Weeing in the theatre

Excellent point.

Be very, very careful what you wish for. Wearing a nappy in public is a fetish for some people. To have this enforced by someone else would be a dream come true for them, and guess what they would do to bring it on?

They should fit men caught urinating in the street with an adult nappy, like an electronic tag.

I know. And my first reply said if women want to do that then fine. If men wanted to do it at oasis then that’s also fine. No one would know. If those women hadn’t have all been making funny tiktoks about it to start with no one would have known if they were. The same way know one would know if someone at any point is wearing a nappy due to incontinence issues. If the little boy in the theatre had been wearing a nappy no one would have known about that either. The reason I know about these women is due to them telling people. The reason I know about oasis is because I could see all these men pissing. The reason the OP knows about the little boy is because she also saw him. If any and all of them just quietly wore nappies no one would be any the wiser.

Sorry, I didn’t mean for incontinence, I meant this:

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/us-celebrity-news/taylor-swift-fans-adult-nappies-32964902.amp

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/lifestyle/article-12145125/amp/Im-Taylor-Swift-fan-wore-adult-diaper-concert.html

https://metro.co.uk/2023/06/01/taylor-swift-fans-wear-nappies-so-they-dont-miss-a-moment-of-eras-gig-18878513/amp/

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/whats-on/whats-on-news/taylor-swift-fans-encouraged-wear-29292883.amp

https://www.mylondon.news/whats-on/whats-on-news/taylor-swift-fans-plan-wear-29339185.amp

And wearing tena pants or pads etc is mainly because a lot of women suffer incontinence issues. It isn’t deliberate. The same way if a man was wearing them. It’s very different to just pissing all over the place. If someone is incontinent then no one should be shaming them for that obviously.

If men (or women) want to wear adult nappies then they can go ahead. That’s very different to pissing all over the place. If the child in the OP had a nappy on no one would have an issue with that either as no one would know.

Isn’t that because:

a. Women tend to have larger bladders anyway and;

b. Women often wear Tena pants to
concerts?

When Taylor Swift was in town the papers were full of articles about women and girls wearing “adult nappies” to her
concerts so as not to miss anything!

dirty horrible tramp. Absolutely not OK. WTF.

I agree with this. We can recognise that parenting is hard, that mothers bare the brunt of it and that society is often over judgemental about things that probably don't matter without going so far we make excuses for anything provided it's a mother doing it. Some things are the basics of consideration for other people. Performing bodily functions in the appropriate place is one of them. To raise children to think otherwise is anti social.

Exactly.

“Judgment” is not a negative. We need more of it, not less, imho.

Yes and the smell is awful especially in hot weather.

I agree with the previous poster that I rarely see it. I’m not saying I’ve never seen it. But it’s much rarer.

I went to see Oasis at Wembley a few months back. On leaving, I saw, and I’m not exaggerating, over 100 men pissing absolutely everywhere. Some in the stairway still inside the stadium, some just standing in the street pissing not even up against anything. Just in the open. At one point there was an entire wall of over 30 men pissing against a barrier thing just as you leave the turnstiles bit. There was men pissing in gardens and against cars and in shop doorways all the way along the walk out of the area. I did not see one woman doing this. Again, I’m not saying none did, but the ratio of what I saw was roughly 0:100.

And I’m obviously not even including the men pissing in bottles and throwing them. (I was at the back in the tiers so thankfully avoided this but could see it happening). I’ve been to many Take That shows though and strangely enough I’ve never seen anyone piss in a cup and throw it even when the women get drunk.

That is utterly grim. I find audience behaviour and consideration for others has really deteriorated over the last 10 years or so. But this is a level beyond.

Why are we all so eager to avoid judgement? Judgement is how we enforce societal/cultural norms outside the legal sphere. Society crumbles without it. This disgusting woman should be judged.

Truthfully? I've seen it no more than a handful of times, in the early hours after a night out and once or twice in between cars doors on a jammed motorway. To suggest this is something women do on the regular rather than when drunk or desperate, so are 'not better' than men is ridiculous.

Or they'll turn into the disgusting men who I had to chase away peeing on my garden wall at 2pm on Sunday afternoon. I wish I'd had a bucket of water handy.

It's a potty... use wipes after, and store. You are not going use it as a pillow later are you?

Where else than the floor do you put a potty? Your seat?

Of carry your child above the seat if you prefer. How do you think we all manage?

I genuinely wonder what people like you do when they refuse to use the plane toilets?

have you never seen girls urinating in the street? Adults I mean, in the evening - I haven't seen any during the day to be fair. 😂

They're not better!

Disgusting and unnecessary. Parents of boys should really stop taking the lazy option. Then maybe more men would grow up to understand that weeing is only for the toilet, not the street or wherever else you happen to be when you need to go.

My favourite time was when I went to the cinema to see the last Avenger's film. A dad was there with a toddler obviously far too young to appreciate the film.

At the climax, he changed the child's nappy on the stairs rather than miss the film. So now my memories of that film are accompanied by a rather Fruity smell,

Never going to the cinema again...

Where else would you suggest (at 30000 feet altitude) a passenger toilet their child, using a potty, if not in the toilet?

Sorry, cross-post with @W0tnow- i was just so outraged at the thought of that and couldn't wait until the end of the thread! 😂 Pleased I'm not the only one.