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To think that my DPD parcel isnt coming today?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/12/2025 18:37

It was supposed to be here between 2&3

I could see the driver a couple of streets away, and then the map disappeared and i got this message

Its now gone half 6

I called dpd an hour ago, and the woman claimed there was an issue with the van but the parcel would definitely come today, by about 8 or 9pm

Has anyone had this happen? Do dpd deliver that late?

It was supposed to come on Friday, but o2 didnt send me a confirmation pin that was apparently needed, so it was booked for today

Why me 🙃🙃

Yabu - it'll come today, ive been there
Yanbu - give up and treat yourself to one of dd's chocolate chip cookies to make me feel better

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Pascha · 21/12/2025 13:42

@HundredMilesAnHour it did! The driver came to my door holding parcels for at least 3 addresses in the village including mine, one of which was the pub across the road which he couldn't find. I managed to direct him everywhere so everyone now has their goods. He was very grateful and polite. I think he was on a new round and a bit overwhelmed. He looked just harassed and doing his best with poor support.

Friendlygingercat · 20/12/2025 16:07

I had an international parcel from the USA delivered right within the two hour slot by DHL. It left Seattle on wednesday am and was here by 2pm. Not bad going. I do find that the services for international packages are often faster and more reliable than domestic ones (despite having to clear customs).

HundredMilesAnHour · 20/12/2025 15:19

Pascha · 11/12/2025 10:25

@HundredMilesAnHour I also hate dpd but I do now have a slot for today and a little sleigh animation which is more than I got yesterday so I'm marginally hopeful.

Hope you got sorted @Pascha

My seller has resent my delivery using Royal Mail (and it arrived the very next day) but are still trying to get a response from DPD re where my original parcel is as it hasn’t been returned to them. It was actually some wine so I’m assuming the DPD staff are having a piss-up in their warehouse.

Pascha · 11/12/2025 10:25

@HundredMilesAnHour I also hate dpd but I do now have a slot for today and a little sleigh animation which is more than I got yesterday so I'm marginally hopeful.

HundredMilesAnHour · 11/12/2025 09:19

I am fuming with DPD this morning. My parcel is being returned to the seller today after sitting in DPD’s warehouse all week due to “unexpected circumstances”. WTF?!

DPD attempted their first and only delivery last Sat morning. Giving me a whole 57 mins notice that they had my parcel and it was out for delivery that morning (in 57 bloody minutes!). I was out and couldn’t get back in time so booked for re-delivery on Monday when I was working from home. They confirmed for Monday and on Monday it never left their warehouse. So I booked again for re-delivery on Wed and the same thing happened. And now today they are sending it back.

Why is this so hard?!

It’s not even something I can physically buy from a shop. It’s a specific wine that’s a gift for my cousin and her husband when they host me on Christmas Eve and is only available from a couple of online sellers in the UK. I foolishly introduced my cousin’s husband to it earlier this year (when I was back visiting and he went to a huge effort to made me a lovely dinner - despite my actual cousin being away overseas) and I promised I would bring some on Christmas Eve. I live 250 miles away so don’t get back to see family as much as I would like.

Goddammit DPD. I hate you. Stamps foot and swears.

Pascha · 10/12/2025 22:13

I do get it. I know it's not always the drivers fault. It's just so disheartening to watch something come so close and yet be so far away. It feels like the parcels are hostages to the will of the machine. A will it-won't it seesaw in a sea of over-reliance on cheap delivery options that just can't hope to keep up.

I'm going back to the shops next year.

03cg73 · 10/12/2025 21:57

My sister works for Evri and the amount of parcels they are dealing with at the moment is the highest it has ever been in Evri history. She was out for almost 12 hours yesterday and still didn’t get through all the ones she had been given. She has a transit van and had to leave parcels in the depot and go back for them when she had delivered some and had made space to get them in. She is working 6 days a week and has been getting calls on her day off every week since the start of November asking her if she’s available to come in.

not excusing people’s parcels being delays but this is probably why

AgnesX · 10/12/2025 21:40

I've been hit by the Evri bug. It didn't even make it out of the warehouse. I'm thinking all sorts of unkind things at the moment. Closely followed by considering a hex on DHL.

I feel your irritation/annoyance/rage 😖

Pascha · 10/12/2025 21:39

Also I present this work of art via Evri. I'm just laughing at this one as I give up waiting for the third time. That parcel has done many many miles by now.

To think that my DPD parcel isnt coming today?
To think that my DPD parcel isnt coming today?
Pascha · 10/12/2025 21:34

@Friendlygingercat dpd took the picture at 11.20am today and the notification of failed delivery followed within five minutes. Plus the nominated neighbour was at home. I don't think the driver even got out of the vehicle, just drove on by.

Friendlygingercat · 10/12/2025 21:26

It probably means that the driver has run out of time and has had to finish for the evening. This happened to me a few weeks ago before the seasonal rush began. The couriers are out until 10-11 pm at this time of year and delivering on saturday too. I suggest ringing the automated service and re-booking the delivery for a day when you are in. Or doing it on the website. I know its a pain when your out working. You can also nominate a neighbour or a safe place.

Pascha · 10/12/2025 21:10

@mumofoneAloneandwell I guess I'll find out. I'm planning to camp out on my path for the allotted hour. Hopefully that will stop the driver from turning away.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 20:35

Pascha · 10/12/2025 12:53

🙄. It's all just total bullshit isn't it?

Absolutely rubbish!

Spent an hour on the phone to o2 but they cant get me one until they recieve this one back from dpd

What a nightmare omg

What did you do with your parcel? Will dpd deliver tomorrow?

What a cheeky fucker of a driver, it doesn't take two mins to go up to someones door!!

Make sure they dont send the parcel back to sender!

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Pascha · 10/12/2025 12:53

🙄. It's all just total bullshit isn't it?

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 12:43

Pascha · 10/12/2025 12:26

@mumofoneAloneandwell any sign of the delivery yet? I've been waiting patiently at home in my DPD time slot and got an email with missed delivery with a picture of my house from the road. If I zoom in I can see me at the living room window.

Why go to the trouble of reaching my address and then not following instructions to deliver here or my neighbour who is also in? Why not just deliver the parcel?

It's all just so pointless...

I AM GOING TO FUCKING SCREAM

To think that my DPD parcel isnt coming today?
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Pascha · 10/12/2025 12:26

@mumofoneAloneandwell any sign of the delivery yet? I've been waiting patiently at home in my DPD time slot and got an email with missed delivery with a picture of my house from the road. If I zoom in I can see me at the living room window.

Why go to the trouble of reaching my address and then not following instructions to deliver here or my neighbour who is also in? Why not just deliver the parcel?

It's all just so pointless...

mumofoneAloneandwell · 09/12/2025 14:26

SleeplessInWherever · 09/12/2025 14:25

My ex husband works for DPD, and even during peak season it is not the norm for them to still be out delivering after 6pm.

They add couriers in huge bulk instead, to get through it all within their normal delivery times, mostly from agencies.

I reckon my dpd courier was an agency worker who saw my address being a street away and decided he couldnt be arsed!

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SleeplessInWherever · 09/12/2025 14:25

My ex husband works for DPD, and even during peak season it is not the norm for them to still be out delivering after 6pm.

They add couriers in huge bulk instead, to get through it all within their normal delivery times, mostly from agencies.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 09/12/2025 14:20

What a nightmare. I took for granted that it would come today as well! 😭 dpd are on my shit list

See also: asda 😒😒

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 09/12/2025 14:19

LilyBee94 · 09/12/2025 13:39

So still nothing and my tracking hasn't updated since last night when it changed 'Your parcel has been delayed due to an unexpected issue in your area
Your estimated delivery date is now Tuesday the 9th December*'

And has read that since 8pm last night.

Ughhhhhhhhh.

No I was thinking the same but I'm in Lincolnshire.

I don't hold much hope for it arriving today.

Call them!

I called dpd today as my update wasnt showing and the guy said it was going to be sent back to o2 if I hadn't called but that hes booked it for tomorrow

+441212750500

xx

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LilyBee94 · 09/12/2025 13:39

mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/12/2025 19:35

I wonder if we're both near n london 👀

Ive given up and am tucked up in bed

So still nothing and my tracking hasn't updated since last night when it changed 'Your parcel has been delayed due to an unexpected issue in your area
Your estimated delivery date is now Tuesday the 9th December*'

And has read that since 8pm last night.

Ughhhhhhhhh.

No I was thinking the same but I'm in Lincolnshire.

I don't hold much hope for it arriving today.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/12/2025 19:43

Its ridiculous!

This is the second thing I've been waiting on that has gone wrong today!

Its just not my day 😭

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AlanJohnsonsBeemer · 08/12/2025 19:39

Royal Mail were supposed to deliver my parcel Saturday, then today, perhaps it will be tomorrow!

mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/12/2025 19:36

Online chat function isnt working 🙄

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/12/2025 19:35

LilyBee94 · 08/12/2025 19:31

Literally me today, right now. It's how I ended up here... My parcel was supposed to be delivered Friday, and now today my driver is delayed..... So frustrating..

I wonder if we're both near n london 👀

Ive given up and am tucked up in bed

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