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To be angry that a mutual friend is committing benefit fraud!

160 replies

166lady · 07/12/2025 07:44

Myself my husband and our toddler went on a soft play date with my husbands friend, his wife and 2 kids. My husband asked if his friends wife will be going back to work and she said she’s in no rush as she’s getting enough from universal credit to live happily.

My Husbands friend then added that she’s been off work for 2 years as she claimed they live separately (they don’t) and that she has no savings when they do.

I don’t know how much they were claiming but she suggested it was more than what she was getting in maternity pay! I feel angry as myself and everyone I know were scrambling for childcare to go back to work and earn again, and they’re living a fake life

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RessicaJabbit · 07/12/2025 08:01

So report her 🤷‍♀️

Overthebow · 07/12/2025 08:00

Report it.

Avantiagain · 07/12/2025 08:00

Report her or not. Your choice. No need to come on here to start some benefit bashing.

BrunchBarBandit · 07/12/2025 07:59

TheVengaBusIsComingMyBusPassIsForthcoming · 07/12/2025 07:55

The amount of fraudulent benefit claimants that randomly tell MNers the most intricate details of their fraud is unreal.

Seriously unreal

Squishedpassenger · 07/12/2025 07:59

Why do you care? Go and chase amazon for money.

x2boys · 07/12/2025 07:58

TheVengaBusIsComingMyBusPassIsForthcoming · 07/12/2025 07:55

The amount of fraudulent benefit claimants that randomly tell MNers the most intricate details of their fraud is unreal.

Indeed ,if anyone was going to commit fraud why would they be stupid enough to boast about it🤔

TheVengaBusIsComingMyBusPassIsForthcoming · 07/12/2025 07:55

The amount of fraudulent benefit claimants that randomly tell MNers the most intricate details of their fraud is unreal.

OvernightBloats · 07/12/2025 07:54

The friend was very stupid to tell you this - it is not something to be proud of!

RosesAndHellebores · 07/12/2025 07:52

It seems you have a very poor choice of friends.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 07:44

Just report her.