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Working families £18k worse off than benefits claimants after budget

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shoelances · 30/11/2025 23:14

This is madness. Can the last taxpayer in the UK please close the door behind them.

www.msn.com/en-gb/money/other/households-on-handouts-to-be-18-000-better-off-than-families-on-modest-wages/ar-AA1RqxlQ

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Coffeeandbooks88 · 04/12/2025 12:55

It won't be the exact money. In fact it will be a lot less.

january1244 · 04/12/2025 12:50

I saw this post this just now, and it completely sums up that a many year qualified professional can just opt out and choose to be a SAHP but be topped up to the exact same money. People are doing it, the system incentivises them to do it, however much people try to say it doesn’t. Look at the spiralling numbers. https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/parenting/5454109-am-i-missing-something-childcare

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Kirbert2 · 03/12/2025 20:43

FiatLuxAdAstra · 03/12/2025 15:32

Only PIP isn’t means tested. All the other disability benefits, which make up the bulk of benefits for the disabled, are contribution based or means tested.

DLA for disabled children also isn't means tested.

Benjithedog · 03/12/2025 20:10

UserFront242 · 03/12/2025 20:03

You absolute can blame some anti-social behaviour on mental health. Have you ever lived next door to someone in the grip of a psychotic episode?

There may be in some cases but certainly not all. My sympathies lay with the neighbours

UserFront242 · 03/12/2025 20:03

Benjithedog · 03/12/2025 19:55

Sorry but you can’t blame anti social neighbours on poor mental health. That just ridiculous. It takes a lot these days to evict tenants from properties because of their behaviour. Maybe you need to spare a thought for their poor neighbours

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You absolute can blame some anti-social behaviour on mental health. Have you ever lived next door to someone in the grip of a psychotic episode?

JenniferBooth · 03/12/2025 19:56

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 18:22

Please.... no one accidentally has accusations of anti social behaviour. Think first! If someone is not capable of evaluating the outcome, they are in no way fit to be part of a functioning society never mind being rewarded with a house!

What society does with them is a topic for another thread....

The key point to this thread is such individuals would release a much needed house to a more deserving case.

You know who suffers most from their anti social behaviour The OTHER tenants.

Oh and im glad you mentioned subsidy although you might wish you hadnt.

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-tenants-forced-to-pay-for-their-richer-neighbours-gyms

Benjithedog · 03/12/2025 19:55

Frequency · 03/12/2025 18:04

There are some very disturbing ideas on this thread. Where do you propose these people live, and would you be happy for your child to live there/be treated this way?

There are many reasons someone might be evicted for ASB, which are beyond their control, including mental illness and malicious neighbours, neither of which is prevented by coming from a middle-class family.

Money does not protect you from mental or physical illness. It's worth remembering that when you're calling for support to be withdrawn from the most vulnerable in our society.

A better way of dealing with ASB would be to properly invest in mental health care and adult social services to prevent the issue.

Sorry but you can’t blame anti social neighbours on poor mental health. That just ridiculous. It takes a lot these days to evict tenants from properties because of their behaviour. Maybe you need to spare a thought for their poor neighbours

BIossomtoes · 03/12/2025 19:37

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 17:33

Some people in social housing with a history of anti social behaviour are rehoused by the Council. I find this appalling.

Receiving any form of subsidised housing is a privilege. If you then abuse the situation you should lose all right to any future Council and subsidised housing.

Social housing isn’t subsidised.

Frequency · 03/12/2025 18:31

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 18:22

Please.... no one accidentally has accusations of anti social behaviour. Think first! If someone is not capable of evaluating the outcome, they are in no way fit to be part of a functioning society never mind being rewarded with a house!

What society does with them is a topic for another thread....

The key point to this thread is such individuals would release a much needed house to a more deserving case.

I do. I've posted about it several times. It has never been to court, as the accusations have never been proven, but it does happen.

And what you propose is sadly already the case in most of the country. It is very difficult to get rehoused if you've been evicted for ASB. We recently supported an 18-year-old who was evicted from her supported housing for ASB. I don't know how she behaved in the home, and I don't believe the story she told me was 100% true, but I do know that while she was with us, she was quiet, polite, and helpful, which is evidence that she is not beyond help.

It took us 5 months to find her a suitable home because no one would rent to her after her past eviction. I'd hate to think where she would be if we hadn't stepped but given that she'd turned to sex work before coming to us, I don't think things would have worked out well for her.

She is a child who made a mistake. She does not deserve to be punished with homelessness and poverty because of that.

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 18:22

Frequency · 03/12/2025 18:04

There are some very disturbing ideas on this thread. Where do you propose these people live, and would you be happy for your child to live there/be treated this way?

There are many reasons someone might be evicted for ASB, which are beyond their control, including mental illness and malicious neighbours, neither of which is prevented by coming from a middle-class family.

Money does not protect you from mental or physical illness. It's worth remembering that when you're calling for support to be withdrawn from the most vulnerable in our society.

A better way of dealing with ASB would be to properly invest in mental health care and adult social services to prevent the issue.

Please.... no one accidentally has accusations of anti social behaviour. Think first! If someone is not capable of evaluating the outcome, they are in no way fit to be part of a functioning society never mind being rewarded with a house!

What society does with them is a topic for another thread....

The key point to this thread is such individuals would release a much needed house to a more deserving case.

Frequency · 03/12/2025 18:04

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 17:33

Some people in social housing with a history of anti social behaviour are rehoused by the Council. I find this appalling.

Receiving any form of subsidised housing is a privilege. If you then abuse the situation you should lose all right to any future Council and subsidised housing.

There are some very disturbing ideas on this thread. Where do you propose these people live, and would you be happy for your child to live there/be treated this way?

There are many reasons someone might be evicted for ASB, which are beyond their control, including mental illness and malicious neighbours, neither of which is prevented by coming from a middle-class family.

Money does not protect you from mental or physical illness. It's worth remembering that when you're calling for support to be withdrawn from the most vulnerable in our society.

A better way of dealing with ASB would be to properly invest in mental health care and adult social services to prevent the issue.

Benjithedog · 03/12/2025 17:53

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 17:33

Some people in social housing with a history of anti social behaviour are rehoused by the Council. I find this appalling.

Receiving any form of subsidised housing is a privilege. If you then abuse the situation you should lose all right to any future Council and subsidised housing.

Agreed.

Novemberstorm · 03/12/2025 17:33

Some people in social housing with a history of anti social behaviour are rehoused by the Council. I find this appalling.

Receiving any form of subsidised housing is a privilege. If you then abuse the situation you should lose all right to any future Council and subsidised housing.

january1244 · 03/12/2025 17:11

x2boys · 02/12/2025 12:37

And how many peoole are on waiting lists for decades for these properties?

I have no idea. You said not many people would be in council houses in London, but 20% roughly will be if you look at the council housing stock.

FiatLuxAdAstra · 03/12/2025 15:32

x12 · 01/12/2025 00:02

Do people not realise disability benefits are not means tested?

Only PIP isn’t means tested. All the other disability benefits, which make up the bulk of benefits for the disabled, are contribution based or means tested.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 03/12/2025 15:28

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 03/12/2025 15:21

Actually Swedish prople live us

But heres a quick Google on work ethics

  • International perspective: A 2023 study by King's College Londonfound that the UK public places less emphasis on work compared to other Western nations like Italy and France.
  • UK public opinion on work: The same study noted that 43% of the British public believes it would be a good thing if less importance was placed on work in the future, a view that is more common in the UK than in countries like the US and Italy.
  • Comparison with other countries:The UK public is among the least likely to agree that work should always come first, with only Australia, Canada, and Japan ranking lower.
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That’s people
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prople 😆

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 03/12/2025 15:21

JenniferBooth · 03/12/2025 14:51

We Brits must come across as a right nasty bunch to them.

Actually Swedish prople live us

But heres a quick Google on work ethics

  • International perspective: A 2023 study by King's College Londonfound that the UK public places less emphasis on work compared to other Western nations like Italy and France.
  • UK public opinion on work: The same study noted that 43% of the British public believes it would be a good thing if less importance was placed on work in the future, a view that is more common in the UK than in countries like the US and Italy.
  • Comparison with other countries:The UK public is among the least likely to agree that work should always come first, with only Australia, Canada, and Japan ranking lower.
BrownTroutBluesAgain · 03/12/2025 15:13

Marshmallow4545 · 03/12/2025 14:55

We are not comparable to Sweden. Look at their productivity stats compared to ours and you will begin to understand how we differ. Also look at exports per capita. It's all very relevant. Their labour may be more expensive but what they are producing and their productivity means that higher wages are more affordable.

Our PPP is already lower than Sweden. If wages rise this will increase the cost of goods and lead to an even lower PPP and potentially lower GDP as we won't be able to compete so effectively in the global market.

You are trying to effectively put the cart before the horse. Sort out the labour market so that productivity and exports rise and the balance of payments improves. Then we can start to think about higher wages.

Exactly
I do think people compare us in the Global market and read of higher wages and just assume the U.K. can magically support that.

It’s all far too simplistic.

Marshmallow4545 · 03/12/2025 15:03

Frequency · 03/12/2025 14:58

Can you sort out the labour market without growth? The quickest way to boost growth is to ensure people have enough money to buy goods and services.

No, that isn't the quickest way to growth if it leads to inflation, job losses and productivity remains low. Ultimately where do you think the extra money to pay all these increases wages will come from? SMEs account for most of jobs and they typically aren't in a position to foot a massive wage increase. You must also account for the impact this will have in the public sector and in industries like care. Taxes will rise, people will pay more for basic goods and services and won't feel better off at all.

Growth must be substantiated by improvements in exports, productivity and the balance of payments.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 03/12/2025 15:03

Frequency · 03/12/2025 14:37

I don't understand this argument; other countries manage it without prices rising exponentially and businesses going bust en masse.

I would genuinely like to understand why it is impossible for the UK to pay a fair wage, particularly when looking at multibillion-pound international conglomerates like Asda/Walmart, which manage to pay fairly in other European countries.

Sweden, for example, doesn't have a minimum wage, but it is accepted that paying a low salary is socially unacceptable and would damage a company's reputation. We not only accept it but defend and excuse it, while berating the people trying to manage on it for not doing better.

The grass is not always greener

Businesses in Sweden collaborate on wages ( there is no minimum wage set by the Govn) and Union representation is at 90% of all those employed.
It is factors such as these that keep wages relatively high

However
High wages have knock on effects with Swedens unemployment rate standing at 9.3%

It’s also worth noting that the gap between high and low income earners has increased and the purchasing power of any disposable income has declined since 2018.
Whether this will continue is unknown but could be an indication that the model is not so bright in the long term

Frequency · 03/12/2025 15:00

Also, none of that explains why the likes of Asda, Starbucks, Amazon, etc are effectively being propped up by British taxpayers. Clearly, those companies can afford to pay a fair wage without prices increasing because they already do, just not in the UK.

Frequency · 03/12/2025 14:58

Can you sort out the labour market without growth? The quickest way to boost growth is to ensure people have enough money to buy goods and services.

Marshmallow4545 · 03/12/2025 14:55

Frequency · 03/12/2025 14:37

I don't understand this argument; other countries manage it without prices rising exponentially and businesses going bust en masse.

I would genuinely like to understand why it is impossible for the UK to pay a fair wage, particularly when looking at multibillion-pound international conglomerates like Asda/Walmart, which manage to pay fairly in other European countries.

Sweden, for example, doesn't have a minimum wage, but it is accepted that paying a low salary is socially unacceptable and would damage a company's reputation. We not only accept it but defend and excuse it, while berating the people trying to manage on it for not doing better.

We are not comparable to Sweden. Look at their productivity stats compared to ours and you will begin to understand how we differ. Also look at exports per capita. It's all very relevant. Their labour may be more expensive but what they are producing and their productivity means that higher wages are more affordable.

Our PPP is already lower than Sweden. If wages rise this will increase the cost of goods and lead to an even lower PPP and potentially lower GDP as we won't be able to compete so effectively in the global market.

You are trying to effectively put the cart before the horse. Sort out the labour market so that productivity and exports rise and the balance of payments improves. Then we can start to think about higher wages.

JenniferBooth · 03/12/2025 14:51

Frequency · 03/12/2025 14:37

I don't understand this argument; other countries manage it without prices rising exponentially and businesses going bust en masse.

I would genuinely like to understand why it is impossible for the UK to pay a fair wage, particularly when looking at multibillion-pound international conglomerates like Asda/Walmart, which manage to pay fairly in other European countries.

Sweden, for example, doesn't have a minimum wage, but it is accepted that paying a low salary is socially unacceptable and would damage a company's reputation. We not only accept it but defend and excuse it, while berating the people trying to manage on it for not doing better.

We Brits must come across as a right nasty bunch to them.