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To think this isn't a normal cough?

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 13:46

Every time after I get a cold or similar, I get a truly awful cough.

Technically I would call it a tickly cough, but what it feels like is that I'm being stabbed in my windpipe just under my jaw with a feather. Tickle doesn't really cut it. It's always the same sensation, always in that same place. I do get "normal" tickly coughs and this isn't like that. This usually happens between twice an hour - every other hour.

It happens suddenly and sends me into an uncontrollable coughing fit - my stomach / ribcage spasms, I can't control anything and end up gasping for breath, I have tears rolling down my face, and very often I end up actually retching or gagging, or being sick. I usually end up pulling muscles badly and end up in pain too. I don't get more than an hour or two of sleep for weeks. Just this lunchtime I had to spit my food back out on to my plate as I was eating. Rather ruined my appetite.

This has been going on since I was a teenager, it's nothing to do with COVID.

I've thrown up on buses, in cars, had to sprint from the office (or meetings, more embarrassingly) trying desperately to control myself until I can get to the bathrooms, it really impacts my life badly for about two weeks after I've been ill and even a mild cold seems to trigger it.

I've tried every over the counter medicine going, nothing helps. When I see the doctors, they just say it's normal (although I don't see anyone else doubled up on the street coughing their guts out with any regularity). The last doctor I saw earlier this year tried to tell me it was whooping cough - in which case I've had more episodes of whooping cough than the entire cast of a Dickens novel - and gave me antibiotics. They didn't work. I've tried the stop-cough techniques, they don't work either.

This cannot be normal right? I don't see anyone else with the same problem. Its exhausting and makes me so anxious I daren't leave the house unless I absolutely have to.

Is there anyone else who gets this or are there any doctors for whom this rings any bells? I just cannot believe this is normal and I have to live like this for 8+ weeks a year.

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Augarden · 04/12/2025 10:20

A doctor also said I had whooping cough, but it turned out it was acid reflux.

Bagsintheboot · 04/12/2025 10:16

I'm sorry to others who have a similar experience! It is extremely unpleasant and sometimes quite scary, hopefully this thread helps others give their GP a nudge if they're suffering with similar.

Yes the point about having whooping cough as a child is interesting. I don't know if I have had whooping cough to be honest. I have a vague recollection that my mum took me to see a doctor about a.bad cough but I would have been about 10 or 11 and I genuinely don't remember the outcome or anything other than a faint memory of the appointment.

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Tillow4ever · 04/12/2025 08:28

I could have written your post OP. It’s so embarrassing, isn’t it? I absolutely hate it. I remember back when Swine Flu was in the news I was coughing like this in the office and people kept staring at me - I was like “I haven’t been to Mexico I swear”. A doctor did prescribe me an inhaler that time actually - my peak flow was very low. The inhaler helped my cough a little. But I was later told (when the cough was gone) my peak forward find now so I don’t have asthma. Yet I ended up on a nebuliser one time - I had been out for a run when I had a mild cold and the weather was cold. I was still struggling to breathe 24 hours later so went to the doctor. He put me on the nebuliser and told me I likely have asthma triggered by very specific circumstances. With what I’m reading on this thread, I’m wondering if maybe I need an I have on regular prescription! I’m just getting over a cold now. Had the cough for about 3 weeks although it’s almost gone. I tried my sons blue inhaler one night out of sheer desperation and it seemed to help!

The only other thing that works for me is over the counter strength co-codamols. A dr years ago told me codeine is a natural cough suppressant, but I think you need 15mg or more for it to work. So she said try taking 2 of my 8/500 co-codamols - and it works! I now take 2 before I go to bed so I can get 4 hours or so of sleep before it wears off and I wake up with the coughing fit you describe. Obviously don’t take it alongside normal paracetamol - take it instead of, but it’s worth a try!

I do feel for you - I always thought I never see anyone rise like this, so I’m pleased to read on here I don’t suffer alone. Do you get a weird tingly feeling all across your chest, head and arms when you have the coughing spell? That I particularly hate.

I was interested to read another poster say once you have had whooping cough, and coughs after mimic that. I am having a vague memory of whopping cough being mentioned when I was a kid, but don’t know if I was formally diagnosed. But that might make sense! Shame there’s no way to make it stop.

Oh, and to the poster making out you’re weird for getting “so many” colds… bully for you having a great immune system and not exposed to other people with illnesses. Would you like a medal? We are all different, and some people are more susceptible to coughs and colds than others. My middle son will be 18 next month. I can count on one hand how many times he’s been ill in his entire life - he just doesn’t get sick! My youngest has asthma and he suffers a lot more frequently with coughs and colds though. I know during covid it was the first time in my life I hadn’t had several colds over the winter (none at all in fact) but usually I get several each season. I take high doses of vitamin D etc and have regular blood tests for chronic conditions, so would be aware of any other deficiencies. Perhaps consider how it sounds next time you want to boast about your perfect health?

justasking111 · 03/12/2025 23:36

I had a nurse diagnose asthma. GP had been no help so was fobbed off with nurse. She did a breath peak flow. Gave me a couple of puffs on an inhaler. Said sit back in the waiting room. I'll come and get you in ten minutes. I then did the peak flow test again. Result asthma.

It's pretty much controlled now but certain things can set me off so I carry an inhaler in my bag at all times. Use seretide at home morning and night.

It's annoying because different things can set it off. Something in someone's home, workplace, cold air, something the dogs bring in on their coats after a walk. I know when it's starting so escape the room grabbing my inhaler and head outside to use it and get some fresh air. Our new sofa set me off for a while.

I also take fexofenadine every morning.

Goldrushjoe · 03/12/2025 23:19

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:28

I really don't think I'm getting whooping cough 4 or so times a year for the last 20+ years. I just don't think that's realistic.

What is interesting is that once you’ve had whooping cough once in your life, any cold or cough afterwards tends to mimic the original paroxysms.

LadyFriend · 03/12/2025 23:12

I have a similar problem with coughs, mine always last for weeks after a cold. It’s embarrassing and it’s like a tickling sensation at the top of my windpipe.

I’ve suspected cough variant asthma for a long time now and I know I should see a GP about it. This thread had inspired me to do something about it.

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 18:40

JDM625 · 03/12/2025 18:36

I appreciate that you aren't bed bound with illness every few months, nor did I suggest you were! You've described them as winter colds, sniffles and sort throats. As said, both DH and I would AT MOST have something that minor every 1-2yrs. Not every 2mths. None of my colleagues come to work with sniffles and sore throats every few months either. Maybe we are the odd ones here and not you though? 🤷‍♀️

I think you're rather lucky in that respect then. The NHS says the average adult will get 2-4 colds per year, so I appear to be in the normal range...

https://www.cheshireandmerseyside.nhs.uk/your-health/helping-you-stay-well/self-care/common-cold/

NHS Cheshire And Merseyside Logo

Common cold

Common cold

https://www.cheshireandmerseyside.nhs.uk/your-health/helping-you-stay-well/self-care/common-cold

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JDM625 · 03/12/2025 18:36

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 18:08

Sorry but you're making it sound like I'm struck down and bed bound regularly with this. Colds are common (hence the name!) and easy to pick up on crowded tubes and trains, especially in winter when about 75% of other passengers are sniffing and sneezing and coughing.

I am not anaemic nor do I have any other deficiencies (I have had blood tests for a different reason and all is fine and dandy).

These are not horrid illnesses which necessitate taking time off work. They're the normal gamut of winter sniffles and sore throats that might last for a couple of days and which can easily be handled with a paracetamol and a packet of Halls if needed.

It is the consequent cough which I have issues with.

I appreciate that you aren't bed bound with illness every few months, nor did I suggest you were! You've described them as winter colds, sniffles and sort throats. As said, both DH and I would AT MOST have something that minor every 1-2yrs. Not every 2mths. None of my colleagues come to work with sniffles and sore throats every few months either. Maybe we are the odd ones here and not you though? 🤷‍♀️

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 18:08

JDM625 · 03/12/2025 17:47

I don't think getting 4 or so colds over 8-9 months of the year is very bad
Sorry WHAT!

Do you have young children or work in a nursery? If so, I could 'maybe' understand that level of regular illness. If not, I'd be asking for blood tests to check for anaemia or a deficiency causing you to be more susceptible. DH and are late 40's, but no children and rarely have close contact with young children. We 'might' get a cold every 1-2yrs! If I was getting one every 2mths, I'd be concerned something else was going on!

Sorry but you're making it sound like I'm struck down and bed bound regularly with this. Colds are common (hence the name!) and easy to pick up on crowded tubes and trains, especially in winter when about 75% of other passengers are sniffing and sneezing and coughing.

I am not anaemic nor do I have any other deficiencies (I have had blood tests for a different reason and all is fine and dandy).

These are not horrid illnesses which necessitate taking time off work. They're the normal gamut of winter sniffles and sore throats that might last for a couple of days and which can easily be handled with a paracetamol and a packet of Halls if needed.

It is the consequent cough which I have issues with.

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JDM625 · 03/12/2025 17:47

I don't think getting 4 or so colds over 8-9 months of the year is very bad
Sorry WHAT!

Do you have young children or work in a nursery? If so, I could 'maybe' understand that level of regular illness. If not, I'd be asking for blood tests to check for anaemia or a deficiency causing you to be more susceptible. DH and are late 40's, but no children and rarely have close contact with young children. We 'might' get a cold every 1-2yrs! If I was getting one every 2mths, I'd be concerned something else was going on!

ChoccieCornflake · 03/12/2025 17:23

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:25

I've tried the broncho pastilles, unfortunately they don't seem to work for me. I think I've probably tried just about every cough sweet going!

I'm not a particularly unwell person, I don't think getting 4 or so colds over 8-9 months of the year is very bad. I don't need to be struck down heavily for this to happen - it happens even with a mild sniffle.

Unfortunately I commute on busy trains and the tube and sit in a busy open plan office. Colds and so forth abound!

I am very much not a medic, but this happening when you get a cold screams asthma to me. Definitely worth asking your GP about as it could be quite a straightforward fix!

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 17:20

IsItSnowing · 03/12/2025 17:10

I have cough variant asthma. A previous GP also told me it was normal. I used to cough so badly that I was physically sick and my chest muscles ached.
I was properly diagnosed about 20 years ago now when I got fed up of the old quack and found a new GP.
It's notoriously under diagnosed because it doesn't follow the normal patterns for asthma. It's well worth asking for a spirometry test as that is how they can best tell. At least you can get it ruled out if not.
But no, it's not normal. Don't let them fob you off.

Thank you, I might try to get a private GP appointment through my works insurance to discuss this. I've been having a Google and it does sound like it ticks a lot of boxes. It does make me cough til I'm sick once or twice an episode or, more rarely, til I'm physically winded.

I've probably seen 4-5 doctors about this over the years. Usually I only go when it's particularly severe and I'm desperate. But every time it's the same advice about humidity, sleeping with the head elevated, saline solutions, or the frankly bizarre whooping cough diagnosis. Even when I said to her that I get this every time and would it really be whooping cough every time she just said "well we'll try antibiotics and see how you go"...!

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IsItSnowing · 03/12/2025 17:10

I have cough variant asthma. A previous GP also told me it was normal. I used to cough so badly that I was physically sick and my chest muscles ached.
I was properly diagnosed about 20 years ago now when I got fed up of the old quack and found a new GP.
It's notoriously under diagnosed because it doesn't follow the normal patterns for asthma. It's well worth asking for a spirometry test as that is how they can best tell. At least you can get it ruled out if not.
But no, it's not normal. Don't let them fob you off.

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:31

ChoccieCornflake · 03/12/2025 14:46

Asthma? My asthma attacks feel like someone is doing something very unpleasant to that exact under-the-jaw spot

It is a very specific location! Right at the side of the windpipe under the jaw, almost under the very very back of the tongue.

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:30

Thank you for the posts re cough-variant asthma and reflux! I will have a google and see if they could be a match for what I'm getting.

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:29

Moosejaw · 03/12/2025 15:14

Normal for me too sadly. I don’t get sick often but when I do, the cough is exactly as you describe including coughing so much I vomit and it lasts for weeks
on end, some years it’s lasted all Winter. No asthma either.

I'm sorry to hear that, it's miserable isn't it!

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:28

Cheesecake53 · 03/12/2025 16:25

Can you ask your GP to do a swipe to rule out whooping cough? What you describe really reminds me of it.

I really don't think I'm getting whooping cough 4 or so times a year for the last 20+ years. I just don't think that's realistic.

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:27

aloris · 03/12/2025 14:44

Another vote for cough-variant asthma. I am not a doctor. I have cough-variant asthma. I would get horrible coughs after every cold, my coughs lasted for weeks. Eventually I was prescribed an albuterol inhaler to use when I get a cold/covid/flu etc. Helps a lot.

Thank you, I haven't heard of this before. I don't think I have any other symptoms that would suggest asthma, when I haven't had a cold I'm perfectly fine and don't get short of breath or anything. But I will look into it for sure!

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:26

JDM625 · 03/12/2025 14:30

Strange that its only after having another illness. Do you have a post nasal drip going down your throat that might be irritating it? Have you tried lemon/honey? I read a research paper which showed it to be more effective than OTC cough mixtures.

I have a hiatus hernia (well I've self diagnosed on my symptoms and GP agreed, but doesn't think I warrant a scope). Day to day, omeprazole helps my symptoms. Occasionally if I eat something squashy like very fresh bread or chips, it balls up in my throat where I almost choke. I often have to vomit to get the ball of food out. I often have a tickly cough in the mornings, but no idea if its related or just me.

1 thing my GP did was a h-pyloric test via a stool sample. It was positive, so I had a triple treatment of omeprazole and 2 antibiotics. TBH- it made no difference to my symptoms, but I read that it can go unnoticed for years and cause all sorts of gastro intestinal symptoms.

I realise my symptoms aren't exactly what you get though, but possibly another avenue to look into, because my symptoms might be different to others.

Thank you for the thoughts, I'll have a look.

Very much keeping up with the lemon and honey! Sadly it doesn't really offer much relief.

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Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 16:25

YouDriveMeCrazyButICanDoThatMyself · 03/12/2025 14:12

Yep. I get this also. It started when I was a teen too.

I permanently have bronco cough pastils in my bag, desk drawer or pockets in case this happens. Sucking them does control it enormously.

Id look at why you are getting ill so frequently though. I work in a public facing roll but constantly sanitise my hands and, touch wood, have only had Covid once and two colds since 2020.

Vitamin D is good for respiratory health and can aid recovery, maybe take some OTC, most people in the U.K. are pretty low, especially during the winter months. What’s your diet and lifestyle like in general? Could improvements be made to boost you up to prevent you catching things going forward?

I've tried the broncho pastilles, unfortunately they don't seem to work for me. I think I've probably tried just about every cough sweet going!

I'm not a particularly unwell person, I don't think getting 4 or so colds over 8-9 months of the year is very bad. I don't need to be struck down heavily for this to happen - it happens even with a mild sniffle.

Unfortunately I commute on busy trains and the tube and sit in a busy open plan office. Colds and so forth abound!

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Cheesecake53 · 03/12/2025 16:25

Can you ask your GP to do a swipe to rule out whooping cough? What you describe really reminds me of it.

Jadebanditchillipepper · 03/12/2025 16:03

Post nasal drip (more common after a cold/virus), acid reflux and cough variant asthma can all cause these symptoms and are all treatable so I would keep badgering your GP

Moosejaw · 03/12/2025 15:14

Normal for me too sadly. I don’t get sick often but when I do, the cough is exactly as you describe including coughing so much I vomit and it lasts for weeks
on end, some years it’s lasted all Winter. No asthma either.

Definitelynotme2022 · 03/12/2025 14:56

Asthma? Or have you looked at GERD?

ohreallyIsee · 03/12/2025 14:48

Silent reflux? I get this when I have a cough, basically it's stomach acid irritating your airways and throat when you cough, this irritates your throat more and makes you cough more so you get into a vicious circle. Omeprazole or esomeprazole help as they reduce acid production.

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