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Funeral car driver with blue and green hair

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Notyouthful · 30/11/2025 18:46

Earlier this week my parents’ NDN had her funeral. Hearse and a funeral car. My DM noticed that the driver of the funeral car- dressed professionally, but he had dyed blue and green hair in a ponytail about 6 inches long This could been seen from under his top hat.

My DM thought his hair wasn’t suitable for funeral work. She would demand an apology if that happened in any of the funerals she arranged herself

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TheLongRider · 30/11/2025 18:49

Well, his employer deemed him suitable to be employed, hair and all. I don't think your DM will get very far with her pearl clutching. Would she have the same issue if he had red hair or must everything be black?

Bushwoolie · 30/11/2025 18:48

All I care about is how they do their job.

1st person, short cropped brown hair. Complete arsehole
2nd person, green and blue hair, the kindest most sympathetic person - ideal for dealing with grief.

I know who id pick.

BobbyShaftoWentToSeeSilverBucklesOnHisKnee · 30/11/2025 18:47

She would demand an apology over the colour of someone's hair?