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To think midwife’s get a rubbish deal compared to teachers?

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Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 19:30

Both should earn more than they do, obviously. My sister is trying to choose between midwifery and teaching. Both seem so different but she wants a guaranteed career and is trying to decide which route to take. I’ve been running comparisons with her.Whats shocked me is what a shoddy deal midwifes seem to get. Before taking into account that obviously, sadly, it carry huge emotional weight when things go wrong. Not entirely comparable in profession but why would anyone do this job?

Starting salary:
Midwife - £29,970
Teacher - £32,916

Highest salary without going into leadership
Midwife - £42,618
Teacher - £45,321

Holidays:
Teacher - 13 weeks plus term time bank holidays (though some unpaid, this is included in above salary) major holidays off, no flexibility to take term time off
Midwife - 27 days plus bank holidays, often work major holidays, can book time off when needed, though hard to get approval.

Pension (employer contribution):
Teacher - 28.6%
Midwife - 23.7%

Shifts:
Teacher - 6.5 hour shift mon-fri daytime (student facing) lots of reported overtime
Midwife - 12 hour shift inc evenings and weekends (patient facing) lots of reported overtime

AIBU to think midwives are getting a crap deal? Is it because they’re not as unionised?

also she’s obviously not basing which career she goes for on the above factors, but it has to be taken into consideration!

OP posts:
Mrsnothingthanks · 05/12/2025 21:09

@HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear Agreed. I'm now an EOTAS Tutor after 21 years in primary teaching and do a max of 1/2 hr a day unpaid - I am pretty much paid for the hours I work.

Shinyandnew1 · 05/12/2025 21:09

What's the point of this?

Comparing two very different jobs and coming to the conclusion that teaching is probably easier?!

It sounds like a very thinly disguised teacher-bashing thread.

SuziQuinto · 05/12/2025 21:08

noblegiraffe · 05/12/2025 21:07

It's such a tough decision isn't it? On the one hand teachers get loads of holidays and clock off at 3 and on the other hand midwives spend their days cuddling babies.

Maybe she could do both? I mean, teachers are barely in work so she could spend those spare hours cuddling the babies.

I think that sounds like a fair compromise.

noblegiraffe · 05/12/2025 21:07

It's such a tough decision isn't it? On the one hand teachers get loads of holidays and clock off at 3 and on the other hand midwives spend their days cuddling babies.

Maybe she could do both? I mean, teachers are barely in work so she could spend those spare hours cuddling the babies.

HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear · 05/12/2025 21:05

I think that would be very true if teachers worked 9-3:30, M-F, termtime only.

When I was a teacher my annual salary divided by my hours worked over a year was well below minimum wage.

peanutbutt · 05/12/2025 21:04

@peanutbutt You don't think teachers are often faced with horrific and false allegations against them by the pupils they teach?

Of course there are risks. However I think the risk of litigation in healthcare is more common on a daily basis.

I think this thread is becoming a ‘which is the better job’ and I think the OP was looking for practical guidance. So it may be better to think more widely than MW versus teaching ? How about occupational therapy ? The role has expanded, they can specialise and no weekends ( in some OT roles). I’ve worked with lots of OT’s and they do a wonderful job, but it’s not as stressful as MW/ nursing. It’s interesting.

MeganM3 · 05/12/2025 21:02

£45k -ish for either is pretty good. What else is she going to do that could earn her that amount?
I don’t think that salary should be sniffed at at all. It’s decent. And with a fair pension too.

Mrsnothingthanks · 05/12/2025 21:01

I can't comment on midwifery, but as someone who was in primary teaching for 21 years I would never recommend it. And it's only getting worse.

Yerdug · 05/12/2025 20:55

One error or mis-judgment in a life/death emergency as a midwife is completely different to being a teacher.

SuziQuinto · 05/12/2025 20:54

KaleidoscopeSmile · 05/12/2025 20:53

Neither do I. In fact it's a bit thick really. I know, let's take two completely disparate things, "compare" them then decide that one of them isn't fair.

OP, do lollipop people and betting shop cashiers next.

Edited

Exactly! However, you'd still get people on here who have never done either, making wildly incorrect claims about the nature of both jobs!

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 05/12/2025 20:53

steff13 · 05/12/2025 19:43

This did make me chuckle a little. My first thought was that a teacher could have prevented this.

😂

TheMotherSide · 05/12/2025 20:53

Teachers can't claim for overtime.

Contractually, we have to put in the hours until the job is done, irrespective of how many hours outside of the school day this is.

In my case, this usually means arriving at school at 7:45am, working through lunch with lunchtime clubs, supervisory duties, booster groups etc, and leaving between 17-17:30, then putting in a couple of hours of planning and marking each night Mon-Thurs, and working 4 hours on a Saturday or Sunday. That's about 9.5 hours at work per day and another 12 hours of unpaid overtime on evenings and weekends per week. Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful for being able to work my overtime at home (I'm very jealous of people who WFH) but it sucks that overtime is not paid.

As I wish to remain a class teacher, and not move into management, my salary plateaued around 15 years ago and I'm earning the same as much more junior colleagues -that's frustrating.

I'm primary but I hear that secondary colleagues can work longer hours.

KaleidoscopeSmile · 05/12/2025 20:53

WhereAreWeNow · 05/12/2025 20:33

I don’t really get the point of this post. Both are incredibly demanding jobs which are hugely valuable to society and deserve much better pay and conditions. Both are immensely rewarding (in terms of making a positive contribution to society) and both get "a rubbish deal".

Neither do I. In fact it's a bit thick really. I know, let's take two completely disparate things, "compare" them then decide that one of them isn't fair.

OP, do lollipop people and betting shop cashiers next.

Mrsnothingthanks · 05/12/2025 20:50

@peanutbutt You don't think teachers are often faced with horrific and false allegations against them by the pupils they teach?

peanutbutt · 05/12/2025 20:47

Yes, MW’s are accountable up until baby is a teenager. Not sure of the age. My MW friend was being investigated for a shoulder injury in an 16 year old. It happens. Healthcare currently is litigious for all professionals who work in it. It’s big business for some law firms to take a nurse/ MW/ Dr/ Surgeon to court. Rightly so in some instances. I’d go for teaching if it was me.

MistressIggi · 05/12/2025 20:47

@WearyAuldWumman I'm really sorry that happened to you, that is unforgivable.

Mrsnothingthanks · 05/12/2025 20:46

@Yerdug Teacher - risks every day unsubstantiated accusations of gross misconduct (especially when on own with a class).

FurForksSake · 05/12/2025 20:45

@piscofrisco I work for the nhs in community mental health with young people. Social care I could and never would do. I cannot even imagine handling the abuse received as the staff member and also the abuse uncovered / witnessed / dealt with. It’s shit out there.

BobblyBobbleHat · 05/12/2025 20:45

I think unless you've worked in both it really is impossible to compare properly.

Most teachers I know do at least 50 hours a week, if not more, and spend a good chunk of the holidays going planning, completing SEN work (the forms and processes for each child can apparently take hours) and the required cpd. I expect in the end they are pretty similar. Yes teachers technically get more holidays, but they aren't paid for it and have to take it at the most expensive times.

Probably much of a muchness, but I don't know any midwives to compare it to.

GlasgowGal2014 · 05/12/2025 20:44

Cece92 · 05/12/2025 19:45

I’m sure on Scotland the starting wage for a teacher is not far off national living wage I know someone recently who qualified and it was like 24k around that area maybe 24.5k xxxx

That's just wrong. A teacher in Scotland gets paid £34,938 in their probationary year rising to £52,614 at the top of the unprompted scale. That's a good salary for any new graduate and a decent salary progression too compared to other public and voluntary sector roles.

https://www.tes.com/magazine/analysis/general/salary-for-teachers-in-scotland-pay-scale

Ffion56 · 05/12/2025 20:44

It’s a really strange thread.

I’m a teacher but I have absolutely no desire to be a playscheme worker. There’d also be very little point in paying qualified teacher rates to people running a holiday club. Total waste of money!

Cat1504 · 05/12/2025 20:42

canuckup · 05/12/2025 20:35

Of course midwives get a raw deal.

Nurses too, and HCP's in general.

I know of no profession that gets six weeks off in the summer. None.

School nurse get 6 weeks off where I work

Shoutygouty · 05/12/2025 20:42

So different that the comparison is meaningless. My sister went from teaching and after her kids became a midwife. I think she arrived in her new job at a tough time but it gives her way more joy.

Nightlight8 · 05/12/2025 20:42

Holdonforsummer · 05/12/2025 20:32

I am a midwife and my twin sister is a teacher. We are both mid 40s and earn almost identical salaries. It really sticks in my craw that she gets 13 weeks of holiday a year plus some bank holidays and I get 7 including bank holiday allowance. She has nearly three weeks off just over Christmas which is half of my holiday allowance. Yes, she works hard but I do too. I don’t think it is fair. I have long thought teachers should have to provide two weeks of holiday clubs each during the hols but obviously that would get shouted down. Once you add in the extra childcare midwives have to pay (I could often only get 1 week off in the summer holidays due to the intense competition for annual leave), it seems even more unfair. My sister barely paid for childcare while I had to fork out £80 per day for summer camps (two children). If I had my time over again, I would become a teacher. I know teachers think they work hard but trying to stem a haemorrhage and stitch a vagina at 3am on four hours sleep is really something else. Rant over.

I work in a hospital but I have to say teachers are very restricted in having time off. Replacing a teacher is harder. Theres no bank staff like MW. I also wouldn't want to be restricted to only booking holidays in 1/2 term the prices are extortionate. 7 weeks annual leave but you will get 3 days off a week sometimes 4 so tbh MW get a better deal regarding holidays by far. I do agree though that the both jobs are very different and wonder why OPs Sister has narrowed it down to these 2 inparticular?

MistressIggi · 05/12/2025 20:42

canuckup · 05/12/2025 20:35

Of course midwives get a raw deal.

Nurses too, and HCP's in general.

I know of no profession that gets six weeks off in the summer. None.

Well of course. The holidays are related to the schools being closed for children What other profession would this apply to?
I'd give a lot for the opportunity to work from home.

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