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If you didn't have kids, would you still be with your husband?

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ChampagneProblem · 08/12/2025 18:58

I wouldn't. We're together for the kids. Six more years until I'm free.

Am I the only one??

OP posts:
randomchap · 08/12/2025 19:17

Why don't you leave now?

Do you really want your children to be brought up in an unhappy marriage?

6 years, that's 6 years of arguments, sniping, pretending to be happy. That's awful for your children

Lordofthewing · 08/12/2025 19:00

I wouldn’t be, no. We both have our issues so I’m not laying the blame at his door completely, but it’s just become so toxic.
To everyone on the outside looking in, it all seems like the perfect life. If only they knew.