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Why would a firebrigrade carry a person in this instance

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Youwerewrong · 29/11/2025 21:50

The person obviously wasn’t fully unconscious as they remember the fire officer a bit. No pyscially injuries and no disabilities

OP posts:
PigletJohn · 30/11/2025 08:29

I just had a look, and @Youwerewrong has failed to say what "in this instance"
refers to, so the question is pointless.

temperedolive · 30/11/2025 08:24

Youwerewrong · 30/11/2025 03:31

But if someone was looking at the person then they are awake now

No. There is space between full consciousness and full unconsciousness. She may have been able to see him, but unable to safely respond to requests to relocate to an area where medical personnel could assess her. If, for example, she was collapsed in the toilet, she may need to be relocated to a sofa so paramedics can assess her condition. Waiting for her to be roused to the point where she can get herself there wastes the time of all the emergency responders.

Also, if she woke up while a firefighter was carrying her, then she was unconscious when he picked her up. He isn't going to put her down immediately the second she wakes.

Strangesally20 · 30/11/2025 08:24

“Consciousness” isn’t simply awake or not awake. It’s a scale. The Glasgow Coma scale (GCS) is used to establish consciousness and it ranges from a score of 3-15 based on motor, eye and vocal response. Especially anything below 15 is abnormal. Someone can appear “awake” and may have some memory recall of events but still have an altered mental state. Really it’s difficult to say without more information but presumably the person was altered enough that their co operation wasn’t guaranteed and it was a time critical event and was deemed they had to be moved quickly for their own safety and those around them.

AngelinaFibres · 30/11/2025 08:22

Presumably ,if your friend is large ,then the firefighter wasn't carrying her as a treat to himself. He did it because in his professional opinion it was the right thing to do, got her the help she needed more quickly and prevented her falling again and injuring herself further.

GrandHighVitch · 30/11/2025 08:20

My neighbour had a mental breakdown in his home last Christmas and an ambulance, a police car and a fire engine all turned up. A number of firefighters entered the property even though there was no fire.

Another neighbour…her mother collapsed and was unconscious during a visit. A fire service van turned up, firefighters got out, entered the property, and they carried her out on what looked like some of kind inflatable device.

You are assuming your friend is lying but it is very possible she’s telling the truth as the fire service do a lot of illness related emergency work.

ThatCyanCat · 30/11/2025 08:20

So she was unconscious, a firefighter moved her, she woke while being carried and the question is why they didn't immediately plonk her down at that moment and tell her to walk?

BreatheAndFocus · 30/11/2025 08:13

YABR (You are being ridiculous)! Loads of people can have their eyes open but not be properly with it and/or able to walk. Have you ever had flu? You feel so ill you can’t get out of bed? So, do you keep your eyes closed the whole time?? Or do you lie in bed feeling too weak to move and occasionally open your eyes?

It’s such a stupid assumption (eyes open=able to walk). What if you broke both your legs? Your eyes would be open so you’d be perfectly able to trot to the ambulance, yes? 🙄

If your friend is very overweight then the fire service might have been called to remove her from the building. It’s hardly weird so I have no idea why you’re fussing about it!

Missey85 · 30/11/2025 08:12

Should they have left them in the fire! What a stupid question

PodMom · 30/11/2025 08:11

I think if a friend told me this I’d be suspicious as well to be honest. Unless there’s a threat to life, so fire, flood, getting carried away from a car accident I can’t see it’s true. If a person was medically unwell and the fire brigade turned up first they’d stay with them until the paramedics arrived, maybe recovery position, etc. but they wouldn’t be carried from a safe place if they were in a safe place.

OP, does your friend have form for a fantasy life? General embellishment?

Bambamhoohoo · 30/11/2025 08:00

Dollymylove · 30/11/2025 07:58

Sorry you cant say "firemen" anymore. Its Firefighter.
One long serving firefighter didnt obey the rules and was fired (,no pun intended)
His "victim" received a 52 grand bonanza payout courtesy of the tax payer

Considering what a hotbed of sexism, misogyny, racism and homophobia the fire service is well known to be, I suspect there is rather more to the case than this

Dollymylove · 30/11/2025 07:58

BreakingBroken · 30/11/2025 00:43

in one remote community that i lived in the fire and ambulance service were combined and all ambulance crew were firemen.
now in a bigger city big enough that firemen (all trained as paramedics as well) respond equally to accidents, so not unusual to have police, fire and ambulance crews at a scene.

Sorry you cant say "firemen" anymore. Its Firefighter.
One long serving firefighter didnt obey the rules and was fired (,no pun intended)
His "victim" received a 52 grand bonanza payout courtesy of the tax payer

purpleme12 · 30/11/2025 07:58

I've not read a thread this strange for a while

Thought we might have had more sense from the OP this far into thread 😆

Augustone · 30/11/2025 07:55

Please please put us all out of our misery. What exactly is your issue with this??? No one can make any sense of the circumstances you drip feed through!

MyIvyGrows · 30/11/2025 07:53

Strawberrydelight78 · 30/11/2025 04:03

So she wouldn't have been up to walking if unconscious at one point. She would be confused about where she was so at risk of walking into danger if she did walk.

I know when my DD has been taken to hospital for uncontrolled cluster seizures they insist she doesn't walk around. Much to her annoyance and mine when I'm trying to tell them she will need to go to the toilet. She hates wetting herself even though she seems quite capable of walking her legs are wobbly. They bring a commode which she won't use too different. They eventually agree I can take her in a wheelchair.qqqqaq

It’s like on the maternity ward where they insist you don’t walk around with your newborn in case you faint (or at least that’s my assumption as to why)

Isometimeswonder · 30/11/2025 07:51

@Youwerewrong read your username.

FettleOfKish · 30/11/2025 07:47

Youwerewrong · 30/11/2025 03:31

But if someone was looking at the person then they are awake now

Do you really imagine that a member of the fire brigade carrying an unconscious patient simply drops them to the ground the second they start to come round and open their eyes? Because after all if they’re awake they can walk themselves, right?

LittleMi55Nobody · 30/11/2025 07:36

Hollowvoice · 29/11/2025 22:01

What exactly are you trying to find out?

if she can sue

Citrusbergamia · 30/11/2025 07:23

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 30/11/2025 06:06

Once again, MN causes me to question how some people manage to function in everyday life....

Ditto.
I've read some crap on here but wth is this about?

FloridaCheese · 30/11/2025 07:22

Was an ambulance also in attendance

Cakeandcardio · 30/11/2025 07:16

Well presumably it was because of a medical issue.
Do you imagine the fire officer was being nasty? Trying to rape her? Any other absurd reason?

Heylittlesongbird · 30/11/2025 07:11

Deleted as posted twice.

Heylittlesongbird · 30/11/2025 07:11

OP you are allowed to write more than one sentence in each post. In fact it’s positively helpful and enables you to describe the scenario fully and clarify what your doubts or questions are. Then responders are able to be more helpful.

MyDeftDuck · 30/11/2025 07:11

Occasionally, ambulance control will request assistance from the fire service if there’s no ambulances available to attend an emergency. Fire trucks and cars all carry O2 and are first aid trained too.

MsGinaLinetti · 30/11/2025 06:42

Jaggy1 · 30/11/2025 05:58

Not fully conscious.

Woke up to find herself being carried.

To wake up, one must be out in the first place. So yes, while someone conscious may be able to walk, someone unconscious very much can’t.
Fantastic that your friend was fine & woke up, but to get into their arms and be carried in the first place without knowing, meant she was unconscious.

How much do you hate your friend that you must sit up all night trying to prove her wrong? Go to bed.

it enormously comforting to have someone else articulate your own position this well.

Owly11 · 30/11/2025 06:22

So you have started a thread with scant detail about an incident your friend described because you don't believe her and want to prove her wrong. And when people give lots of helpful answers saying how and why this might have happened you disagree with them. Seriously? Why? Why don't you believe her? You sound very immature.