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For not driving through red light with ambulance behind me

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User34445566677 · 07/12/2025 21:13

Stuck at red lights in 3 lanes of traffic. I was in right hand lane to turn right, at the front of white line and railings to my right so couldn't pull to the side. Middle lane for straight on. Left hand lane (towards hospital) is always allowed to filter through first via green light to the left, then after a while, the forward and right turn green lights come on. Ambulance comes up my lane whilst red traffic lights on. Blue lights and sirens on, all while the ambulance is indicating left (I am the only car in this lane, other lanes have several cars in). Ambulance leaves sirens on, and even beeps while lights are on red ( though i am not 100% sure this was the ambulance, but don't know who else it would have been?). From what I have read, you should not cross during a red light even for an emergency vehicle, I would have been entering a box junction? Was I BU to not cross the red light? And I think the Ambulance would have been quicker going in the left lane which filtered through first? Very confused. TIA

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ByWisePanda · 07/12/2025 22:30

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:24

Good grief! Please take this post down!

This shows exactly what happens when a) you blindly "follow the rules" rather than thinking for yourself, or b) believe Chat GPT is an alternative to Google for search queries!

You most certainly shouldn't "pull right if possible" if you're in the UK!

If she lives in London Chat GPT is right because she will get fined. London has cameras everywhere. I would like to know where she lives because living in country is different to living in a city.

QueenofAssam · 07/12/2025 22:29

You were absolutely right you cannot ignore a red traffic light unless directed to do so by a police officer.. it helps no one if you pull forward and into collision with a correctly proceeding vehicle… that will cause more delays and potentially more injured people. The ambulance driver should not have tried to pressure you to ignore that red light and I would be tempted to report him or her because they are risking causing a collision

Cheezit · 07/12/2025 22:29

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 21:56

Crossing the line at a red light is not, in itself, dangerous.

Well I don’t think they’re lightsabers, so I’ll give you that. 😊 I suspect some people, under pressure from an ambulance, might not make the best decisions.

To be fair, I have done it for ambulances and would again.

Joeninety · 07/12/2025 22:29

Talltreesbythelake · 07/12/2025 22:03

YOU should not be driving and you should not be encouraging others to break the law. Your arrogance is dangerous.

No he/she's dead right.

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:29

Climbingrosexx · 07/12/2025 22:23

Well you crack on then, but don't tell others they shouldnt be driving if they follow the law, some people drive for a living and cannot afford points on their licence.

Genuinely, can you not envisage any circumstances where you would cross a red light?

There were temporary traffic lights put at the end of my street a few months ago. Faulty. Stuck on red all day. I would still have been sitting there eight hours later had I not gone through them.

What would you have done? Phoned the council?

TootsMaHoots · 07/12/2025 22:26

calkel · 07/12/2025 22:10

People keep saying this but honestly, so what? The chances are slim, but not zero and it does happen but I would be willing to both take the chance and take the fine and points if it happens.

What if you live near a hospital? On my school run we go through a roundabout with lights on it and there are two hospitals nearby and there are often emergency vehicles of one kind or another on it. And red light cameras. Pekoe would be paying £100, and the insurance increase on a regular basis. And losing their licences.

CharismaticPelican · 07/12/2025 22:26

They probably didn't mean to beep you as pp said - the siren works off of the horn, so it's easy (and common) to accidentally beep while switching sirens.

I think you could probably try to contest going through a red if you did get a ticket. But if you are not comfortable to then don't, it's ok.

QueenofAssam · 07/12/2025 22:25

Burningbud1981 · 07/12/2025 21:21

Not if you’ve gone through a light and stopped to allow an ambulance to pass.

No, you had no defence of prosecuted/get fixed penalty you cannot ignore a red light unless directed by a police officer

winesolveseverything · 07/12/2025 22:24

RudolphTheReindeer · 07/12/2025 22:21

This seems like a good thread to ask on but are emergency vehicles allowed in bus lanes? Cars here regularly move into the bus lane to let them through (luckily no cameras so no one gets fined) but the ambulances seem to frequently use the bus lane whereas the police cars don't.

Yes if on blue lights.

A car can pull into a bus lane to let an emergency vehicle through , providing they then exit it as soon as it has passed. You will not be prosecuted.

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:24

User34445566677 · 07/12/2025 22:20

I have already seen this, but for others:

Good grief! Please take this post down!

This shows exactly what happens when a) you blindly "follow the rules" rather than thinking for yourself, or b) believe Chat GPT is an alternative to Google for search queries!

You most certainly shouldn't "pull right if possible" if you're in the UK!

AllKindsOfThingsAreInteresting · 07/12/2025 22:24

BadgernTheGarden · 07/12/2025 21:24

Do you know anyone who has?

I know someone who got a fine going into an empty bus lane at 1 am to let an ambulance through.

Climbingrosexx · 07/12/2025 22:23

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:17

I do know the law. The law says don't do it.

I am saying there are circumstances where you might find it a better option to disregard the law.

If I can see that is safe for me to cross a white line at a red light, that could be one of those situations.

Well you crack on then, but don't tell others they shouldnt be driving if they follow the law, some people drive for a living and cannot afford points on their licence.

winesolveseverything · 07/12/2025 22:21

I work for the ambulance service and I can confirm that we are NOT allowed to bully anyone through a red light. It is dangerous and you can and will be prosecuted.

We are trained to hang back, sirens off and actually put on the hand brake until it is safe to proceed.

Any crew doing different is in the wrong.

RudolphTheReindeer · 07/12/2025 22:21

This seems like a good thread to ask on but are emergency vehicles allowed in bus lanes? Cars here regularly move into the bus lane to let them through (luckily no cameras so no one gets fined) but the ambulances seem to frequently use the bus lane whereas the police cars don't.

Cyclingmummy1 · 07/12/2025 22:20

rwalker · 07/12/2025 21:21

There’s no need to to go all the way through you creep forward the bare minimum and manoeuvre so it can get past

fingers crossed it wasn’t someone in cardiac arrest arrest who ended up dying or brain damaged because you were pissing about at the lights
every single second counts

The OP was not 'pissing about at the lights', they were obeying the law.

They are in no way, shape or form responsible for the person in the ambulance and I'm shocked that you have suggested they may have contributed to someone's death.

User34445566677 · 07/12/2025 22:20

I have already seen this, but for others:

For not driving through red light with ambulance behind me
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PuggyPuggyPuggy · 07/12/2025 22:18

BrickBiscuit · 07/12/2025 22:07

They would when you got the fine and points for crossing the line.

Well, yes. But it would be too late then, wouldn't it? I'm not claiming to be the arbiter of right and wrong, or legal and illegal (which are different things). I'm just saying that in that moment, I'd just be thinking "oh fuck I need to get out of the way if I can" and by "if I can", I would mean "is there space to do this without causing an accident". Millions of people every day pull out at junctions and entrances that are not regulated by a set of traffic lights, and manage not to collide with other vehicles. And the way a lot of people drive, I assume that there is not some all-seeing god of traffic clocking and fining 100% of traffic offenses, so I might not get fined.

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:17

Climbingrosexx · 07/12/2025 22:15

Any driver who does not know the law definitely should not be driving... thats you by the way

I do know the law. The law says don't do it.

I am saying there are circumstances where you might find it a better option to disregard the law.

If I can see that is safe for me to cross a white line at a red light, that could be one of those situations.

bodyofproof · 07/12/2025 22:17

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:14

I'm not arrogant. I am sensible and cautious.

It's ludicrous that you cannot imagine circumstances in which it would be prudent and safe to cross a red light.

it might be prudent and safe but I’m not risking a fine and points and the subsequent insurance rise and having to declare it to my job
its not being stubborn it’s that I need to follow the law and that involves not going through a red light

Legal193 · 07/12/2025 22:17

Accidentally voted YABU and it won’t let me change! You were correct and I hope it wasn’t the ambulance that beeped you! Even if no obvious danger pulling slightly forward etc you would still be prosecuted had there been a camera on the junction.

calkel · 07/12/2025 22:16

BrickBiscuit · 07/12/2025 22:14

You might, but some people might lose their livelihood if they drive for a living and encounter this frequently. It happens regularly to me as I cross a junction on an ambulance route. I would always do it when it was accepted without prosecution, but never would now.

I’m not suggesting other people do what I do though. Just pointing out that the ‘you will get points/fine’ isn’t a deciding factor for me, and probably some others.

Luckypoppy · 07/12/2025 22:16

I did this exact thing and got fined and had to do a course. I just pulled in past the red light slightly, didn’t cross this junction completely or even block it.

Climbingrosexx · 07/12/2025 22:15

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:02

Any driver who is not able to see that, in certain circumstances, it is safe to move forward through a red light shouldn't be driving

Any driver who does not know the law definitely should not be driving... thats you by the way

BrickBiscuit · 07/12/2025 22:14

calkel · 07/12/2025 22:10

People keep saying this but honestly, so what? The chances are slim, but not zero and it does happen but I would be willing to both take the chance and take the fine and points if it happens.

You might, but some people might lose their livelihood if they drive for a living and encounter this frequently. It happens regularly to me as I cross a junction on an ambulance route. I would always do it when it was accepted without prosecution, but never would now.

MasterBeth · 07/12/2025 22:14

Talltreesbythelake · 07/12/2025 22:03

YOU should not be driving and you should not be encouraging others to break the law. Your arrogance is dangerous.

I'm not arrogant. I am sensible and cautious.

It's ludicrous that you cannot imagine circumstances in which it would be prudent and safe to cross a red light.

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