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I got fired today!!

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Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:31

I started a new job on 1st September.

I was given an offer of employment letter when I started but never received a contract.

Today I was fired. Apparently I've had too much time off and failed my probation.

They've said I've had eleven days off. By my tally it's six days. Not eleven. Two were caused by migraines with aura which I've never had before and my GP reckons it was highly likely to have been caused by my office lighting as the migraines only started after I got the job. And since i stopped using the overhead office lights, (i sourced my own alternative) I've been migraine free.

I know it's still a high amount to have had off but I recieved PIP for a disability that does unfortunately mean it's difficult for me sometimes to get to work. But I've done my best.

Have I got a leg to stand on here? I never received a contract. Was never informed of a probation period. To then be told I'd failed a probation period that I didn't know existed? I signed nothing that mentioned probation.

I wasn't offered an extension to the probation period or a improvement plan, etc. Just straight dismissal, with no prior warning, for failing a probation period I didn't know existed. And also told I've had 11 days off and I don't think it's been that many.

OP posts:
Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:02

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 18:58

That’s not right? They can sue for discrimination under EqA from day one but not unfair dismissal under the Employment Rights Act?

Edited

Yes, they can. The Equality Act confers right to apply for tribunal for unfair or constructive dismissal from day one if the employee is disabled, their disability meets the definition of disability under the Act, and the reason for the dismissal is thought to be connected to that disability. They apply to the tribunal service, who make the decision as to whether they have a case in law and approve or decline the application as appropriate.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 27/11/2025 19:01

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:34

OP there’s some shit advice on here from posters who have clearly no experience of or empathy for disability, and how hard it can make finding and retaining employment. There is even less grasp of the law surrounding disability in the workplace.

Even if you didn’t declare your disability to your employer, so much time off within a short space of time could be considered to have been enough of a red flag for them to enquire as to whether you needed support. Instead of intervening in a timely manner, they appear to have waited it out until they could fire you. If there are grounds to think that the employer could reasonably have suspected a disability or health condition then it doesn’t matter whether you declared it or not. You need to ditch this thread and contact ACAS for proper, balanced advice as to your next step and whether or not you have a case for unfair dismissal.

Edited

As somebody with all the experience anybody could ever wish for of maintaining employment with disabilities (and also getting fired at times), this employer had - as a new starter - somebody taking time off almost immediately with headaches, a sick child and a tummy bug. None of those flag up an undeclared disability, they flag up a flaky employee who has only been there for a few days at most before calling in sick, then calling in 'my kid's sick' and then 'I'm sick' again.

Isobel201 · 27/11/2025 19:00

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 18:16

Look, I'm not actually looking to take this further or go to a tribunal or anything. I don't have that kind of fight in me.

I'm just worried about what I'm going to do going forward.

And yeah, I'm a bit annoyed that there was no contract, no mention of probation, no warnings. No back to work meetings after absences to discuss, etc. They were very happy with my work, and my time off hasn't been mentioned before today. As I said, there were no warnings, no discussions. It just feels shitty. No opportunities to improve and keep my job, etc.

You'll just have to continue looking for another job - next time declare your disability and migraines due to office lights. I agree it is a little shitty, but next time one of your kids is off, maybe ask if you can take it as unpaid leave or annual leave instead?

LoudNoiseCantCope · 27/11/2025 19:00

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:55

No they don’t. If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have employment rights from day one, including the right to apply to sue for unfair dismissal.

That’s only if the dismissal was related to disability. OP hasn’t given any indication that they knew about her disability, let alone dismissed her for it. They claim to have dismissed her due to her absence, none of which was related to her disability. Anyone can try to make a claim for unfair dismissal due to a protected characteristic (everyone has protected characteristics after all), doesn’t mean they’re right.

It’s shit OP, and I hope you find something else soon. Have a look at temping agencies.

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:00

Horserider5678 · 27/11/2025 18:51

Sadly you have no rights to go to tribunal for unfair dismissal as you need to currently be in a job for 2 years!

It is your responsibility to chase for your contract and to be honest I’d not have started without one.

Sickness, as a manager 6 days in 3 months would be of concern to me but I’d be having conversations with you before now!

What would be more of a concern to me is that as a manager you are unaware that a disabled employee has rights from day one, not dependent on two years service.

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 18:58

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:55

No they don’t. If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have employment rights from day one, including the right to apply to sue for unfair dismissal.

That’s not right? They can sue for discrimination under EqA from day one but not unfair dismissal under the Employment Rights Act?

WimbyAce · 27/11/2025 18:58

Did the sick days fall over weekends? If so I imagine the weekends have been counted. EG if I was sick on a Thurs and didn't return until Monday that is counted as 4 days.

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:58

IwishIhadcheese · 27/11/2025 18:56

Some of my time off was due to the aura migraines caused by my office lights. Totally new for me.
Some other time was due to my son being poorly and having to look after him.
Another was a sickness bug.

It doesn’t appear that any of the absences were connected to ops disability. Op said that the migraines seem to be due to the lights, her son was unwell and she had a bug.

I agree, but it’s a very grey area in law and OP really needs to speak to ACAS who can clarify whether or not she has a case.

Allthecoloursoftherainbow4 · 27/11/2025 18:56

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:31

I started a new job on 1st September.

I was given an offer of employment letter when I started but never received a contract.

Today I was fired. Apparently I've had too much time off and failed my probation.

They've said I've had eleven days off. By my tally it's six days. Not eleven. Two were caused by migraines with aura which I've never had before and my GP reckons it was highly likely to have been caused by my office lighting as the migraines only started after I got the job. And since i stopped using the overhead office lights, (i sourced my own alternative) I've been migraine free.

I know it's still a high amount to have had off but I recieved PIP for a disability that does unfortunately mean it's difficult for me sometimes to get to work. But I've done my best.

Have I got a leg to stand on here? I never received a contract. Was never informed of a probation period. To then be told I'd failed a probation period that I didn't know existed? I signed nothing that mentioned probation.

I wasn't offered an extension to the probation period or a improvement plan, etc. Just straight dismissal, with no prior warning, for failing a probation period I didn't know existed. And also told I've had 11 days off and I don't think it's been that many.

If you took a Friday off then the Monday following it this is sometimes counted as 4 days as the duration of your illness was 4 days.
Fridays and Mondays are also the most common days for people to be off sick when there is problem /persistent absence.

IwishIhadcheese · 27/11/2025 18:56

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:52

If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have rights from day one, including the right to sue for unfair dismissal. The choice to declare a disability or not is relevant, but the employer bears some responsibility if it can be shown that they should have suspected something was amiss.

Some of my time off was due to the aura migraines caused by my office lights. Totally new for me.
Some other time was due to my son being poorly and having to look after him.
Another was a sickness bug.

It doesn’t appear that any of the absences were connected to ops disability. Op said that the migraines seem to be due to the lights, her son was unwell and she had a bug.

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:55

Horserider5678 · 27/11/2025 18:53

There’s nothing to take to tribunal! To get to a tribunal a person has to be in post for 2 years currently!

No they don’t. If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have employment rights from day one, including the right to apply to sue for unfair dismissal.

lolly427 · 27/11/2025 18:55

Redburnett · 27/11/2025 18:05

I think people are being a little unkind to the OP, it is always a shock to find you are suddenly not wanted, even if the reason is justifiable. In your case OP it would not be unreasonable to have expected return to work interviews or informal chats with your manager after each absence, and for the manager to have made clear that further absences could result in dismissal. If that didn't happen then it may be that the company would not have been a great one to work for in the long run.

Surely people don't expect a return to work interview after having just 2 or 3 days off!

Because you've been there such a short time, you didn't declare your disability and you had days off for unrelated reasons anyway i don't think you have a leg to stand on OP.

I think it's all too easy for people to say you should have disclosed your disability though. In reality it's often a real dilemma because it could count against you unfortunately. Are you autistic OP? DS is and has had this dilemma.

Nevernonono · 27/11/2025 18:54

I agree even if you’d known about the probation, the outcome would’ve been the same,

Were the migraines connected to your disability? It doesn’t sound like they were? I suppose they’ve looked at time off, need to change lighting (has this been detrimental to others) and it’s just amounted to too much.

Jk987 · 27/11/2025 18:54

*still

Jk987 · 27/11/2025 18:54

If it’s hard to get to work due to a disability, why didn’t you wfh? The employer stir needs the work done and can’t keep
paying you if you don’t turn up.

Horserider5678 · 27/11/2025 18:53

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:47

I’ve had experience of exactly this situation at tribunal. The OP had significant time off in a short space of time, which should have been a red flag for the employer to intervene and find out what the problem was - especially if there was a probation period with specific guidelines about permissible sick leave. That would have given the OP an opportunity to declare the disability and describe how the working environment was affecting her. Instead, the employer seems to have waited it out until they could fire her. That’s what could potentially work against them.

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There’s nothing to take to tribunal! To get to a tribunal a person has to be in post for 2 years currently!

IwishIhadcheese · 27/11/2025 18:52

HoskinsChoice · 27/11/2025 18:28

What is your husband doing to help with childcare? And, given you were just a couple of weeks into a new job and had to take so much time off sick for yourself, why didn't your husband stay at home to look after your sick child?

Don’t be that person.

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:52

Horserider5678 · 27/11/2025 18:51

Sadly you have no rights to go to tribunal for unfair dismissal as you need to currently be in a job for 2 years!

It is your responsibility to chase for your contract and to be honest I’d not have started without one.

Sickness, as a manager 6 days in 3 months would be of concern to me but I’d be having conversations with you before now!

If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have rights from day one, including the right to sue for unfair dismissal. The choice to declare a disability or not is relevant, but the employer bears some responsibility if it can be shown that they should have suspected something was amiss.

EleanorReally · 27/11/2025 18:52

did you not have occ health check before you started?

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:51

WiddlinDiddlin · 27/11/2025 18:45

When do you declare it?

At application stage - you'll find you don't even get an interview.

At interview stage - you will almost certainly not get any further.

On day 1 - they can still find another reason to let you go after the probation period, though if they did let you go on day 1 they'd have to really prove it wasn't an immediate response to the declaration... it is possible though.

If a company does not want to hire people with disabilities, they can absolutely find ways to avoid doing so without any real possibility of comeback for the applicant. Many companies do not want to hire people with disablities because frankly (and speaking as a disabled person myself) its expensive, its a faff and we're just less reliable (depending on the disability of course) on paper and in peoples experience.

Agree - it’s exactly why many disabled people are too scared to declare the disability at any stage - a fact which is reflected in the law, which doesn’t require them to declare disability and offers some safeguarding in the form of employer responsibilities around reasonable suspicion that something is amiss.

IwishIhadcheese · 27/11/2025 18:51

Sorry that you have lost your job. Hopefully something will come along, especially this time of year.

It doesn’t sound like your absences were connected to your disability but I urge you to disclose it next time. It won’t mean that you can’t be fired but it may mean support.

Horserider5678 · 27/11/2025 18:51

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:31

I started a new job on 1st September.

I was given an offer of employment letter when I started but never received a contract.

Today I was fired. Apparently I've had too much time off and failed my probation.

They've said I've had eleven days off. By my tally it's six days. Not eleven. Two were caused by migraines with aura which I've never had before and my GP reckons it was highly likely to have been caused by my office lighting as the migraines only started after I got the job. And since i stopped using the overhead office lights, (i sourced my own alternative) I've been migraine free.

I know it's still a high amount to have had off but I recieved PIP for a disability that does unfortunately mean it's difficult for me sometimes to get to work. But I've done my best.

Have I got a leg to stand on here? I never received a contract. Was never informed of a probation period. To then be told I'd failed a probation period that I didn't know existed? I signed nothing that mentioned probation.

I wasn't offered an extension to the probation period or a improvement plan, etc. Just straight dismissal, with no prior warning, for failing a probation period I didn't know existed. And also told I've had 11 days off and I don't think it's been that many.

Sadly you have no rights to go to tribunal for unfair dismissal as you need to currently be in a job for 2 years!

It is your responsibility to chase for your contract and to be honest I’d not have started without one.

Sickness, as a manager 6 days in 3 months would be of concern to me but I’d be having conversations with you before now!

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 18:50

WiddlinDiddlin · 27/11/2025 18:45

When do you declare it?

At application stage - you'll find you don't even get an interview.

At interview stage - you will almost certainly not get any further.

On day 1 - they can still find another reason to let you go after the probation period, though if they did let you go on day 1 they'd have to really prove it wasn't an immediate response to the declaration... it is possible though.

If a company does not want to hire people with disabilities, they can absolutely find ways to avoid doing so without any real possibility of comeback for the applicant. Many companies do not want to hire people with disablities because frankly (and speaking as a disabled person myself) its expensive, its a faff and we're just less reliable (depending on the disability of course) on paper and in peoples experience.

Not in my work. We have a guaranteed interview scheme for every person who ticks the disability box. Which is pretty much everyone. And then we aren’t allowed to ask them about it so it’s usually never mentioned again (until they start needing performance managed).

ElReverendoGreen · 27/11/2025 18:50

What’s your disability?

And were any of your absences to do with your disability?

And did you declare your disability?

KilkennyCats · 27/11/2025 18:50

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:47

I’ve had experience of exactly this situation at tribunal. The OP had significant time off in a short space of time, which should have been a red flag for the employer to intervene and find out what the problem was - especially if there was a probation period with specific guidelines about permissible sick leave. That would have given the OP an opportunity to declare the disability and describe how the working environment was affecting her. Instead, the employer seems to have waited it out until they could fire her. That’s what could potentially work against them.

Edited

But none of the sick leave was due to her disability.