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WearyCat · 29/11/2025 20:10

I genuinely don’t know what CEOs, that type of role, people earning over 150K pa actually do. How do they spend their time?

Not whether they are worth the salary. But what do those jobs involve on a day to day basis? All I have is an idea based on films and guesswork. Is it golf? Lunches? Meetings? What sort of decisions are they making? What pressures are they facing?

I’m interested, curious, and I don’t see how I would ever find out in real life because I don’t move in circles where people have that sort of job.

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Thedogscollar · 29/11/2025 22:51

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:43

I work in the insurance industry. Why?

I just thought your comment about cosplaying was quite dismissive of the contributions on this thread.
Apologies if this was not your intent.

Specialagentblond · 29/11/2025 22:48

in our capatalist market, people get paid for the value they bring.

there really aren’t any cushy numbers.

a family member (in banking) recently seemed to have an easy wfh job £160k a year. Log in, have a cup of tea, hop onto a meeting and nod his head a lot.

I was like this is amazing. I work like a donkey in the NHS.

He was like nah I’m waiting to be made redundant. And then he was. It’s pretty ruthless nowadays.

Apollonia1 · 29/11/2025 22:47

I earn multiples of the figure posted in the OP.

I’m a single mum of 5-year old twins, but have to fit in work as a priority around them.
I’ll frequently have meetings at 6am with Japan and Singapore. Then a break to wake up the kids and bring them to school. Then back to work (WFH 100% of the time). I’ve a nanny for the afternoons, so I’m in meetings with the US until about 7pm/7:30. Often have meetings at 9pm/10pm after the kids are in bed.
Loads of decision making, frequently without all the necessary input information. Risk-taking based on the outcomes of the decisions. Constant worry about job security. Zero time for me (definitely no golf!) Not good for physical or mental health.

But luckily, very little travel, no networking events, no weekend work (unless called for a major incident), flexibility with my daily schedule to attend any kids events (school play, etc).

SpottyAardvark · 29/11/2025 22:46

A good friend of mine earns more than £150k. He spends his working life sitting in a comfy chair looking at some small screens & looking out of the window. At 36,000 ft.

He is a senior training captain who flies Airbus A350 aircraft across the world, and trains junior pilots to do the same. But the actual flying is the easy bit (most of the time). The challenging part is that as captain he is legally, morally & contractually responsible & accountable for the safety of the aircraft and for the lives of the 350+ people on board. That responsibility is what keeps him awake at night, and that’s what he gets paid the big money to do.

Cynic17 · 29/11/2025 22:45

Work very, very hard. Take major decisions. Cope with enormous pressure.
Just how naive can you be, OP?

Radiator981 · 29/11/2025 22:44

Radiator981 · 29/11/2025 22:43

I actually spoke into it and it wrote up
my bullet points and thoughts cos if you actually read it you can see it’s not generic!

PPS our CEO is on c£1.2million.

Radiator981 · 29/11/2025 22:43

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:28

The OP could have asked ChatGPT herself, if she so wished.

I actually spoke into it and it wrote up
my bullet points and thoughts cos if you actually read it you can see it’s not generic!

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:43

Thedogscollar · 29/11/2025 22:34

What line of work are you in @SpoonBaloon

I work in the insurance industry. Why?

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:42

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How on earth am I a troll?

weareallcats · 29/11/2025 22:41

I think they are largely paid for responsibility and expertise at that stage tbh. I’m not going to divulge actual earnings, but my director/board member dh mostly liaises, manages and networks - he spends most of his day speaking to people. He also makes decisions that involve many millions of £.

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:40

WearyCat · 29/11/2025 20:10

I genuinely don’t know what CEOs, that type of role, people earning over 150K pa actually do. How do they spend their time?

Not whether they are worth the salary. But what do those jobs involve on a day to day basis? All I have is an idea based on films and guesswork. Is it golf? Lunches? Meetings? What sort of decisions are they making? What pressures are they facing?

I’m interested, curious, and I don’t see how I would ever find out in real life because I don’t move in circles where people have that sort of job.

I think your numbers are off. You talk about people earning c.150k but then mention high flyers playing golf all day.

If you are earning around 150k the likelihood is you’re an employee who has built a career and moved their way up the pole. They’ll be managing a few teams but will also be one of a number of teams being managers by someone else, who then answers to C suite.

This means they’ll actually still be connected to the work they’re doing. They’ll be sat around colleagues and will still very much be “desk based”. These are likely those who are under the most pressure in the company.

The long lunches and dinners and golf club stereotype will be C suite level. In most companies these will be earning at least 450k per year. I think it’s these people you’re interested in. There’s less pressure on these because they can stay afloat and move on after three years to another well paid job.

There are hard workers and grifters at every level. Many of those at the 150k level will have been lucky enough to be privately educated, get into a Big 4 and will have stayed there a few years. This doesn’t indicate talent.

godmum56 · 29/11/2025 22:40

this is a silly question. You might as well ask what anybody's job consists of if its not a job that you know about.

Whichone1 · 29/11/2025 22:40

DH leaves home at 5.30 am and commutes and hour and a half. Starts about 7am. He might have had calls in the night if he’s on meetings with Australia. Works all day- non stop meetings, phone calls, PA brings food / drinks in. Leaves around 7.30pm and gets home for 9ish. As soon as he’s back he checks his phone And emails and replies back whilst eating tea. Goes to bed and repeat

reluctantlogin · 29/11/2025 22:37

WearyCat · 29/11/2025 20:10

I genuinely don’t know what CEOs, that type of role, people earning over 150K pa actually do. How do they spend their time?

Not whether they are worth the salary. But what do those jobs involve on a day to day basis? All I have is an idea based on films and guesswork. Is it golf? Lunches? Meetings? What sort of decisions are they making? What pressures are they facing?

I’m interested, curious, and I don’t see how I would ever find out in real life because I don’t move in circles where people have that sort of job.

What do you do ? How do you earn your money

Thedogscollar · 29/11/2025 22:34

What line of work are you in @SpoonBaloon

CanadianJohn · 29/11/2025 22:31

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:28

The OP could have asked ChatGPT herself, if she so wished.

Did you have to quote the whole post ... just for one sentence!

shuggles · 29/11/2025 22:31

Lesina · 29/11/2025 22:18

I know a bloke was the chief operating officer of Apple. When the iPad was first launched and everyone in the world wanted one, his remit was to distribute them globally from China. This meant scheduling planes on a massive scale. When some of the planes were not available due to the US government requisitioning them, the delivery schedule faltered. Completely out of his control. But he had Steve Jobs coming into his office and telling him that he had ‘destroyed Christmas’ and every parent hated him. At c suite level the pressure is mental.

Sounds like he did a good thing by preventing the distribution of apple shite and stopping iPads getting into the hands of obnoxious Gen Z children. Have to disagree with Steve Jobs on this one.

Papyrophile · 29/11/2025 22:31

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verybighouseinthecountry · 29/11/2025 22:30

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:28

The OP could have asked ChatGPT herself, if she so wished.

That applies to the vast majority of threads on here

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:28

Radiator981 · 29/11/2025 22:20

I work in a senior role in a law firm and have a lot of interaction with our CEO who is phenomenal. I’ve actually known him 20 years and I knew it back then - when we didn’t work together that as a junior lawyer he would be running a law firm one day.

Imagine holding the entire law firm in your hands - every decision, every risk, every outcome- while everyone looks to you for certainty. That’s the weight sitting on our CEO’s shoulders every single day.

It’s an ongoing mental marathon that blends strategy, finance, crisis-management, people leadership, and long-term vision into one nonstop role where the stakes are always high.

Here’s the kind of intense reality our CEO lives in:

1. They are responsible for the success - or failure - of the entire organisation (they are the fall person).

Every missed target, every dip in revenue, every compliance issue, every operational failure eventually lands on their desk.
They carry the accountability of thousands of people’s jobs and careers - not just our lawyers. There is no “offload,” no “that wasn’t my call.”

If something goes wrong, it’s their problem, full stop.

2. They operate at a constant strategic altitude

While everyone else can focus on their department, the CEO has to see:

  • the firm’s position in the market
  • competitor threats
  • financial forecasts
  • partner expectations
  • regulatory changes
  • long-term growth avenues
  • brand, culture, and risk

They balance 3, 5, even 10 years of planning at once - while still reacting to what’s happening today.

It’s like playing chess on multiple boards simultaneously, with the rules changing mid-game. Yes they have meetings but there is no time-wasting, every minute of every day is utilised. Often travelling to different locations.

3. Budget pressure is relentless

CEOs monitor:

  • revenue pipelines
  • client acquisition patterns
  • profit margins
  • compensation structures
  • operational costs
  • investment opportunities

One wrong assumption in a budget can cascade into layoffs, missed targets, or partner frustration. They’re constantly recalculating financial scenarios in their head.

4. Decision-making is fast, complex, and high-stakes

he rarely get perfect information. He has to make multi-million-pound decisions based on:

  • incomplete data
  • competing priorities
  • uncertain outcomes
  • time pressure

And those decisions can affect the entire firm’s trajectory.
It’s decision fatigue on a whole different level.

5. They absorb pressure from every direction

A CEO deals with:

  • staff expectations
  • partner demands
  • market volatility
  • regulatory obligations
  • reputation management
  • investors or board scrutiny
  • internal politics
  • external competition

They’re the shock absorber for the entire organisation. Everyone brings problems to them, but they can’t afford to show the stress.

6. Their work is both deeply intellectual and intensely emotional

They need:

  • Financial intelligence
  • Strategic intelligence
  • Legal and regulatory awareness
  • Political sensitivity
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Crisis instincts

They have to think with clarity while juggling personalities, egos, conflicts, negotiations, and the firm’s culture.

7. There is no “off switch”

CEOs don’t stop thinking about the business:

  • at night
  • on holiday
  • on weekends
  • when they’re ill

Their brains are wired to constantly run through “What if?” scenarios.
The job follows them everywhere.

8. When things go well, the team gets credit. When things go wrong, the CEO takes the hit.

It’s an incredibly lonely role.
Success is shared; failure is personal.

In short:

Our CEO is the strategist, the stabiliser, the financial architect, the risk buffer, the decision-maker, the communicator, the crisis-manager, and the ultimate safety net for the firm.

They must be smart enough to understand every part of the business, calm enough to manage constant pressure, and tough enough to make decisions that affect people’s livelihoods.

It’s high-intensity, high-stakes, and never truly stops.

I’m immensely proud of our CEO.

The OP could have asked ChatGPT herself, if she so wished.

shuggles · 29/11/2025 22:28

SchoolDilemma17 · 29/11/2025 20:23

Jealousy is not a good look

if it’s that easy, everyone would do it

Silly comment. Obviously, those of us on lower and average incomes do try to move into senior positions, but getting past the interview is the big challenge.

Booboobagins · 29/11/2025 22:26

Why would anyone pay someone £150k to play golf. Get real!

Big pay = pressure to perform, take big decisions, manage big budgets/teams ie big responsibility and sometimes be available outside work hours.

I advise my clients on matters including legal compliance. So, governance is on me. If things go wrong I have to get the right people together to create a solution, sometimes that's not possible and the worst happens.

I send about 5-7 hours a day in meetings where decisions are taken, so little time for actual work on strategy/plans most days which means I need to work fast and occasionally in the evening or on a weekend.

No golf, no posh lunches, sometimes posh dinners but they are def work. Most people in pressured jobs wish they could just to to work and forget about it when they get home. Sadly the majority of them can't forget work cos there is always something that needs doing that hasn't been completed yet - well that's the case in my field, anyway!

SpoonBaloon · 29/11/2025 22:25

The cosplaying is strong in this thread.

verybighouseinthecountry · 29/11/2025 22:24

My BIL makes that amount in sales for an aviation multinational. It took him 5 times to get GCSE English and more for maths. Did a media studies type degree (after doing GNVQ then HND) in an ex poly. Where he excels is in selling things, he has the gift of the gab and has been constantly headhunted. I don't know what he does on a daily basis but he's always answering his phone out of hours and has a lot of anxiety because one wrong move will cost him his job.

Papyrophile · 29/11/2025 22:23

I chose to teach as a second career, and experienced SLT teachers became the enemy. I loved the teaching, and the challenge of the performance because every single class is a performance, but the negativity was too awful. I retreated into managing pensions. There are some amazingly dedicated teachers slogging their guts out for not much, but they would have been better if they had done a commercial job before they started to teach... even if it was only a junior hospitality job.