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To think it’s weird millions of people eat the same dishes on one day of the year?

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HelloCharming · 04/12/2025 07:30

I have Russian friends who visited one Christmas (when it was still easy for Russians to visit). When we asked them what they ate for Christmas they looked confused and said, we cook something we really like, usually a bit more expensive or luxurious than usual. They thought it was hilarious that practically a whole country cooked essentially the same dinner on one day of the year.

bit of a lightbulb moment for me. We are having beef this year, and will be having lamb the first year we aren’t hosting lamb dislikes (the rest of the family).

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Mikart · 05/12/2025 09:03

I dont like traditional Xmas food so dont cook it or eat it. Im having Moroccan lamb tagine

ShizIsWicked · 05/12/2025 09:02

It's only weird if people are eating the traditional dinner and don't like it. Not weird at all if you make it a feast and the entire family sit together, we have 18. Considering my wedding had 20 guests, I would say that's an occasion to be celebrated with the best food you can make.

Ok, literally sitting here thinking, do people really make food they don't enjoy on xmas day?

OttersMayHaveShifted · 05/12/2025 05:26

No, it's not weird at all. It is perfectly normal in lots of countries/cultures to have festivals and occasions where specific foods are commonly eaten. Human beings tend to like ritual and tradition. They bind people together, are part of heritage and are enjoyable.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 05/12/2025 05:15

SeaAndStars · 04/12/2025 09:49

We had lamb a few years ago and the problem we found is that it's not the best meat cold. The leftovers and cold cuts are a BIG thing in our house and we missed out that year. We wouldn't do it again but If you do perhaps have a chicken or gammon or something else too.

I have to disagree! Sliced lamb on warm baguette with garlic butter and any sandwich additions you like. 😋😋😋

Channel4IsShit · 04/12/2025 21:13

Goose was the Victorian standard for Christmas dinner in England.

It doesn’t have to be turkey.

But eat what you want!

HeyThereDelila · 04/12/2025 21:10

Lots of countries do this- the French often have goose, Poles often have carp.

In Britain before Turkey was popular the rich would have beef, poorer families would have goose.

Hoppinggreen · 04/12/2025 20:59

We have a curry
We used to go out to a local posh Indian restaurant but they are charging almost £100 per head this year so we are making our own. We will do it xmas eve in the morning as we are going out that evening
We will probably go out Boxing Day, maybe for an Italian

CoffeeCantata · 04/12/2025 20:53

Spacemoon · 04/12/2025 20:37

I personally love the tradition of having the same meal every Christmas. I also love turkey and I swear blind 90% of people who say they dislike it simply can't cook 🤣! For me, Christmas IS tradition, that's the whole point. I'm an atheist, so to me Christmas holds zero religious meaning. Instead it is all about family, food, togetherness and traditions. I also absolutely love cooking and look forward to cooking my turkey and all the trimmings!

To each their own, but I really do think it's a shame so many Brits are losing their connection to our long standing traditions.

I totally agree with this post. Christmas is as much a cultural event as a religious one to many people. I’m not a believer but I was brought up to go to church and I thoroughly enjoy the Nine Lessons and Carols from King’s on Christmas Eve and singing traditional carols. At the school I last worked at I was touched that so many Asian students (not Christian) had a Christmas tree and presents and felt part of the celebration too. We need things which bring us together - society is dangerously divided these days.

TessSaysYes · 04/12/2025 20:44

Stop pretending. People eat many different things on Christmas day.
You re weird to post this 🙄

38thparallel · 04/12/2025 20:40

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · Today 07:35

I think it’s weird they were seemingly unaware of the concept of particular foods being traditional on certain days, it’s hardly unique to the UK and Christmas

This. Also I think it’s rude and patronising of the Russian guests to describe a tradition of their hosts’s country as ‘hilarious’.

Spacemoon · 04/12/2025 20:37

I personally love the tradition of having the same meal every Christmas. I also love turkey and I swear blind 90% of people who say they dislike it simply can't cook 🤣! For me, Christmas IS tradition, that's the whole point. I'm an atheist, so to me Christmas holds zero religious meaning. Instead it is all about family, food, togetherness and traditions. I also absolutely love cooking and look forward to cooking my turkey and all the trimmings!

To each their own, but I really do think it's a shame so many Brits are losing their connection to our long standing traditions.

Ladyingreen999 · 04/12/2025 20:31

I think it's similar to other parts of EE, so they have traditional Christmas Eve food (although there is more variety and region specific dishes), and on Christmas Day it can be anything really like you said.

CoffeeCantata · 04/12/2025 20:05

It’s not weird. Human cultures the world over have their special foods with ritual and historical significance.

Eating turkey and plum pudding is not compulsory and many people vary the meal in all kinds of ways, but personally I like the idea that so many people are eating/doing the same things on the same day.

God knows - there’s little enough to bring us all together these days!

sprigatito · 04/12/2025 17:58

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 04/12/2025 15:06

We will have beef shins, red wine sauce, Yorkshire puds and red cabbage.

No turkey, no stuffing, no gravy...

No roasties?

TheIceBear · 04/12/2025 17:34

I kind of agree with you in a way. Like I never eat turkey apart from Xmas . In fact I think I prefer chicken. If turkey was that great I’d be eating it more often.

Boutonnière · 04/12/2025 15:26

Millytante · 04/12/2025 11:53

It’s no more weird than a majority of us preferring a Christmas tree like this 🎄rather than 🌵
We’re a social, tribal species, so a shared, time-honoured experience of major festivals (even though nowadays we are in discrete family groups) is pretty much hardwired.

This festival, above all of them on these islands, has been among us too long not to have imprinted significant attachment to it in most people.
If Christmas is anything, it’s a traditional festive time, whether Christian (religious and/or cultural) or a pagan-adjacent Yuletide/Mid-Winter solstice observation.
Many have a blended kind of feeling in their bones about it all: culturally Christian with an old pagan mid-Winter appreciation alongside.
The trappings are similar, and the old-style roast beef was only replaced by birds owing to £sd.

Growing up in an Irish family, we always had a goose, maybe a capon (though the latter is probably as lorst and gorn as the pteradactyl these days).
Though I live alone now, I still find it extremely difficult not to cook myself some version of the traditional fare.
(I did try lamb once and maybe it was some odd coincidence on the day, but Christ it was miserable! I’m a good cook, but it just felt wrong)

I love and cherish the connection I feel with everyone out there enjoying a similar feast, and I know the days of this common approach to the great meal must be numbered, and all traditional menus will fade away.

I must sound like Little Miss Tragic, 1934. 🤣

That isn't to say anything is prescribed or in any other way an obligation, but it’s certainly not an apt description of the usual goings-on to refer to them as “weird’!

Beautifully said 👏

Papyrophile · 04/12/2025 15:26

In NYC, many Jewish people eat Chinese on Christmas Day!

This year, I hope to buy two guinea fowl (note to self to see butcher tomorrow). I've ordered a ham for Christmas Eve, and may look for a few oysters in a nod to my French ancestors, then we'll eat rib of beef on Christmas Day. On Boxing Day, we'll take a leftovers smorgasbord to friends.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 04/12/2025 15:06

We will have beef shins, red wine sauce, Yorkshire puds and red cabbage.

No turkey, no stuffing, no gravy...

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Ouchthatcutdeep · 04/12/2025 14:41

The Japanese custom of having a KFC will blow their mind then!

BertieBotts · 04/12/2025 14:37

I like the traditional English Christmas dinner anyway :D

BertieBotts · 04/12/2025 14:37

I taught English in Germany and made this discovery as well - I had the assumption that "Christmas dinner" would be a universal thing even if the actual dishes were different, but apparently not! They do tend to have a special meal, but no specific popular dish. Although they often have raclette for New Years' Eve.

NameChanger20252 · 04/12/2025 14:25

I don’t think it’s weird but we’re having steak and chips this year 😋 Not because we don’t love a Christmas dinner, it’s just that we’re going out for two dinners with friends and family prior to the day and it’s just us on Christmas Day so we thought we’d have that 🤷‍♀️ We’ve had pizza before when it’s just been the two of us…why not?!!

BauhausOfEliott · 04/12/2025 13:49

I don't think it's weird - most nations/religions/cultures have foods that they traditionally eat on certain days or for certain celebrations. Not necessarily Christmas, but certainly for other festivals or special days.

It's not just food, either, is it? There are lots of traditional celebratory things that millions of people all do on the same day in certain cultures because it gives them a feeling of connection and comfort in relation to their heritage or nationality. People like traditions because they're reassuring to us.

OtherS · 04/12/2025 12:46

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 04/12/2025 08:20

Bellinis?

That's a cultural tradition I could get behind! 😁

We have chicken now, but that's because our family is small now. It's sad, even though I'm not much of a fan of turkey.

But what I find weirder than eating something I don't massively enjoy for Christmas lunch is not eating stuff I do massively enjoy all year round - why do I only eat pigs in blankets at Christmas? Or potted stilton, Christmas pudding with sherry sauce, yule logs?!

And the whole country eating the same thing one day a year is completely normal, most people have this. What's more interesting is everyone having the same thing one day a week; I'm not sure anyone else has a Sunday roast equivalent?

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