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Misunderstood Xmas gift

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Idontpostmuch · 03/12/2025 10:42

Just for fun, what have you given as a Christmas present that totally fell flat and was misunderstood? My bad idea was a box of luxury crackers. It was some yrs ago, late 80s. Very cheap crackers were the norm and the luxury sort were more of a rarity. So I bought a box for my sister. She and her husband always had friends round on Boxing Day or NY Day, when she pulled out all the stops. The crackers would have graced any table. White with golden ribbons, they looked classy, and the items inside were so much nicer than the usual trinkets. Twice as expensive for half as many, it seemed the sort of thing many would like but would never justify buying. However, my sister decided that since nobody would give anyone crackers, they had to be intended just as packaging, so she proceeded to pull them all one after the other, and ended up with a pile of trinkets, albeit superior trinkets.

That's my best flop, but a close second is giving a friend a metal water bottle because she carried water in an old plastic lemonade bottle. So she now uses the bottle at home when the rest of us use glasses and carries on with her ancient plastic bottles outside.

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Iknowdino · 03/12/2025 10:53

I bought my grandma a pair of what I thought were lovely slippers one year when she was starting with dementia. She went absolutely mad about how awful they were! Obviously she wasn't aware of what she was doing.

Bought dd2 one of those ride on blow up bouncy hoppers for her 2nd Christmas, she liked the feel of the rubber and bit a hole in it about 10 minutes after we have it to her!

I'm laughing at the image of your sister pulling all the crackers though, sorry!

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