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Eurovision…… can’t handle this 💩 anymore!

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SheThinksShesAllThat · 04/12/2025 19:15

Whoever has pulled out of the Eurovision because Isreal are competing….. pathetic!

Spain, Ireland … to name a few.

Answer me this- if you have a nurse/doctor from Isreal or Israeli decent….. will you not be seen by them?

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EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:34

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:31

But why did Israel attack?

I'll wait.

Do you seriously think that just because the Palestinians started it this time, that gives Israel carte blanche to commit all the human rights abuses they want in return? Have you thought about the horrifying implications of that for more than 2 seconds?

People who have been victimised can still do bad things. Men who were sexually abused as children are far more likely to themselves become abusers - that helps explain, but does not excuse their actions. They are still guilty.

2021x · 04/12/2025 22:34

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:31

But why did Israel attack?

I'll wait.

I think it is important that the discussion on this thread is focused purely on Eurovision. I am sure there are many threads on this forum that you can discuss the Israel-Hammas conflict.

Would you be concerned about the safety of the Israeli contestant if they perform this year, and if Israel do not get through to the final would you automatically assume that it was rigged?

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:33

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:27

Yes, this. ^ I can't believe anyone can possibly think any different. It's bizarre. There's some real groupthink shit going on when it comes to this.

Just because Israel was attacked, it does not give them carte blanche to commit all the human rights abuses they want in return.

Both sides are bad. You don’t have to pick one and defend everything they do. That’s the real groupthink, and you are just as guilty of it.

2021x · 04/12/2025 22:31

Coffeeandbooks88 · 04/12/2025 22:29

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ckg77pxj2mno.amp

Plus too much influence from Israeli politicians etc.

Awesome thanks for that its really helpful.

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:31

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:30

The Palestinian babies - and many, many, more of them - are just as dead. Do you think it makes a difference to their mothers whether the thing that killed them was fired from a gun or dropped from a plane?

But why did Israel attack?

I'll wait.

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:30

Livelovebehappy · 04/12/2025 22:11

The hostages taken by Hamas were also raped - both men and women. And saying toddlers were shot in the head is twisting the narrative to something it’s not. Yes, children were killed during the attempts by Israel to retrieve the hostages, which no-one wanted, but please don’t imply that toddlers were lined up and shot in the head….

The Palestinian babies - and many, many, more of them - are just as dead. Do you think it makes a difference to their mothers whether the thing that killed them was fired from a gun or dropped from a plane?

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:28

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:25

100% agree @SheThinksShesAllThat You won't get many on MN agreeing though. 🙄 Pulling out of the Eurovision Song Contest next year (because Israel is going to take part in it) is childish and pathetic. I will be embarrassed to show my face in mainland Europe again if the UK pulls out!

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It is childish, and simplistic, but it's what people like - a clear narrative of good guy bad guy and everyone claps and cheers.

KilliMonjaro · 04/12/2025 22:28

hattie43 · 04/12/2025 20:00

Because Russia aggressively attacked a country . Isreal were defending themselves .

Ffs

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:27

hattie43 · 04/12/2025 20:00

Because Russia aggressively attacked a country . Isreal were defending themselves .

Yes, this. ^ I can't believe anyone can possibly think any different. It's bizarre. There's some real groupthink shit going on when it comes to this.

SnipSnipMrBurgess · 04/12/2025 22:27

Livelovebehappy · 04/12/2025 22:11

The hostages taken by Hamas were also raped - both men and women. And saying toddlers were shot in the head is twisting the narrative to something it’s not. Yes, children were killed during the attempts by Israel to retrieve the hostages, which no-one wanted, but please don’t imply that toddlers were lined up and shot in the head….

Are you human at all?

Yes babies were killed but we didn't line them up.....

I actually have no words

Zov · 04/12/2025 22:25

100% agree @SheThinksShesAllThat You won't get many on MN agreeing though. 🙄 Pulling out of the Eurovision Song Contest next year (because Israel is going to take part in it) is childish and pathetic. I will be embarrassed to show my face in mainland Europe again if the UK pulls out!

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EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:23

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:20

The Russian invasion of Ukraine has broader geographical implications in a way that none of those other conflicts did (or at least, were perceived to have at the time).

For you.

For hundreds of millions of Eastern Europeans and for hundreds of millions Western Europeans who care about the security of our continent.

2021x · 04/12/2025 22:23

Coffeeandbooks88 · 04/12/2025 22:22

They broke voting rules for Eurovision but blame it on people being anti-Semitic why don't you? 🙄

Can you explain how they broke the voting rules?

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:23

You have the luxury of taking that position because these issues don’t affect you directly.

Same as you brushing off Armenia, Georgia etc then?

Coffeeandbooks88 · 04/12/2025 22:22

They broke voting rules for Eurovision but blame it on people being anti-Semitic why don't you? 🙄

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:20

The Russian invasion of Ukraine has broader geographical implications in a way that none of those other conflicts did (or at least, were perceived to have at the time).

For you.

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:19

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:18

Yeah get with the programme. We all have to be moral arbiters of everything now, and to apply the ever changing filter of our morality to every aspect of life.

You have the luxury of taking that position because these issues don’t affect you directly. Hundreds of millions of Eastern Europeans can’t say the same thing.

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:18

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:16

Well, you are in the minority.

Yeah get with the programme. We all have to be moral arbiters of everything now, and to apply the ever changing filter of our morality to every aspect of life.

2021x · 04/12/2025 22:16

lazyarse123 · 04/12/2025 22:14

Of course I do. I don't even pretend to understand the rights and wrongs of it.
I don't think politics should be brought into a stupid music competition or sport. The people competing don't have anything to do with the running of their respective countries.

I agree, I feel for the people of Israel a majority of whom are quite appaulled by the actions of their government in the same way that most British people were appaulled about the Trans-atlantic slave trade and the Indian Genocide when they learned about it.

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:16

lazyarse123 · 04/12/2025 22:14

Of course I do. I don't even pretend to understand the rights and wrongs of it.
I don't think politics should be brought into a stupid music competition or sport. The people competing don't have anything to do with the running of their respective countries.

Well, you are in the minority.

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 04/12/2025 22:15

I agree with you OP! Its pathetic.

Livelovebehappy · 04/12/2025 22:15

1457bloom · 04/12/2025 22:08

Killing and burning to death women and children is not self defence. Don’t be surprised if people don’t like you when you do it.

Hamas should have protected their people by releasing the hostages. What did the kidnaps and murders achieve? Nothing, but thousands of people dead. Israel have every right to be in the Eurovision. If other countries want to have tantrums about it, then let them crack on.

lazyarse123 · 04/12/2025 22:14

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:08

You do realise that it’s possible for neither side to have the high ground? That it’s possible for people to despise Hamas while also believing that Israel is committing human rights abuses? In some wars - in fact, in a lot of wars, both sides are bad. And the fact that one side is worse does not excuse abominable acts committed by the ‘better’ side.

Israel’s cause may be just, but that doesn’t mean that it’s impossible for them to have crossed moral lines in the process of pursuing that cause.

Of course I do. I don't even pretend to understand the rights and wrongs of it.
I don't think politics should be brought into a stupid music competition or sport. The people competing don't have anything to do with the running of their respective countries.

EddyNeddy · 04/12/2025 22:14

Hortesne · 04/12/2025 22:10

I genuinely don't think they could have come with the "peace and unity" with both Russia and Ukraine in the contest.

Other people manage. Armenia and Azerbaijan, Russia and Georgia, Greece and Cyprus. Admittedly the cancel machine went into overdrive around Russia, with supermarkets refusing to stock (Polish) vodka and renaming (French) chicken dishes etc, but it's disappointing that Eurovision bought into it too.

You get that there are multiple countries in Eurovision who are also directly threatened by Russia? Ukraine, Estonia, Lithuania, Latvia and Poland, for starters, would have pulled out had Russia been allowed to continue to participate.

Armenia and Azerbaijan are pretty much the only countries who care about their conflict (well besides Turkey, but they’re on the side of Azerbaijan who were undeniably the aggressors in the most recent outbreak of that war so would hardly have pulled out over Azerbaijan’s continued inclusion).

Greece and Cyprus are friends and allies - I think you mean Greece and Turkey (with Turkey being the country that is occupying northern Cyprus)…

And in the case of the Russian invasion of Georgia in 2008, it was far enough away that Europeans could pretend it didn’t have European implications.

The Russian invasion of Ukraine has broader geographical implications in a way that none of those other conflicts did (or at least, were perceived to have at the time).

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