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To think midwife’s get a rubbish deal compared to teachers?

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Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 19:30

Both should earn more than they do, obviously. My sister is trying to choose between midwifery and teaching. Both seem so different but she wants a guaranteed career and is trying to decide which route to take. I’ve been running comparisons with her.Whats shocked me is what a shoddy deal midwifes seem to get. Before taking into account that obviously, sadly, it carry huge emotional weight when things go wrong. Not entirely comparable in profession but why would anyone do this job?

Starting salary:
Midwife - £29,970
Teacher - £32,916

Highest salary without going into leadership
Midwife - £42,618
Teacher - £45,321

Holidays:
Teacher - 13 weeks plus term time bank holidays (though some unpaid, this is included in above salary) major holidays off, no flexibility to take term time off
Midwife - 27 days plus bank holidays, often work major holidays, can book time off when needed, though hard to get approval.

Pension (employer contribution):
Teacher - 28.6%
Midwife - 23.7%

Shifts:
Teacher - 6.5 hour shift mon-fri daytime (student facing) lots of reported overtime
Midwife - 12 hour shift inc evenings and weekends (patient facing) lots of reported overtime

AIBU to think midwives are getting a crap deal? Is it because they’re not as unionised?

also she’s obviously not basing which career she goes for on the above factors, but it has to be taken into consideration!

OP posts:
SuziQuinto · 05/12/2025 20:24

fruitj · 05/12/2025 20:20

I'm a midwife.
Most midwives start on band 5 but will become band 6 once completing their preceptorship (usually 1-2 years). The pay scales are freely available online (Agenda for Change).
Plus we get extra money for antisocial hours so our actual pay is usually above the quoted scales unless we end up working in 9-5 Monday to Friday roles - which most of us don't, even community midwives will do weekend work if not on-calls. We can also earn extra money through bank shifts.
I feel like we could be paid better for the responsibility but it's also not AS terrible as it's sometimes made out to be. We should be accurate in this.

I think teaching and midwifery are very different roles, both underpaid. I have no interest in pitting my role against teachers. I would like the people teaching my children to be well paid, to have the resources they need, to be happy and well supported with the right degree of autonomy - these people are then best placed to help my children. Just like I would like for midwives to have these things as well, so they can then better support the women they care for.

Excellent post 👌

Ffion56 · 05/12/2025 20:23

17k TLR 😂😂 find me all the job adverts with that wage!!

SuziQuinto · 05/12/2025 20:23

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:08

Can you contact a school to ask to shadow a teacher before you’re on a course? Is that allowed? I haven’t seen that option anywhere I’ve looked.

p.s I didn’t say teachers only work 6.5 hours a day? I said that was their student facing time. With lots of reported overtime.

No. We don't have the time to do this.
We used to facilitate it, but just got a lot of time wasters.

SuziQuinto · 05/12/2025 20:21

mumsneedwine · 05/12/2025 20:04

@Bitofashock everyone thinks we rock up at 8.30 and pop home at 3pm 😂.

😂
Did you see the other thread where posters were claiming that school trips are a "holiday" and a "jolly" for teachers? 😁

WearyAuldWumman · 05/12/2025 20:20

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:08

Can you contact a school to ask to shadow a teacher before you’re on a course? Is that allowed? I haven’t seen that option anywhere I’ve looked.

p.s I didn’t say teachers only work 6.5 hours a day? I said that was their student facing time. With lots of reported overtime.

You can in Scotland. In fact we often get undergrads asking to come in to do a day's work experience for a few weeks.

fruitj · 05/12/2025 20:20

I'm a midwife.
Most midwives start on band 5 but will become band 6 once completing their preceptorship (usually 1-2 years). The pay scales are freely available online (Agenda for Change).
Plus we get extra money for antisocial hours so our actual pay is usually above the quoted scales unless we end up working in 9-5 Monday to Friday roles - which most of us don't, even community midwives will do weekend work if not on-calls. We can also earn extra money through bank shifts.
I feel like we could be paid better for the responsibility but it's also not AS terrible as it's sometimes made out to be. We should be accurate in this.

I think teaching and midwifery are very different roles, both underpaid. I have no interest in pitting my role against teachers. I would like the people teaching my children to be well paid, to have the resources they need, to be happy and well supported with the right degree of autonomy - these people are then best placed to help my children. Just like I would like for midwives to have these things as well, so they can then better support the women they care for.

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2025 20:16

Tulipvase · 05/12/2025 19:58

Find that very hard to believe. How could you actually prove how the delivery of a child could affect something 17 years later?

Maternity notes have to be kept for 25 years so clearly issues affecting the mother or child can be the subject of litigation for this length of time.

Nursemumma92 · 05/12/2025 20:16

They are both extremely pressurised careers that are underpaid, understaffed and under resourced. A passion for the role is what gets you through so this is the most important thing. And a whole lot of resilience!

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 05/12/2025 20:15

I've worked in the NHS (12 hour shifts but not midwife) and as a teacher.

I'd go back to the NHS, I wouldn't go back to teaching.

Tulipvase · 05/12/2025 20:14

Fearfulsaints · 05/12/2025 20:09

They are very different jobs. The midwife does seem.badly paid in comparison

Im convinced the police pay better than both for degree level entry.

I cant really get the disparity between police and midwives as they both have the antisocial hours, leave cancelling element.

And I think they should - much rather be a midwife than a police officer. I know I’ll prob get shot for this but I think the fire service have the easiest time of the services……off the point too I know.

Busfriend · 05/12/2025 20:10

My sister is a nurse and earns well over her wages with bank work. Teachers don’t have that option and technically work for free in the holidays as I used to do my planning then as no time in term time. I don’t teach now and wouldn’t recommend it to anyone and also wouldn’t want to work for the nhs either sorry I think neither are great options although pensions are both much better than private sector. NHS also offers salary sacrifice for cars which is also a good perk

Mrsnothingthanks · 05/12/2025 20:10

You'd have to be off your trolley to want to become a teacher in the UK.

Fearfulsaints · 05/12/2025 20:09

They are very different jobs. The midwife does seem.badly paid in comparison

Im convinced the police pay better than both for degree level entry.

I cant really get the disparity between police and midwives as they both have the antisocial hours, leave cancelling element.

LoveSandbanks · 05/12/2025 20:09

I know teachers and they may not be in school for 13 weeks of the year but many of them are working, particularly infant and junior school staff. May half term is spent report writing and marking. Most teachers are in school for at the very least the last week of the summer holidays. A lot of it is very subject dependent. A friend who is a food tech teacher says that its the cushiest job she's ever had but those below secondary level appear to have it much harder.

To teach at year 6 and under you can do a B.Ed which is three years. To teach at secondary and above you need a PGCE and a relevant degree. Why anyone with a maths degree would enter teaching I have no idea. One of the hardest degrees to get that can command high salaries but you teach. Kudos to them but it's definitely not what I'd do with a maths degree! Teaching is fucking hard work, there's no overtime for "extra shifts". I'm sure midwifery is no easy life but I think you actually get paid for most of the hours you do.

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:08

Can you contact a school to ask to shadow a teacher before you’re on a course? Is that allowed? I haven’t seen that option anywhere I’ve looked.

p.s I didn’t say teachers only work 6.5 hours a day? I said that was their student facing time. With lots of reported overtime.

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SharpMintUser · 05/12/2025 20:08

Sorry but what is the point of this? You’ve made a post to put two professions against each other and also haven’t accurately fact checked. So many inaccuracies in what you’re saying about both professions

Tulipvase · 05/12/2025 20:06

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:03

Yes, TLRs can be over £17k.

so if you’re a teacher not in leadership but on UPS with a TLR, you could earn £67k

im just trying to help her with facts, she reads a lot about teaching being the worst/hardest job in the world, which is also why she’s considering midwifery now as she doesn’t hear bad things about that as much. Trying to help her with facts rather then just perception and thought it was interesting

not being goady. I’m not saying teachers have an easy ride, but I certainly believed they had the worse straw before I looked into it based on everything I’ve read before!

They might go up to 17k but the vast majority are significantly lower. And can vary from school to school. A head of year TLR position in my school seems to be approx 9k.

Hercisback1 · 05/12/2025 20:05

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:03

Yes, TLRs can be over £17k.

so if you’re a teacher not in leadership but on UPS with a TLR, you could earn £67k

im just trying to help her with facts, she reads a lot about teaching being the worst/hardest job in the world, which is also why she’s considering midwifery now as she doesn’t hear bad things about that as much. Trying to help her with facts rather then just perception and thought it was interesting

not being goady. I’m not saying teachers have an easy ride, but I certainly believed they had the worse straw before I looked into it based on everything I’ve read before!

A TLR will involve some sort of leadership, for example Head of department, phase lead or head of faculty.

Never known anyone on a 17k TLR though!

Allswellthatendswelll · 05/12/2025 20:05

I get that your sister is trying to choose between them but they are pretty different jobs and a bit arbitrary to compare.

I'm a teacher and it's hard but of course it's not the hardest or worst job in the world. It's quite subjective!

mumsneedwine · 05/12/2025 20:05

@Midwifeacher what tlr pays £17k ?!?!?! Most are £3-4k. And v unlikely to get one as no money. Why doesn't your sister shadow a teacher for a week and see the job ? Happy to oblige

Loara · 05/12/2025 20:04

Teaching is one of the only jobs where you prepare what will happen for every minute for 6.5 hours a day (accounting for every eventuality and need) at some unspecified, unpaid, 'non-working' time, and deal with everything generated by the over 200 kids you see each day outside those hours too.

If my husband has to prepare one presentation to 5 willing adults who don't yet understand something, he spends hours of his workdays leading up to it creating it. If I have 6 lessons tomorrow, plus pshe in tutor time, I just have to be ready with differentiated, fully resourced lessons and achieve nothing towards the next day within that time.

mumsneedwine · 05/12/2025 20:04

@Bitofashock everyone thinks we rock up at 8.30 and pop home at 3pm 😂.

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:03

Yes, TLRs can be over £17k.

so if you’re a teacher not in leadership but on UPS with a TLR, you could earn £67k

im just trying to help her with facts, she reads a lot about teaching being the worst/hardest job in the world, which is also why she’s considering midwifery now as she doesn’t hear bad things about that as much. Trying to help her with facts rather then just perception and thought it was interesting

not being goady. I’m not saying teachers have an easy ride, but I certainly believed they had the worse straw before I looked into it based on everything I’ve read before!

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WearyAuldWumman · 05/12/2025 20:02

mumsneedwine · 05/12/2025 19:57

Can we agree both are not paid well for the responsibility they hold. Midwives help mums give birth and teachers help them grow up to be helpful humans (mostly). Both suffer abuse I'm sure, me from 6 foot year 11s who are high or just angry, and midwives from mums giving birth (& they can be v angry !). Once had a scalpel held to my throat - will never get paid enough for that.

Yup.

I miscarried after being punched in the stomach by a teenage boy. I've explained elsewhere on here that the possible pregnancy wasn't included in the initial report because it hadn't been confirmed by a doctor and I wasn't even sure until I lost it the next day. (The line on the test had been very faint and I was in my 40s.)

Nothing was ever done - Fife's finest 'lost the statements'.

Hercisback1 · 05/12/2025 20:02

Tulipvase · 05/12/2025 19:54

Pretty sure that you don’t just get UPS through length of service. - it’s something you have to apply for and prove. But there are also TLRs available, more often in secondary schools.

You don't, sounds similar to B7 midwife from what I can quickly research but I'm not sure they are equivalent so apologies if this isn't the case.

Let's agree they're both badly paid jobs.

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