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WearyCat · 29/11/2025 20:10

I genuinely don’t know what CEOs, that type of role, people earning over 150K pa actually do. How do they spend their time?

Not whether they are worth the salary. But what do those jobs involve on a day to day basis? All I have is an idea based on films and guesswork. Is it golf? Lunches? Meetings? What sort of decisions are they making? What pressures are they facing?

I’m interested, curious, and I don’t see how I would ever find out in real life because I don’t move in circles where people have that sort of job.

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godmum56 · 01/12/2025 19:39

Jamclag · 01/12/2025 19:18

I'm guessing nuclear power?
And I'm glad to hear that this at least is a sector where responsibilities are taken extremely seriously. Anything less, as we all know, can be pretty catastrophic...

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BurnoutGP · 01/12/2025 19:37

Jamclag · 01/12/2025 16:19

All the people talking about the huge responsibility CEOs/ Heads of departments carry - and I don't dispute on paper that they absolutely do - do you ever wonder though why there appears to be so little real accountability for failure/disasters/scandals on their watch?
From what I've seen of both the top tier corporate and public sector world, people seem to fail upwards or they're shuffled sideways from one extremely well-paid position to the next. It's like this unwritten code that once you've made it to a certain level/ made enough connections/ know where enough of the bodies are buried you're golden, irrespective of your actual ability, the state you've left the company or organization in or even whether you've actually achieved any tangible results at all...

You know this how? You work at high level and are privy to these details? Or youre just daily mailing it...

Jamclag · 01/12/2025 19:18

godmum56 · 01/12/2025 19:09

The job my late husband was in was directly monitored by national, and some international safety organisations. Decisions he took relating to safety and environmental safety were his direct personal responsibility. Getting sacked was the least of his concerns.

I'm guessing nuclear power?
And I'm glad to hear that this at least is a sector where responsibilities are taken extremely seriously. Anything less, as we all know, can be pretty catastrophic...

godmum56 · 01/12/2025 19:09

Jamclag · 01/12/2025 16:19

All the people talking about the huge responsibility CEOs/ Heads of departments carry - and I don't dispute on paper that they absolutely do - do you ever wonder though why there appears to be so little real accountability for failure/disasters/scandals on their watch?
From what I've seen of both the top tier corporate and public sector world, people seem to fail upwards or they're shuffled sideways from one extremely well-paid position to the next. It's like this unwritten code that once you've made it to a certain level/ made enough connections/ know where enough of the bodies are buried you're golden, irrespective of your actual ability, the state you've left the company or organization in or even whether you've actually achieved any tangible results at all...

The job my late husband was in was directly monitored by national, and some international safety organisations. Decisions he took relating to safety and environmental safety were his direct personal responsibility. Getting sacked was the least of his concerns.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/12/2025 17:46

If you cannot take time off when you are ill or on holiday then a) you are not modelling healthy working practices for your juniors and b) you are functionally a single point of failure waiting to happen, which is not generally considered a good thing.

Single point of failure - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Single_point_of_failure

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/12/2025 17:41

Max Weber is fucking loving this thread

roadrunnerbeepbeep · 01/12/2025 17:39

Used to be one of these. Combination of strategy, business planning, management and hr, as well as specialist advice, problem solving and crisis management. Sadly too much of the crisis stuff and less of the others. I was much younger then and probably would do a better job these days.

Crushed23 · 01/12/2025 17:28

Muffsies · 01/12/2025 16:29

I'm not senior management level, but over the years I have seen what my bosses go through with pressure and endless meetings, and what happens to them when the shit hits the fan. I also see their lovely cars, houses, jewellery and kids with private education.. but then I also see their failed marriges and stressed-out over-achiever kids (not all of them, obvs).

No thanks, not worth it.

Edited

This is very interesting and I read it a lot, however it’s very different from my experience.

The senior people I know are invariably married (as opposed to separated / divorced or single) and more often than not they are married to an equally high-achieving spouse i.e. so called “power couples”. I know a very high number of couples in exactly the same profession - two lawyers, two doctors, two accountants etc. Perhaps these marriages have a higher chance of survival than more unequal marriages because there is an understanding from each party of the stresses and demands of their respective careers? I’m speculating, because I genuinely hardly know any divorced people in my profession, at any level. I can think of one divorcee who found a new boyfriend and remarried quite quickly, and one widower, in the almost 15 years I’ve been in the profession.

gannett · 01/12/2025 17:11

Jamclag · 01/12/2025 16:19

All the people talking about the huge responsibility CEOs/ Heads of departments carry - and I don't dispute on paper that they absolutely do - do you ever wonder though why there appears to be so little real accountability for failure/disasters/scandals on their watch?
From what I've seen of both the top tier corporate and public sector world, people seem to fail upwards or they're shuffled sideways from one extremely well-paid position to the next. It's like this unwritten code that once you've made it to a certain level/ made enough connections/ know where enough of the bodies are buried you're golden, irrespective of your actual ability, the state you've left the company or organization in or even whether you've actually achieved any tangible results at all...

I genuinely think this thread has been a valuable insight into why corporate capitalism is so fucked up. All the people making decisions being pulled this way and that in meetings from morning til night. I wonder how many of - for example - Thames Water's meetings were actually about public accountability versus covering-our-arses firefighting.

Freebus · 01/12/2025 16:30

Screamingabdabz · 29/11/2025 20:21

Somebody I know is in the charity sector on £100k plus housing and massive pension. They do fuck all. Host a few meetings and clap other people’s achievements.

What they don't fundraise, ensure governance is done properly, deal with staffing issues - hiring and firing, talk to trustees, ensure there is a strategic plan, ensure the charity is still solvent and viable. .?

Muffsies · 01/12/2025 16:29

I'm not senior management level, but over the years I have seen what my bosses go through with pressure and endless meetings, and what happens to them when the shit hits the fan. I also see their lovely cars, houses, jewellery and kids with private education.. but then I also see their failed marriges and stressed-out over-achiever kids (not all of them, obvs).

No thanks, not worth it.

Jamclag · 01/12/2025 16:19

All the people talking about the huge responsibility CEOs/ Heads of departments carry - and I don't dispute on paper that they absolutely do - do you ever wonder though why there appears to be so little real accountability for failure/disasters/scandals on their watch?
From what I've seen of both the top tier corporate and public sector world, people seem to fail upwards or they're shuffled sideways from one extremely well-paid position to the next. It's like this unwritten code that once you've made it to a certain level/ made enough connections/ know where enough of the bodies are buried you're golden, irrespective of your actual ability, the state you've left the company or organization in or even whether you've actually achieved any tangible results at all...

ADogRocketShip · 01/12/2025 16:18

I'm a lawyer working in-house in tech and tend to earn about that, depending on bonus. My days involve a never ending cycle of emails, meetings, meetings about meetings we're having later, meetings to argue about the interpretation of individual words in a contract, meetings with engineers to try and understand their products etc. Lots of drafting of contract terms for upcoming deals, drafting emails, advisory notes. Sending instructions to external counsel when necessary and meetings with them. Providing training to the business and engineering teams on key compliance frameworks (e.g., latest regulations for AI and how it impacts our product designs).

Just generally lots of stress too. Far more stress than when I was more junior. Now I'm more senior I have the benefit of being a bit more flexible in terms of working hours, but the work itself is very complicated and decisions I make are more risky or potentially more impactful. I'm expected to be available a lot, which means working weekends, holidays and a lot of evenings once the kids are in bed. When I'm not physically working on my laptop, I often have work in my mind. Its very hard to switch off. I literally dream about different work matters I have on that I'm finding it hard to 'fix'. The pressure to come up with 'creative solutions' (i.e., the business wants to do X, find a way to make it legal or compliant) which aren't too risky is exhausting and you're constantly second guessing your decisions.

Honestly, its been pretty horrific recently and I've been making exit plans to move to a less stressful role. I'm thankful not to have any direct reports or people management responsibilities.

MinnieMountain · 01/12/2025 16:15

Writing complicated spreadsheets and meetings (DH, actuarial consultant).

ItsAWonderfulLifeforMe · 01/12/2025 16:14

Also there is a huge difference between CEO level and salary or running a law firm (people have floated numbers like 400k plus) to a sales or marketing director on 150k. Obviously both are incredibly stressful but the responsibility of the whole company does not fall on the marketing director..

nietzscheanvibe · 01/12/2025 16:09

nightmarepickle2025 · 01/12/2025 12:02

Dick around on Mumsnet, mostly

Something, something, something... "meetings"; something, something, something... "pressure"; something, something, something... "decisions" 🤣

Crushed23 · 01/12/2025 15:48

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/12/2025 14:57

If a social worker (or childminder etc.) makes the wrong call, people die. Not sure I am seeing the difference in pressure here.

It’s okay if you don’t understand it, not many people do. Hence threads like this. Most people have no clue what is involved in being a CEO.

Somersetbaker · 01/12/2025 15:43

ZoggyStirdust · 30/11/2025 10:33

As someone said
youre not paid for what you do, you’re paid for all the knowledge, skills, and experience that means you can make big decisions well.

To make decisions quickly and own them.

godmum56 · 01/12/2025 14:59

ItsAWonderfulLifeforMe · 01/12/2025 09:45

I posted previously about how lucky I am to have a high earning partner (approx 150k max) that doesn’t work crazy hours or weekends. I’ve been thinking about this, it came across as a bit smug and I would to clarify.

What I didn’t say is that I am a SAHM that takes on pretty much every single mental load task / finance stuff / admin/ child associated task / housework task to enable him to work intensively during his hours. He sometimes has time to go to the gym in the day. Just the last week I’ve done loads for the Xmas fair, bought the Xmas presents, sorted play outfits, done all housework, checked up on granny, looked at holiday etc etc the list goes on. Including obvs washing his pants and cooking his meals (mostly although terrible cook)

So for all those power house women on this thread that have the high earning roles and have to do all of the above (highly unlikely that they have a man helping them to pick up all this) or waking up a 4am worrying about Xmas presents or have to sort Rainbows uniform, or worrying if they’ve sorted mufti day I think you are incredible!!! (And I wish things were more equal for you if it’s not currently)

Pretty much how it was for me and my late husband. No kids but I had a 0.5 part time job, fairly senior but very flexible, in a local NHS Trust. Running the house and the life admin was all mine because he might get called away at no notice for all sorts of reasons and need to spend literally days onsite in the Uk or abroad, He kept a couple of changes of clothes and a wash kit in his workplace. He was well paid, yes but he was also excellent at what he did and made huge contributions to workplace safety and global environmental safety. I sort of mind the wording of the OP's post although they may not have meant it To me "what does xxx do all day" implies that the speaker thinks that they lounge around and do sod all.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/12/2025 14:57

If a social worker (or childminder etc.) makes the wrong call, people die. Not sure I am seeing the difference in pressure here.

LBOCS2 · 01/12/2025 14:41

Crushed23 · 01/12/2025 14:33

It won’t be as huge as the pressure a CEO or CFO faces. It’s also a different kind of pressure. When a social worker is sick they (rightly) get time off to recover, least of all so they don’t pass any illness onto their patients. I am far below CEO in my organisation, mid-seniority, and when I’m sick I continue working but do so from home. No change to my hours because I am the only person on a project who has certain responsibility and no one else can step in. Similarly, I suspect a social worker does not continue working while on annual leave. They don’t come into work on their days off and care for patients. CEOs have to always be ‘on’ through weekends and holidays.

They also have the responsibility for the livelihoods of every one of their employees. If they make poor decisions which lead to the company becoming bankrupt, or being subject to huge regulatory fines, or suffering reputational damage, it doesn’t just impact them - it impacts all the people they employ too. And a good board should be mindful of that. Quite apart from the personal liability they hold in terms of prosecution in a number of industries.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/12/2025 14:38

More fool them then, TBH. Not having a plan in place for someone to step in in case of illness sounds like poor planning and bad workplace practice to me. What happens to the company when the CEO slash CFO is suddenly incapacitated?

Crushed23 · 01/12/2025 14:33

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/12/2025 13:13

You think the pressure on a social worker on £30k with a case load in the hundreds is not huge?

It won’t be as huge as the pressure a CEO or CFO faces. It’s also a different kind of pressure. When a social worker is sick they (rightly) get time off to recover, least of all so they don’t pass any illness onto their patients. I am far below CEO in my organisation, mid-seniority, and when I’m sick I continue working but do so from home. No change to my hours because I am the only person on a project who has certain responsibility and no one else can step in. Similarly, I suspect a social worker does not continue working while on annual leave. They don’t come into work on their days off and care for patients. CEOs have to always be ‘on’ through weekends and holidays.

CMOTDibbler · 01/12/2025 13:25

@GoodNightsshe fully supports paying more tax. It’s a privilege to be earning the level he does now

GoodNightss · 01/12/2025 13:20

CMOTDibbler · 01/12/2025 12:37

DH is a high earning CEO. It is very much 'the buck stops here' for him and everyone wants a piece of his time. He spends a lot of time thinking about 5, 10, 15 years out and how to grow and develop the company towards those goals and what it will take. That's both in terms of product/service, but 'if we are x size then, where will we get staff from - do we need to start training people for role y now so we have great people in 3 years. Then where could we put them, should we have an office in town z where there is a pool'. Or where could finance come from. Or 'this law is coming in which is related to our work, what could we do'.
He has a lot of meetings with his senior team to see that they are on track, support them, explain the vision to them and so on. Meetings with big clients to talk them through what is being delivered, make sure they are happy. Meetings to deal with escalated complaints. Meetings with potential clients
He does take people out to lunch once or twice a week - its an easier way to get in someones packed diary, lets you have a more discreet word sometimes, and builds a relationship better. But its not long boozy lunches by any means.
He works about 100 hours a week, and doesn't ever switch off. He loves it (mostly) though.

How does he feel about paying more tax?