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To ask how common is cannabis smoking?

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Netcurtainnelly · 08/12/2025 13:43

Brothers son smokes it. Holds down a job and his financial commitments.
Hasn't progressed to any other drugs.
Been doing it for some years.
Its never spoken about. I just know he does.
I dont really have anyone to ask but i just thought I'd ask you mumsnetters.
It is common. He's mid thirties.

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suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 00:56

Smoked my first joint at 16. Still doing it at 70. It relaxes me. Very pure organic weed.

Have always worked, supported myself, brought up my son as a solo mum.

Never taken an aspirin in my life or barely a paracetamol. I know I'm lucky.

XenoBitch · 11/02/2026 00:52

I only knew one person who was a regular weed smoker who actually worked, and he was a chef. Apparently a profession known for addiction issues anyway.

The rest either used it as a coping mechanism, and denied it was one and that they were addicted, or it was a "lifestyle" and they were boring as fuck. I met far too many people in psychiatric wards who were there due to weed.

GaIadriel · 11/02/2026 00:52

Moderate alcohol consumption (1-2 drinks a night) actually has a host of benefits. Less chance of alzheimers, kidney stones, stroke, heart attack, etc.

GaIadriel · 11/02/2026 00:49

It's extremely common. It's also seems to be really bad for the heart according to a lot of studies over the past few years - 42% higher chance of a stroke in one I read the other day. I believe it was thought previously that this was more likely to be because until recent years people mainly smoked it, or had done so in the past. However, studies are now showing that even edibles alone can result in arterial narrowing to a similar extent as a smoker.

I used to smoke it a lot and would have a pretty elevated heartbeat just sitting on the sofa.

Toogoodtowaste · 10/02/2026 23:21

CharlotteLightandDark · 09/12/2025 10:26

I buy it from someone who grows it fairly large ish scale as a (very successful) business. No youths on scooters shotting being controlled by county lines involved - just straight from manufacturer to consumer.

It's still grown illegally though? Unless I've misunderstood?

TeaAndTattoos · 20/12/2025 02:09

My DH and I both smoke weed we have done for the last 8 years we are both in our early 30’s we don’t have any kids so we have the money to spend on it none of our family know we do it. We would like kids one day and we will stop when we are ready for kids.

JasmineTea11 · 19/12/2025 23:25

It's very common and mild compared to alcohol.
I grew up in a household where both were consumed a lot. The parent who was into getting stoned as opposed to pissed, was a lot more productive. Marijuana affects people differently I guess, but some people like my DM and I, are very active, busy types, with good jobs, who consume regularly.

I get that some people don't respond well to it, it makes them paranoid or insular. Again it's like alcohol, some people get really arsey when pissed, or can't stop, others are fine.

Megifer · 19/12/2025 22:42

Pretty much everyone i know, from the cleaner at work (vapes it 😂) to i suspect my CEO based on comments made at the Christmas party smoke it or do edibles.

I used to love a joint, was great for stress but I started throwing whiteys for some bizarre reason, not fun at all, so stopped a couple of years ago. I get edibles now, dont do them a lot, maybe once every few months or do. A friend does his own syrup too thats nice in a hot chocolate or coffee 😬

Mama2many73 · 19/12/2025 22:41

I never have, even when at uni. I know 2 people who did but now dont...However by the smells around a rather exclusive housing estate as well as 2 up 2 down terraces near us, its pretty rife!

swingingbytheseat · 19/12/2025 22:31

I eat it occasionally and love the buzz

JLou08 · 19/12/2025 22:27

I think it's pretty common, I usually smell it somewhere at least once a day. I don't have any close friends who smoke it but I do know a few people who do and a couple of family members on both my side and DHs side. Some of them function normally, some have mental health problems and don't function well.

Netcurtainnelly · 19/12/2025 22:02

NoKidsSendDogs · 09/12/2025 15:26

It's calming, relaxing, reduces anxiety, reduces stress, makes the world a bit easier to tolerate, take your pick.

Try some deep breathing and exercising instead.

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NoKidsSendDogs · 18/12/2025 20:11

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:17

Where are these people? I have 2 teenagers, ive been a teenager and I work with lots of younger people and I don't know anyone of any age who has this elusive psychosis that gets trotted out every time we talk about cannabis.

It is very very rare and usually only happens to people who already struggle with schizophrenia. For the rest of society, the worst thing you're going to do while high is eat too much pizza. Alcohol on the other hand ...

HRTQueen · 17/12/2025 14:23

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:17

Where are these people? I have 2 teenagers, ive been a teenager and I work with lots of younger people and I don't know anyone of any age who has this elusive psychosis that gets trotted out every time we talk about cannabis.

On mh wards and teams who are working with them in mh community teams

I am guessing you do not work in a mh health team that is working with young people

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:19

NormasArse · 08/12/2025 20:50

Do you drive?

Yes. Unsure of the relevance but I wouldn't drive under the influence, just like anyone having a glass of wine.

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:18

THisbackwithavengeance · 08/12/2025 19:01

Luckily for your 3 DCs, they haven’t been trafficked to the UK locked in large warehouses by some very nasty criminal gangs under threat and made to grow the stuff.

Google modern day slavery.

Our mutual friend grows it in his outhouse. So try again 😘

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:17

HRTQueen · 08/12/2025 15:46

Weed may not make people aggressive but it can make people very paranoid that can lead to aggressive. The sheer high numbers of young people with serious mh issues connected to their weed smoking is tragic#

The ignorance of the cannabis isn't that bad brigade is astounding considering that often know so much about cannabis 🙄

Where are these people? I have 2 teenagers, ive been a teenager and I work with lots of younger people and I don't know anyone of any age who has this elusive psychosis that gets trotted out every time we talk about cannabis.

Extraz · 10/12/2025 00:27

Yes Ive smoked, eaten and vaped it for years. Currently use medically issued THC vape cartridges. I use it every evening but never during the day.

I have a professional job that I manage to do perfectly well. Being a daily user has no impact on that at all.

I don’t drink much and work out several times a week so pretty healthy.

most of my social circle use it to varying degrees. Some are occasional and others far more frequent. Some are also into recreational cocaine but that’s not my thing.

GaIadriel · 10/12/2025 00:15

EarlofShrewsbury · 09/12/2025 07:49

ADHD is an eligible condition for a legal prescription.

FTR I think it should be legal, but just wanted to add that the organisation that prescribe my meds through the NHS RTC pathway won't prescribe if you use weed. Studies have shown that it makes some of the meds work more potently thus making them harder to dose - likely the combined dopamine effect.

The private clinics are providing unlicensed meds with the caveat that you must have tried at least two of the conventional treatments first. For ADHD it's mainly used to treat the hectic element/help you calm down. I was reading an article by a renowned ADHD specialist and he referred to studies that showed weed actually makes the vast majority of ADHD symptoms worse - working memory, attention span, impulsivity, etc.

He said it was more that it helped calm them down so they don't worry about the other effects as much and hence still report an 'improvement' despite their ADHD being worse in most measurable ways. In most cases I've seen, the patient just wants the weed. Almost every single advert on FB is full of people saying "what do I need to do to get this?" and people explaining what to say etc. It's mostly driven by people wanting weed rather than doctors suggesting it as a treatment IME, except for cases where people are already on a cocktail of strong addictive opioids etc.

Firefly1987 · 09/12/2025 23:36

CharlotteLightandDark · 09/12/2025 08:06

If not coincidence then VERY unlucky/rare.

it makes the senses come alive, food tastes better, music sounds better. I find I have my most insightful and compassionate reflections on life/relationships etc.
it makes me appreciate the small things in life we often don’t notice and find an increased sense of awe and wonder at the beauty of nature/art.

it also makes me want to reach out and connect with others, like I’ll want to message my friends instead of just watching the tv.

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@CharlotteLightandDark and @NoKidsSendDogs thanks, I never really knew what it did except relax you. Actually sounds like something I wouldn't mind trying but with my addictive personality and tendency to self-medicate AND family history of MH issues probably best not to! Glad you're both finding it helps though.

Beekman · 09/12/2025 21:00

Would you buy it if it was legal, like in most of North America? The legal stuff doesn’t really have a smell but I don’t enjoy smoking it as much as I love taking it orally. What’s wrong with using gummies?

Randomlygeneratedname · 09/12/2025 20:43

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 09/12/2025 15:30

I smell it almost constantly round my way. Even got a strong whiff of it in B&M the other day.

I don't like it. To me it smells like someone's taken some pond weeds, rolled it all up and lit it. I find the smell of tobacco much nicer, until it goes stale, in which case also blegh.

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We had a really strong smell of it on the duel carriage way the other day. I guess we drove past someone smoking it and didn't realise but it smelt as strongly as when you walk past someone smoking in the street. Never even had that with cigarettes before, it was bizarre.

Randomlygeneratedname · 09/12/2025 20:38

Smoked it when young, haven't touched it in at least 15/20 years, most people I knew my age smoked it then, no one really did any other drugs that I knew of. I wouldn't smoke it now as gave me really bad anxiety/paranoia when high. I don't even drink alcohol now and after reading the latest work Christmas do thread, am very relieved I am sober!

Popstarrrrr · 09/12/2025 20:35

NormasArse · 09/12/2025 17:33

Cannabis stays in your system for up to 72 hours. Those driving the day after, take note!

I can't actually access more than the abstract from the linked article but it suggests impairment for up to 24hrs. As this piece states, It's the impairment that's important, not whether it's still in your system. System clearance is much quicker.

https://www.canada.ca/en/health-canada/services/drugs-medication/cannabis/health-effects/impairment-safety-risk.html

Cannabis impairment and safety risk - Canada.ca

Cannabis impairment, driving while impaired, risk of accidents. Legal, personal and health risks of illegal cannabis.

https://www.canada.ca/en/health-canada/services/drugs-medication/cannabis/health-effects/impairment-safety-risk.html

Popstarrrrr · 09/12/2025 20:23

EarlofShrewsbury · 09/12/2025 07:49

ADHD is an eligible condition for a legal prescription.

Thank you, that's helpful to know. Had no idea.