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To think yawning is rude?

34 replies

Settings11111111 · 28/11/2025 21:17

Not normal yawning, but when you’re with people and sitting having food or drinks or whatever and someone is (genuinely) yawning, again and again. Not a subtle yawn, but a noisy yawn with no attempt to hide it.

Is it rude or can it not be helped?

YABU - it can’t be helped and people should be free to yawn in people’s faces
YANBU - it is rude not to attempt to hide the yawns with your hands and do it quietly, and if you’re that tired you should be away to bed not drinking and yawning

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Bruisername · 28/11/2025 21:24

I can’t help it and I yawn really easily - just reading your thread title made me yawn

so if I’m out and I see someone yawn I will yawn and then I worry I’ve been rude so I think ‘don’t yawn again’ and thinking about a yawn makes me yawn.

eta I always cover my mouth and try and keep it subtle as you can!

Todayisenough · 28/11/2025 21:23

Yawning happens… it’s genuinely doesn’t mean I am bored or too tired to enjoy things.

Settings11111111 · 28/11/2025 21:23

CynthiaGoodman · 28/11/2025 21:22

It's a compliment, they're tired but have chosen to spend time with you rather than sleep.

It's polite to put your hand over your mouth when you yawn though, no one needs to see your uvula 😂

Plus the big sighing noises that go with it.

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Settings11111111 · 28/11/2025 21:22

Stillpoor · 28/11/2025 21:20

What do you want people to do hold their breath.

Just yawn normally, quietly, with a hand over their mouth. And if they’re so exhausted they can’t help but yawn loudly in company repeatedly they should get to bed.

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CynthiaGoodman · 28/11/2025 21:22

It's a compliment, they're tired but have chosen to spend time with you rather than sleep.

It's polite to put your hand over your mouth when you yawn though, no one needs to see your uvula 😂

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 28/11/2025 21:22

I don’t think it’s anyone’s choice. People get tired, life is hard

Pricelessadvice · 28/11/2025 21:21

You’d hate me. I have narcolepsy and when I have a sleep attack, I’ll start excessively yawning before hand. Over and over again. I really can’t help it.

Stillpoor · 28/11/2025 21:20

What do you want people to do hold their breath.

AlwaysAFaithful · 28/11/2025 21:19

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