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Is this a police job? Threatened by Vinted seller

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Reasonswhy · 28/11/2025 14:36

I know I’m not, but posting for traffic as no idea what to do.
Item for Christmas arrived today and was clearly fake so applied for a refund via Vinted. I’ve had a series of threatening messages from the seller saying he needs the money, and he has my address so will come and find me. He included a photo of himself holding an air rifle. I’m not easily spooked but feel really scared now as he does have my address and seems very angry. I’ve filed a “help” through Vinted but they may not even read it for 48 hours. Do I call 111? On my own with 2 kids so feel really on edge.

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HeartandSeoul · 29/11/2025 19:56

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 29/11/2025 19:24

OMG this is worse than the Cancel the Cheque thread!

I was about the write the same comment!!

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:55

Not in Southampton, or Newcastle where the first account was listed to.

if even 101 weren’t at all bothered yesterday and initially said they’d come next week, and someone is meant to come here today so it’s open but not deemed urgent, I think 999 won’t be overly impressed with me calling them but I have no idea

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PoppyTries · 29/11/2025 19:54

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:41

I’m now really scared as he’s gone to the trouble of setting up a whole new account and tracing my kids jacket listing and now it starts all over again. Feels less like an angry teenager in a strop in his room now 😢

Do you have the number of the officer who called you yesterday? If so, I would reach out to him/her and provide this new information. This might light a fire under them.

I think this sounds exactly like a smelly teen acting up and unable to regulate his emotions - what kind of hardened adult criminal is going to put multiple threats in writing as evidence, then travel and/or send “his black friends” to your home for £75 over a fake tracksuit?

I hope the police respond quickly and are able to reassure you. And also that armed police storm this wanker’s home and put the fear of god in him.

Phelicity · 29/11/2025 19:53

OP, have you got a named contact in the police dealing with this so you can be sure updates go to the right officer?

WaryCrow · 29/11/2025 19:52

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 29/11/2025 19:50

Please call 999 updating them. Tell them you have been threatened with a firearm. You and your children need safeguarding.

This.

Do it now op, instead of being on here.

ThisLittlePiggyHasEatenAllOfTheJaffaCakes · 29/11/2025 19:52

I'm no vinted expert @Reasonswhy but what is do know from my teenagers friends is this..... a lot of people buy fake but really good copies of expensive designer wear from overseas and sell it on vinted at low cost. They can have multiple accounts in order to try and not get caught up in the id/tax situation which kicks in when you sell a lot of stuff. So he may not be going to quite as much trouble as you're imagining.
I understand with young ones in the house though you will feel vulnerable.

Are you in Southampton? (That's where this account is listed)

HildegardP · 29/11/2025 19:51

He's made overt & implied threats of violence while reminding you that he has your address. Most Malicious Communications complaints are made by adult-sized toddlers with no social skills but this would form a solid complaint. Charges under the Online Safety Act also appear viable

(Vinted really are crap. Bloated prices, no possibility of quality control, last week's reports of hardcore porn showing up in ads they run on the site, & now wannabe gangsters flogging snide gear & threatening their victims. Walk away people, the site owners treat you as mugs.)

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 29/11/2025 19:50

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:46

still Waiting for the police to come today, and I’ve reported this new one to Vinted so they will get banned but will just set up a new one?

Please call 999 updating them. Tell them you have been threatened with a firearm. You and your children need safeguarding.

Jenstan21582 · 29/11/2025 19:50

Wow,what's your issue?!
I've read through as many messages as I can, absolutely no need for rudeness!!
No,she doesn't need to let us know,but surely,if someone's asked our opinion, wouldn't you wish to know the outcome & that her & her family are safe?!
No more to be said, other than,get over yourself love! 🙄🙄

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:50

No, it’s a new account so not linked to the old one. Have reported it to Vinted. Have tried 101 but wait times in excess of 50 mins and they are meant to be coming today when they can. So just need to wait.

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Shotokan101 · 29/11/2025 19:49

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:38

Update:
Still waiting for the police, it’s a city and it’s Saturday night so will be very busy with emergency calls.
Just got this through on vinted from a different account so they’ve clearly set that up and are still trying to scare me. This is scaring me now as they’re not just leaving it, and mentions of my kids and mum are too far. Have blacked out my address but oddly it’s 95% correct but not completely. Close enough to be too close for my comfort.

Have you got their address/contact info. for the Police?

WhyAreYouIkeThis · 29/11/2025 19:48

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:41

I’m now really scared as he’s gone to the trouble of setting up a whole new account and tracing my kids jacket listing and now it starts all over again. Feels less like an angry teenager in a strop in his room now 😢

That's understandable! What a horrible pos he is.

It's very likely that he's just a bitter weirdo with nothing better to do than make a new account to try and scare you, but he needs sorting out. For your peace of mind/safety and also so he learns he can't behave like this so you're doing the right thing by contacting the police.
Have you managed to update the police with this new account he's contacting you with?

noctilucentcloud · 29/11/2025 19:48

OP, you should update the police. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

PolkaDotPorridge · 29/11/2025 19:47

Absolutely a police call!

Cucy · 29/11/2025 19:47

It’s definitely a young person just by the things they are saying - doesn’t make it any less scary though.

These are not high profile criminals as they wouldn’t be this stupid.

I don’t understand how he is messaging you if vinted blocked him - vinted needs to take some accountability for this.

In some ways it is good he has messaged again because if he went quiet the police would have said he’s lost interest but now you can report it again and they’ll take it more seriously.

You have done well to keep your cool. I’d be telling the little prick just what I thought of him.

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:46

still Waiting for the police to come today, and I’ve reported this new one to Vinted so they will get banned but will just set up a new one?

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WaryCrow · 29/11/2025 19:45

Get back in touch with the police and tell them you are worried it’s gone personal. This is the antithesis of a law abiding society and it’s why police and law exist.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 29/11/2025 19:44

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:41

I’m now really scared as he’s gone to the trouble of setting up a whole new account and tracing my kids jacket listing and now it starts all over again. Feels less like an angry teenager in a strop in his room now 😢

Report this at once, both to the police and to Vinted.

Cutie101 · 29/11/2025 19:44

Please contact the police again. Tell them you have been threatened and feel unsafe.

Marieb19 · 29/11/2025 19:41

This is just a pathetic nasty piece of work trying to scare you. He/she probably doesn't leave their home and likely lives 100s of miles away. Vinted will bar them and it sounds like the police will follow up. Please do not worry. That is what they intended.

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:41

I’m now really scared as he’s gone to the trouble of setting up a whole new account and tracing my kids jacket listing and now it starts all over again. Feels less like an angry teenager in a strop in his room now 😢

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WhyAreYouIkeThis · 29/11/2025 19:40

Reasonswhy · 29/11/2025 19:38

Update:
Still waiting for the police, it’s a city and it’s Saturday night so will be very busy with emergency calls.
Just got this through on vinted from a different account so they’ve clearly set that up and are still trying to scare me. This is scaring me now as they’re not just leaving it, and mentions of my kids and mum are too far. Have blacked out my address but oddly it’s 95% correct but not completely. Close enough to be too close for my comfort.

Bloody hell OP, it's scary that he didn't drop it after his account was blocked. I'm so sorry you've come into contact with such a scumbag.

DarkForces · 29/11/2025 19:40

When this happened to me I screenshot everything and downloaded my account before shutting it down so they had no way to contact me. It's scary but that's what they're counting on. Stay strong @Reasonswhy

Shotokan101 · 29/11/2025 19:39

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 29/11/2025 19:32

Please don’t make assumptions on what type of firearm it is. It could make the OPs fear worse. Also please don’t make assumptions that it is an airsoft or replica, you cannot tell by a photo alone.

Please don't tell me what to do or say, especially when my comments are in fact
much more likely to assuage the OP's fears regarding the idiot's likely ability to have access to a genuine firearm, when others are just tossing about remarks about "an AK47".....

WhyAreYouIkeThis · 29/11/2025 19:38

The people replying to the posters who jump in without reading the thread.. the ones who get angry, swear at them, and call them stupid and arrogant etc are more annoying than the people they're replying to. You're literally doubling the amount of times their useless posts are shown and doubling the amount of space they take up on the thread (sometimes more if multiple people take on the role of thread police).

I get that it's annoying but not that annoying. And tbh not as annoying as your finger wagging responses amplifying their pointless posts.

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