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To think midwife’s get a rubbish deal compared to teachers?

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Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 19:30

Both should earn more than they do, obviously. My sister is trying to choose between midwifery and teaching. Both seem so different but she wants a guaranteed career and is trying to decide which route to take. I’ve been running comparisons with her.Whats shocked me is what a shoddy deal midwifes seem to get. Before taking into account that obviously, sadly, it carry huge emotional weight when things go wrong. Not entirely comparable in profession but why would anyone do this job?

Starting salary:
Midwife - £29,970
Teacher - £32,916

Highest salary without going into leadership
Midwife - £42,618
Teacher - £45,321

Holidays:
Teacher - 13 weeks plus term time bank holidays (though some unpaid, this is included in above salary) major holidays off, no flexibility to take term time off
Midwife - 27 days plus bank holidays, often work major holidays, can book time off when needed, though hard to get approval.

Pension (employer contribution):
Teacher - 28.6%
Midwife - 23.7%

Shifts:
Teacher - 6.5 hour shift mon-fri daytime (student facing) lots of reported overtime
Midwife - 12 hour shift inc evenings and weekends (patient facing) lots of reported overtime

AIBU to think midwives are getting a crap deal? Is it because they’re not as unionised?

also she’s obviously not basing which career she goes for on the above factors, but it has to be taken into consideration!

OP posts:
Izzywizzy85 · 07/12/2025 15:51

intrepidpanda · 06/12/2025 16:07

Wow. Thought they both complained about shit pay
You both get a massively better deal than most other graduates
Just be grateful about the high salary and massive pension and stop comparing to others, cause you only compare to better and not worse leaving yourself feeling hard done to.

Please, go and train to be a teacher or a midwife then! Both really easy jobs that are very well paid, right? And luckily for you we’ve a massive shortage of both in the uk! 😊

CleverButScatty · 07/12/2025 14:55

Frieda86 · 06/12/2025 15:42

Tlrs for £17,000???? I need to get a job at that school!

I know. I left in 2021 but got about 4k for SENCO/deputy head in a 2 form primary work h a full class teaching responsibility!!

cotswoldsgal1234 · 07/12/2025 04:49

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:08

Can you contact a school to ask to shadow a teacher before you’re on a course? Is that allowed? I haven’t seen that option anywhere I’ve looked.

p.s I didn’t say teachers only work 6.5 hours a day? I said that was their student facing time. With lots of reported overtime.

My daughter is expected to be in school for 8. Students will one and see her, especially the year 11s. She is also runs a GCSE top up club, an Art club and a Textiles club. So that’s 9 hours of student face time. I have worked in the NHS as a nurse, then in a school. It was far easier in the NHS, so my advice would be midwifery.

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 06/12/2025 22:20

Midwives get paid for the hours they work though and can be more flexible. I'd happily do 3*12 hour shifts as a midwife and then pick up overtime as and when. As a teacher you would be working 8-5.30 each day at least and over the weekend at busier periods. But you don't get paid for overtime as you just do what you have to do.

Amba1998 · 06/12/2025 22:16

Teachers work WAY more than you’ve quoted

Midwives could do 3 x 12 hour shifts and be done for the week

I am neither and could do neither but just pointing our there is way more to your comparison

IMO both are a vocation. So if she has neither absolute passion then I wouldn’t be considering. Both are hard

Mrsnothingthanks · 06/12/2025 22:13

@Undertherainbow00 How long have you been teaching?

Undertherainbow00 · 06/12/2025 22:08

Midwifeacher · 06/12/2025 10:43

It’s a shame really as she always wanted to be a teacher but has heard so much negativity online from those in the profession, that she thinks midwifery would be a better option. She’s passionate about both. The numbers we went through showed teaching wasn’t too bad in that respect and that midwife’s get a crap deal too
and before you all jump on me again I never said teachers only work 6 hours a day!! I said that was their student facing shift
Though clearly neither are easy!
Can we ask the teachers on here who are saying not to do it etc, why you stay? Or have you all quit? What do ex teachers tend to do if you can’t hack it?

To answer your question…
I am an experienced teacher and my reasons for joining the profession were born out of my own personal experiences of school. I was a bright child and did well in Primary, however I ended up leaving school without a single qualification. I didn’t take my exams in Year 12 for reasons I won’t go into but needless to say, I felt worthless. I gained my qualifications after already having a career in the city. I worked in admin for an American corporation and progressed through the ranks. I was astounded how far I got without any formal qualifications! Once I had children, I volunteered at their schools and realised how much I loved being in the classroom. I worked my arse off to quality - evening college classes, mature uni student etc. I LOVE being a teacher - I cannot explain how it feels to watch your class progress from September to July and to know you are a small part of their life journey. I HATE the chronic underfunding of our state schools - it is simply life limiting for many. Teacher retention is at crisis point - in the near future class sizes will rise because there will simply not be enough of us. I am all about social mobility - I want every child to achieve their dreams and be better than they ever imagined. That is why I still get up at silly o’clock in the morning and work more hours than I should. Teaching is a vocation - 30 years ago I was earning 40k without my bonus. I don’t earn much more than that now!

Happyhousehappyheart · 06/12/2025 21:55

thetallfairy · 05/12/2025 19:41

Grow up

17 people agreed with me or thanked me so… If you’re going to post about an issue then at least spell the main words correctly!!

Needlenardlenoo · 06/12/2025 18:11

I am a teacher. I enjoy it on the whole. I earn more proportionally than the figures you quoted thanks to London weightings.

I love my subject and like having the opportunity to build my knowledge. Students ask really insightful questions sometimes.

A teacher blogger calculated recently that the real salary is about £5.50 an hour if you take actual hours worked into consideration.

I could never be a midwife! I'm far too squeamish!!

You're comparing apples and oranges I think.

AltitudeCheck · 06/12/2025 16:16

Haven't read the full thread but NHS annual leave starts at 27 days plus BH and rises to 29 days at 5 years and 33 days at 10 years. When you take BH into account that works out at about 8 weeks AL a year once you get to 10 years service, and that's proper AL, teachers AL usually involves an awful lot of school . I don't know any teachers who get to switch of for all of any 'holiday' period.

intrepidpanda · 06/12/2025 16:07

Wow. Thought they both complained about shit pay
You both get a massively better deal than most other graduates
Just be grateful about the high salary and massive pension and stop comparing to others, cause you only compare to better and not worse leaving yourself feeling hard done to.

Gill455 · 06/12/2025 16:02

mugglewump · 06/12/2025 13:49

Teachers regularly work 12 hours a day - I did when I was a class teacher. The difference is, they are not paid for those hours. Moreover, a fair proportion of school holidays are taken up with planning, report writing, changing displays etc.. Plus the stress of managing a class and all their needs 5 days a week. Midwife is IMO a much easier ride.

I don’t think teachers have an easy ride at all but neither do midwives, have a look at the you tube film
’ a midwife’s most challenging night’ this doesn’t even cover the aftermath, investigations and potential court cases that go on afterwards

Frieda86 · 06/12/2025 15:42

Midwifeacher · 05/12/2025 20:03

Yes, TLRs can be over £17k.

so if you’re a teacher not in leadership but on UPS with a TLR, you could earn £67k

im just trying to help her with facts, she reads a lot about teaching being the worst/hardest job in the world, which is also why she’s considering midwifery now as she doesn’t hear bad things about that as much. Trying to help her with facts rather then just perception and thought it was interesting

not being goady. I’m not saying teachers have an easy ride, but I certainly believed they had the worse straw before I looked into it based on everything I’ve read before!

Tlrs for £17,000???? I need to get a job at that school!

Mrsnothingthanks · 06/12/2025 15:21

Now I tutor I don't get paid for the holidays or get any pay if off ill. Would I return to classroom teaching again as the holidays are such a bonus? Never.

mugglewump · 06/12/2025 13:49

Teachers regularly work 12 hours a day - I did when I was a class teacher. The difference is, they are not paid for those hours. Moreover, a fair proportion of school holidays are taken up with planning, report writing, changing displays etc.. Plus the stress of managing a class and all their needs 5 days a week. Midwife is IMO a much easier ride.

Gill455 · 06/12/2025 13:45

Shinyandnew1 · 06/12/2025 10:18

My sister is trying to choose between midwifery and teaching. Both seem so different

They are completely different, yes.

Why don't you suggest your sister joins this thread, OP and she can share what she actually wants in a career. It sounds like there are huge numbers of both midwives and teachers on here to ask questions to-what a mine of information to tap into!

She wants a 'guaranteed' career, you say? I'm sure she/you are aware there are no guarantees with anything. 1/3 of teachers have left after five years and there are very few teachers in their 50/60s left, despite the pension age rising. I would imagine it's a similar situation in midwifery, perhaps someone on here can tell me?

In teaching, large numbers leave after having a baby. Huge numbers are forced out on capability or support plans when they get to the top of the pay scale as the budgets are so crap that head need to replace them with a newly qualified (cheap) teacher to balance the books. There is a whole campaign about this. Is this the same in midwifery? Teaching is a job where experience is now seen as bad because it makes you unaffordable for the budget. Young/fresh (and more importantly cheap) is desirable. The £17k TLR will never happen in a primary school-we have 0 TLRs in my school, none-simply can't afford them for anyone

What sort of 'guaranteed' job are you/she hoping for? It would be great to hear from her.

Both professions seem to have a high attrition rate due to the working conditions. I’ve heard from teacher friends about the reluctance to employ the more expensive teachers at the top of their band. Thankfully this has never really been an issue in midwifery, if anything the newly qualified midwives often have problems securing their first position, even though they are much cheaper to employ. I think because there is required to be a specific skill mix and it would be foolhardy of any trust to employ just all newly qualified midwives as it would be counterproductive financially if more things went wrong. That said the newly qualified midwives are worked just as hard ( for much lower pay) and do come with a wealth of up to date knowledge and recent experience in all areas so very much an asset to our team and much appreciated by the women we care for.

PodMom · 06/12/2025 13:23

CarrierbagsAndPJs · 06/12/2025 10:23

@PodMom if you do a degree, then it is a pgce on top, then two further in-the-job training years. So 6 years for teaching. We had someone fail in summer of their second in-school year recently. They failed towards the end of year 6.

Guess at least they get paid for those last two years. Midwives do a preceptorship as a NQ midwife which takes 1-2 years which technically you could not achieve. Saying that you are qualified before your preceptorship. I suppose if you didn’t achieve your suturing, cannulation, etc though you could potentially lose your job and if they thought you were bad enough your trust could report you to the nmc to be struck off. In reality they’d probably just give you more time.

Tulipvase · 06/12/2025 13:09

Whytry · 06/12/2025 09:01

https://www.cerebralpalsy-lawyers.co.uk/site/our-cases/3-million-compensation-for-young-man-with-cerebral-palsy

There's an example here, admittedly as a sales pitch from the lawyer, but most real life examples are obviously confidential. It's not uncommon for parents not to have known it was an option, or do feel like they 'couldnt' do it for any reason, and the child to feel differently. Or for the full impact of the damage to become known as time goes on, then to realise the child/young adult is likely to never live independently/need full time care whatever, and then decisions need to be made to safeguard their future. It's far less about things like heart conditions, and almost always about brain injuries, and there are ways and means of demonstrating the damage was acquired and not congenital quite easily which is why the records all have to be kept. It does happen and it's not as in frequent as you may think. 21 years is obviously far less common, but birth injury claims often resurface somewhere around primary school age when it becomes more apparent how much additional support is needed as their peers are becoming more independent and they aren't.

Thanks.

It was more the time scale that surprised me. Of course there are issues spotted at birth or the first few years but 18 years plus
seemed unlikely, to me any way. The heart thing was just an example, I can see that brain injuries are much more likely.

Shinyandnew1 · 06/12/2025 12:58

Returning to your actual question of

'do you think midwives get a rubbish deal compared to teachers'

What do you conclude? Do you still think this?

Gill455 · 06/12/2025 11:49

@rainbowstardrops thank you very much ☺️ yes it really is a wonderful job when there’s a good outcome and the family have been happy with the care you’ve given. It’s awful and very traumatic for all of those involved when there is an unexpected bad outcome. When my niece decided to go into midwifery I tried to dissuade her as I just thought, your such a lovely person and would hate for her to ever be that midwife in the wrong place at the wrong time 🙏
Obviously it is also really sad with the expected bad outcomes and sure all of us have got in our car to go home and just broken down in tears at the heartbreak for the poor family, if not before 😔 I have been blown over by these families that still always seem to say thank you to you at what is the most dreadful time of their lives

Thank you also @SuziQuinto although I really love doing our monthly antenatal class with (so far!!) an always lovely group of eager first time parents, I think I would be one of those teachers eaten alive by a class of year 9s 😂 never mind the flack you get if a certain % don’t pass their exams etc, much respect to you!

Shinyandnew1 · 06/12/2025 11:38

Midwifeacher · 06/12/2025 11:15

Hack it wasn’t meant to be provocative. She specifically said she was worried because ‘what would I do if I can’t hack it’
I’ll tell her to check out the fb group. Thank you.

Why doesn't your sister come on this thread herself?! Surely that would make more sense 😂

Hercisback1 · 06/12/2025 11:29

Why do I do it?

  1. The holidays
  2. I really enjoy working with young people. Teens are genuinely hilarious.
  3. That moment when a student "gets it" is brilliant.
  4. The holidays
  5. The holidays
  6. The holidays fit round my kids.
Midwifeacher · 06/12/2025 11:15

Hack it wasn’t meant to be provocative. She specifically said she was worried because ‘what would I do if I can’t hack it’
I’ll tell her to check out the fb group. Thank you.

OP posts:
Shinyandnew1 · 06/12/2025 10:51

Can we ask the teachers on here who are saying not to do it etc, why you stay? Or have you all quit? What do ex teachers tend to do if you can’t hack it?

Why for anyone stay in their job? They depend on the salary usually.

I would recommend she looks on the 'Exit the classroom and thrive' facebook post and take an hour to read some of the posts-then come back here. I'd be interested to know what she thinks. This group had about 30,000 members when I joined during Covid, it's now got 187000+. There are lots of posts about what teachers now do.

I would also maybe alter your language when talking to anyone about why they don't do the career they once loved. Asking them why they couldn't 'hack it' anymore, is unnecessarily provocative.

Mrsnothingthanks · 06/12/2025 10:46

@Midwifeacher I quit primary after 21 years in. Now an EOTAS Tutor. My biggest regret is I didn't do it sooner!