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To ask how common is cannabis smoking?

167 replies

Netcurtainnelly · 08/12/2025 13:43

Brothers son smokes it. Holds down a job and his financial commitments.
Hasn't progressed to any other drugs.
Been doing it for some years.
Its never spoken about. I just know he does.
I dont really have anyone to ask but i just thought I'd ask you mumsnetters.
It is common. He's mid thirties.

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NormasArse · 09/12/2025 17:33

HostaCentral · 09/12/2025 14:57

Where are you all buying your weed?? You do realise you are contributing to a whole underworld of misery. Co-exertion, slavery, abuse, the funding of hard drugs and all the misery that causes. The funding of weapons and gang violence.

On the note of gummies being less of an issue..... perhaps, but please know that although the "high" takes longer and is less intense, it stays in your system longer, don't drive for at least 12 hours.

Cannabis stays in your system for up to 72 hours. Those driving the day after, take note!

Mynumberone · 09/12/2025 17:14

I don't know anybody in my family or circle of friends who smoke cannabis or even smoke cigarettes for that matter. The only people I know are my DD17 friends parents.

moogdroog · 09/12/2025 16:28

Pretty common in my social circle. All professionals, with kids and keeping all the balls in the air. I'd say my social circle probably drink less than the average person.
I've used it practically daily since I was about 15, it's how I relax (I vape it), same with DH.

ginasevern · 09/12/2025 16:19

I live in Bristol and the whole city is under a permanent fug of weed. It's as common as oxygen here. And no, it isn't all due to the students. It's all age groups and demographics.

SomersetBrie · 09/12/2025 15:51

NoKidsSendDogs · 09/12/2025 15:30

It's weed, not crack 😂

Young people who get caught up in the distribution of these drugs, often get pulled in deeper.

MeouwKing · 09/12/2025 15:31

It's everywhere, kids smoke it in the bus station. Pathetic. Gen Alpha will be even more useless than Gen Z.

NoKidsSendDogs · 09/12/2025 15:30

SomersetBrie · 09/12/2025 09:36

It's shocking. Those taking it for medical reasons or somewhere where it's legal (and getting hold of it legally), then it's personal choice but those risking their own and others' lives buying street drugs, is pretty harrowing.

It's weed, not crack 😂

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 09/12/2025 15:30

I smell it almost constantly round my way. Even got a strong whiff of it in B&M the other day.

I don't like it. To me it smells like someone's taken some pond weeds, rolled it all up and lit it. I find the smell of tobacco much nicer, until it goes stale, in which case also blegh.

NoKidsSendDogs · 09/12/2025 15:27

Netcurtainnelly · 09/12/2025 12:19

Why do you have to do either?

Nobody HAS to do anything, it's a choice, and one I find a lot less damaging on health than alcohol. I like both, but prefer weed.

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 09/12/2025 15:27

Toogoodtowaste · 08/12/2025 20:40

Does everyone using grow their own or are you just unbothered about the criminal production aspect of it and supporting organised crime. Dealers rarely 'just' sell cannabis, right?

I think there is a lot of confusion here. I don’t know anyone in the UK who isn’t on prescription now, tbh (but I admit I don’t know many people and a lot of the ones I do know are chronically ill like I am); almost everyone seems to have at least one condition that qualifies, and buying it directly from medical cannabis companies based in Spain, the Netherlands, etc, is actually cheaper than buying it illegally.

“Prescription” has become this huge UK loophole on the way to legalization, I feel. There are other countries/localities that will only allow it in a single form (spray or oil, nothing that can be smoked), and for people with cancer or life limiting illnesses. The UK allows flower (for vaping), oil, and edibles for more than 50 conditions.

If you are on this thread and have been buying illegally, please check to make sure you don’t qualify for medical cannabis. Here is a list of the conditions, everything from migraines to back pain to PMS. AND it is much better for you; you will actually be guided by a professional to determine what is right for you (strength, strain, desired effects, etc).

The link is from Alternaleaf but I use a cheaper alternative.
www.alternaleaf.co.uk/post/qualifying-for-medical-cannabis-prescription

NoKidsSendDogs · 09/12/2025 15:26

Firefly1987 · 08/12/2025 22:47

My brother tried it once in Amsterdam then shortly after was diagnosed with schizophrenia-could be complete coincidence ofc but I've never risked using the stuff. What is the appeal, what effect does it have?

It's calming, relaxing, reduces anxiety, reduces stress, makes the world a bit easier to tolerate, take your pick.

Iris2020 · 09/12/2025 14:59

Nobody in my social circle since I was a student, and even then not people I'd associate with much.
It depends obviously but I think it’s less common than smokers like to think.

HostaCentral · 09/12/2025 14:57

Where are you all buying your weed?? You do realise you are contributing to a whole underworld of misery. Co-exertion, slavery, abuse, the funding of hard drugs and all the misery that causes. The funding of weapons and gang violence.

On the note of gummies being less of an issue..... perhaps, but please know that although the "high" takes longer and is less intense, it stays in your system longer, don't drive for at least 12 hours.

WhamBamThankU · 09/12/2025 12:21

gummies and other concoctions are common in my larger circle of friends but not smoking it.

Netcurtainnelly · 09/12/2025 12:19

NoKidsSendDogs · 08/12/2025 18:34

Same. It's very common and I know plenty of professional people with good jobs who partake. It has a weird stigma attached, but is significantly better than alcohol imo.

Why do you have to do either?

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CharlotteLightandDark · 09/12/2025 12:06

Just because it stays in your system for a long time compared to other substances doesn’t mean it continuously impairs your ability to drive/function. The psychoactive effects last a couple of hours or so.

the body is not concerned with flushing it through quickly as it does with other drugs including alcohol, because it’s not especially toxic for the body.

do people who get it on prescription for health conditions have to surrender their licenses? If not why is that do you think?

Orchidgrower · 09/12/2025 11:39

Most regular cannabis smokers would be over the UK's drug drive limits most of the time. I can never understand people who rely on their driving license for their livelihood, risking being over the driving limits for drugs or alcohol. But they do and some get caught and then they are sorry.

randomchap · 09/12/2025 10:57

It's extremely common, not sure how widespread it is though

CharlotteLightandDark · 09/12/2025 10:26

I buy it from someone who grows it fairly large ish scale as a (very successful) business. No youths on scooters shotting being controlled by county lines involved - just straight from manufacturer to consumer.

SomersetBrie · 09/12/2025 09:36

HushTheNoise · 08/12/2025 21:19

So much casual ignoring of the dealing/ criminal activity/ trafficking/ modern slavery aspects.

It's shocking. Those taking it for medical reasons or somewhere where it's legal (and getting hold of it legally), then it's personal choice but those risking their own and others' lives buying street drugs, is pretty harrowing.

Fifthtimelucky · 09/12/2025 08:33

I’m in my 60s and genuinely can’t think of a single person I know who smokes (weed or tobacco), though of course some may do so without my being aware of it.

Lots of friends experimented in their youth though.

CharlotteLightandDark · 09/12/2025 08:06

Firefly1987 · 08/12/2025 22:47

My brother tried it once in Amsterdam then shortly after was diagnosed with schizophrenia-could be complete coincidence ofc but I've never risked using the stuff. What is the appeal, what effect does it have?

If not coincidence then VERY unlucky/rare.

it makes the senses come alive, food tastes better, music sounds better. I find I have my most insightful and compassionate reflections on life/relationships etc.
it makes me appreciate the small things in life we often don’t notice and find an increased sense of awe and wonder at the beauty of nature/art.

it also makes me want to reach out and connect with others, like I’ll want to message my friends instead of just watching the tv.

EarlofShrewsbury · 09/12/2025 07:49

Popstarrrrr · 08/12/2025 22:42

If there was a way to purchase legally for recreational use I would. It slows down my ADHD brain and helps me sleep. But as I know the impact of modern slavery and there's no way to currently confirm quality, none for me any more.

Once I retire and no longer need a DBS, I'll grow my own for personal consumption. Quite looking forward to that actually.

ADHD is an eligible condition for a legal prescription.

4timesthefun · 08/12/2025 22:59

I think it’s going to depend on your social circle. Neither DH or I smoke (I tried it once at uni, he never has) and I don’t know anyone in my social circle who does either. We generally talk about these things, so I can’t imagine they are all lying. I must admit, I’m yet to meet a regular marijuana smoker (and I know plenty as acquaintances or through work) who I’ve admired or wished I was more like, even those who are working and have kids. Most of my social circle aren’t drinkers either, so I don’t think any of us are particularly inclined to self medication or addiction.

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