you get around to the 21st the evenings have already started to draw out...just..FWIW by about 2 minutes for London

Downside is that OTOH sunrise continues to be later until right at the end of Dec/start of Jan.

Rituelec · 09/12/2025 10:31

The suns out in suffolk

MaturingCheeseball · 09/12/2025 10:30

The thing is it’s not “cosy”. It’s really mild! I like cold and dark, now that is the weather to hunker down or even enjoy a dusk walk. But rain, rain, rain and temperatures not unknown in August is getting me down.

redboxer321 · 09/12/2025 10:27

I thought I'd woken up really early but no, it's going to stay this grey all day. It is seriously depressing.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 09/12/2025 10:25

Horizontal rain, strong winds and thick grey cloud here for weeks now.

Springflowersyay · 09/12/2025 10:24

I’m a dog walker and I do feel that if you tell yourself it’s awful, that’s how you feel.

The weather just ‘is’.
While I love the spring and summer, trying hard not to put a ‘value’ on the weather you don’t like, helps enormously.

BitOutOfPractice · 09/12/2025 10:23

It’s the dark I hate. I swear it got darker in my bedroom this morning when I opened the blinds.

YANBU and all The Pollyannas on this thread can do one.

signed
Fed Up Dark Hater

AhBiscuits · 09/12/2025 10:21

I've been working from home so much more because I just can't bring myself to go out and travel to the office. I want to hibernate.

UnaOfStormhold · 09/12/2025 10:21

I'm also counting down to the solstice - even when it's dark and wet I feel better to know that things are improving.

smallglassbottle · 09/12/2025 10:20

I'm happy to see the rain after it being so dry all summer and I nearly lost a newly planted hedge. A nearby wildlife pond dried up, but it's back now and the ducks have returned.

blobby10 · 09/12/2025 10:17

I don't hate it anymore than I hate the sun coming up at 4am but it can be depressing leaving for work in the dark and not getting home until its dark. Not a big fan of all the wet as the dog is a pain to dry off but its good to see the reservoirs fuller.

Like a PP I'm counting down to 21st December after which it gets a little bit lighter each evening. Grin.

Mistyglade · 09/12/2025 10:14

I hate it too. This time of year is always a case of stick the old British stoical hat on and push on, somehow. It doesn’t help that I have a chest infection and don’t have the energy to stick any decorations or bloody Xmas tree up.

toastandegg · 09/12/2025 10:13

I hate getting up in the dark, then it doesn’t seem to get light all day before it gets dark again. I don’t mind cold, crisp weather it’s just this constant damp that gets me down

wizzler · 09/12/2025 10:12

We still have a hosepipe ban in Sheffield so we need more of the wet stuff. Reservoirs were so empty in the summer I thought we would be using stand pipes in the street

LoveItaly · 09/12/2025 10:06

SilverPink · 09/12/2025 09:58

Push the boat out! Have a digestive with it!

I don’t mind this time of year so much, as everywhere always looks very sparkly and festive ready for Christmas. Makes the dark weather feel a little better. I hate January and February - still cold, damp and dark, with the added possibility of snow and black ice.

At least the days are becoming longer again, though. I always feel cheered when we have passed the shortest day, and by the end of January you can really notice the difference.

SilverPink · 09/12/2025 09:58

janeandmarysmum · 09/12/2025 09:20

In 12 days time. Sunday 21st at 3.03pm!! I will have a celebratory cup of tea.

Push the boat out! Have a digestive with it!

I don’t mind this time of year so much, as everywhere always looks very sparkly and festive ready for Christmas. Makes the dark weather feel a little better. I hate January and February - still cold, damp and dark, with the added possibility of snow and black ice.

Monvelo · 09/12/2025 09:55

Very flooded around here. All the fields. Lots of cancelled trains, sat waiting for an hour for a connection. Luckily there is an indoor area!

MiddleAgedDread · 09/12/2025 09:53

YANBU, I don't mind cold, bright crisp winter weather but this ever lasting dampness is depressing me. Even the days it's not rained (which we seemed to have escaped more than other parts of the country) it's just been dull and everywhere is wet and it never properly gets daylight.

itsmycheese · 09/12/2025 09:53

I really do prefer the cold and rain. Hot weather, particularly if it's sunny makes me feel a bit ill, sort of disorientated. I sometimes wonder if reverse SAD is possible (obviously the main cause would be different!).

Sadcafe · 09/12/2025 09:52

It’s typically British isn’t it, complain if it’s warm,complain if it’s cold, complain it’s too dry/wet, the only reason I don’t like the constant rain is the fields are like bogs for dog walking, other than that I really don’t care

billybear · 09/12/2025 09:51

i have a dog, could not keep a brolly up the last 2 days on her walk, i was like a drowned rat, so wet i had to take my pants off it had soaked me that much, roll on warm weather,

Timebudda · 09/12/2025 09:47

I like it.
Its really rough where I am windy raining, darkish perfect for me.

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