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They weren’t lying about how horrific this flu is!!

103 replies

ByronKoala · 07/12/2025 14:40

I will be brutally honest and say that I thought the recent news reports about how this is destined to be a particularly severe flu season with a nastier than usual strain were just scare mongering but oh my goodness have I been humbled… Never been so ill in my life.

Felt oddly achy and tired on Thursday AM but took paracetamol and was able to get on with my work day as normal. 40 degree fever, awful cough, sore throat etc hit me like a brick later on that evening and I’ve been bed bound ever since.

I’ve coughed to the point I’ve thrown up - my chest feels heavy and I’m in agony from all of it. The fevers were unrelenting for 3 days straight, paracetamol didn’t even touch the sides and I’ve been stuck in bed curled up in a shivering ball. The brain fog and exhaustion are on another level, my mind simply cannot function and I’m so incredibly weak. Worst sore throat I’ve ever felt and a nose like a bloody tap.

I’m young and perfectly healthy. Even the thought of 90yo DM getting this doesn’t bare thinking about and cases seem to be popping up absolutely everywhere. Genuinely quite scary

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NoNewsisGood · 07/12/2025 14:52

This is why there is a vaccine.

Minty25 · 07/12/2025 14:51

I read about how fast it is spreading on friday and went round to Boots to see if I could get the jab which fortunately they gave me there and then although I felt crap for a day even after that. I work with older people and have a dh with chronic respiratory problems so was glad to get it. I hope it offers some protection. I hope you feel better soon.

Simbaonedaythiswillallbeyours · 07/12/2025 14:49

I had Flu A from Christmas Eve 2024 - early January so I know exactly what you mean. It taught me that actual flu is a completely different animal in terms of bugs. I only didn't end up in hospital because the local wards were closed. I'm a slightly overweight, relatively healthy 40 year old and vaccinated (I pay for one every September). The medic on the phone said I could have died if I wasn't vaccinated. I banned everyone from coming near me!

It took me about two months to feel normal again. Take things as easy as you can, lots of fluids and get vaccinated as soon as you can!