Dh (33) is doing crazy hours at work as he is hoping to get a promotion. He has done so for the past 3 or 4 months. I accept it as it’s not forever.
We had date plans but the morning of dh told me he was going to have to work late. It’s annoying. But it is what it is. I ended up convincing a friend to go out for drinks.
Anyway, dh came home at around 7pm to “surprise me” as he felt guilty. But I told him that he should’ve rang as my friend was now on the train into the city. WAY too late to cancel. Plus I had a full face of make up on. Dh says things like “go on come up with an excuse”/“it’s been ages since we last spent time together”. I said I would try to get home early (didn’t end up happening).
My mum and I were speaking and she thinks I should have prioritised my husband and marriage 😂. Honestly it did not even enter my mind to cancel plans with friend (we had a great time).
Im assuming most would do as I did.
Just curious what you would do.
Dh knows I probably wouldn’t want to stay in on a Friday night