I’ve been NC with my family for years. I live quite far from them (1.5 hour drive). Where I live is quite secluded and not much round here (only a couple of small shops small
cafe etc) not really anywhere you’d choose to go if you lived somewhere with more and there’s nothing of any great interest / attraction here.
I don’t know why but the family members I’m NC with keep visiting. I had to walk out of the cafe in shock the other day when I saw them , prior to that dp had told me he was sure he had seen them in the local shop a couple weeks before . This is typical ‘destabilising’ behaviour they’ve used in the past to make me feel anxious.
I know it’s a free country but why would they be doing this. I feel like moving as can’t cope with it .