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To not sign the contract

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yoghurttops · 04/12/2025 10:00

I work 1 day a week. I agreed to cut my hours before I went off to mat leave, but I realised that I was going through bad prenatal depression and wanted to be at home so I agreed to going from 3 days to 1 day.

Now that I am back (I’m 1 year in), I realised it was a silly discussion. I did ask for extra hours but they said no.

They are realising the value of my role now (I’ve had to scream and shout about why comms is important - and 1 year of doing the bare minimum whilst I was on mat leave has made them realise my role brought in leads and awareness of the company!)

So I was given an updated contract last month. According to them the change is who I report to and confirming I work from home so I can claim expenses … but it is significantly different to my previous contract

  1. They have shared my role with 2 other people in the team. Both are clueless and rely on me. But yet one has become my manager and the other is doing a lot of the work I suggested
  2. It’s a demotion as my line manager has changed from CEO to manager
  3. They have removed my job description/responsibilities and have made it weaker so I could be doing anything
  4. Pay has gone down by £1000

A few more things that make me dispensable and shows my role has been downgraded.

I’m not part of a union. Work in the charity sector. I have been job hunting for a year + with no luck (interviews but don’t get the job - feedback is always I couldn't have done anything different but other candidates are that tiny bit stronger).

They are pressuring me to sign the contract but I’m struggling to know what to do next as I have stalled it (I mean it’s not that hard to do when your next working day is a week away).

AIBu for not signing it? Can I make a counter offer. Or ask them to change some bits.

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ComtesseDeSpair · 04/12/2025 10:50

If you’re not in a union I’d make an appointment with an employment law solicitor.

You don’t have to accept lower pay or a material change to your job description, and should ask for a clear business case as to why they’re proposing both. Some of the new clauses are not unreasonable per se. If you are only working one day a week then your role will necessarily have changed and it’s reasonable that they’ve recruited other team members, including a manager. If the team structure has materially changed then it’s not a demotion for you to no longer report into the CEO. If you think your colleagues aren’t performing well then that’s a separate HR issue.

Cherry8809 · 04/12/2025 10:22

To be fair, if you went down to 1 day a week before Mat leave, then were out of the business for a year, and have come back only doing 1 day, you probably are becoming dispensable to them.

They’ve had to adapt around you and your absence, and find people to pick up the slack and the requirements of the role.

You can ask them to review whatever aspects of the new contract that you’re unhappy with, but they’re within their rights to say no if it doesn’t meet business needs.

JacquesHarlow · 04/12/2025 10:09

What "bits" do you think they can realistically change?