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AIBU that now is the time for us to get behind Kemi?

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StarlightRobot · 27/11/2025 16:02

Rachel Reeves has broken her promise that new taxes would not be levied on working people. She hasn’t followed through with her promise to prioritise growth. She failed to deliver welfare reform. It is clear that the current government is now led by the newly elected backbenchers. Labour are punishing those of us who work and save, taxing our pensions and making life more expensive for working families. She is making it more difficult for employers to hire staff and graduates in particular are suffering from a lack of opportunity due to her policies.

Keir Starmer failed to get any support for welfare reform from his backbenchers and is coasting politically.

Both Rachel and Keir have shown that political survival means more to them than delivering a budget that grows the economy and helps those of us who work hard and aspire for more. I feel that they hate people like me and my family- we are professionals on two good wages with children, not rich, middle class, trying to improve our lives, prepare for our futures while trying to pay the bills. There is literally nothing in this budget which would help people like me, only punishment (or a ‘contribution’ as Rachel Reeves described it in her budget speech).

Yes, the tories screwed up massively under Boris and Truss. But everything that Kemi is saying about the autumn budget is spot on. Kemi also stood up for women at a time when Labour was gaslighting women across the country in relation to trans issues.

The conservatives have a huge amount of work to do to rebuild trust and develop their policies. But if they don’t gain public support we are risking the chaos of a Reform government. AIBU to say that now is the time to get behind Kemi?

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LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 22:25

Legolava · 30/11/2025 22:06

It’s really not. No, I won’t. It is easy to support Labour if you did well in a secure job. Retired at 55 on a final salary pension. The current pension scheme is a pyramid scheme. I doubt I will have one. They are unaffordable and we are currently paying for the retirees who could finish early and take full final salary. The system will collapse before then, it is unaffordable. Especially as we seem intent on destroying the sector that pays for us.

I work with people in dire need and whom are in dire circumstances. That’s why I am angry about what the current government is doing but that’s for another thread.

The only people I see supporting Labour now are mainly retired public sector workers (many of the younger cohort aren’t as militant and unionised) or welfare claimants.

I'm sorry that the pension scheme has changed so much but those of us who did retire with a final salary pension are not to blame. It doesn't mean we have no idea what's going on in the real world. It also doesn't mean that we all vote Labour.

I used to vote Tory but have not done so since Cameron was PM and was appalled at how things got even worse during the Boris, Truss and Sunak eras. I think they have taken another huge step in the wrong direction with Badenoch.

But that still doesn't mean I support Labour. I don't agree with everything they have done so far but they are not solely responsible for the state that the country is currently in.

Legolava · 30/11/2025 22:06

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 22:00

That's a very sweeping statement to make to say they are generally ignorant of what is going on in the real world. Many PS jobs involve working with and helping people who are living in the most dire of circumstances, so they are very much aware. That is regardless of which party is in power.

If you work in the public sector then surely you must know this? And will you not also be in receipt of one of those 'pensions to dream of' one day?

It’s really not. No, I won’t. It is easy to support Labour if you did well in a secure job. Retired at 55 on a final salary pension. The current pension scheme is a pyramid scheme. I doubt I will have one. They are unaffordable and we are currently paying for the retirees who could finish early and take full final salary. The system will collapse before then, it is unaffordable. Especially as we seem intent on destroying the sector that pays for us.

I work with people in dire need and whom are in dire circumstances. That’s why I am angry about what the current government is doing but that’s for another thread.

The only people I see supporting Labour now are mainly retired public sector workers (many of the younger cohort aren’t as militant and unionised) or welfare claimants.

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 22:00

Legolava · 30/11/2025 21:39

Nothing - I am one. On the whole, they are generally ignorant of what is going on in the real world. Especially retired ones on pensions that the rest of us can only dream of. All the while, the public sector is falling apart and the unions just keep kite flying and not really helping our cause. They are sheltered from a lot of the pain and uncertainty that has been inflicted on the private sector. That impacts everyone. The only people I see supporting Labour fall into two categories at the moment. My colleagues can’t stand them. They are losing the support of the current crop of PS workers.

That's a very sweeping statement to make to say they are generally ignorant of what is going on in the real world. Many PS jobs involve working with and helping people who are living in the most dire of circumstances, so they are very much aware. That is regardless of which party is in power.

If you work in the public sector then surely you must know this? And will you not also be in receipt of one of those 'pensions to dream of' one day?

BIossomtoes · 30/11/2025 21:41

ilovesooty · 30/11/2025 19:32

Never claimed benefits in my life. Well, not until the state pension.

Same.

Legolava · 30/11/2025 21:39

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 21:30

What's wrong with being a public sector worker?

Nothing - I am one. On the whole, they are generally ignorant of what is going on in the real world. Especially retired ones on pensions that the rest of us can only dream of. All the while, the public sector is falling apart and the unions just keep kite flying and not really helping our cause. They are sheltered from a lot of the pain and uncertainty that has been inflicted on the private sector. That impacts everyone. The only people I see supporting Labour fall into two categories at the moment. My colleagues can’t stand them. They are losing the support of the current crop of PS workers.

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 21:30

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:33

Public sector worker?

What's wrong with being a public sector worker?

StarlightLady · 30/11/2025 21:22

TheignT · 29/11/2025 08:20

It was interesting to hear Aysha Azarikas take on it. She said when it came out that Badenoch had hacked Harriet Harman's emails (I think it was emails could have been some other internet account) she contacted zHH begging her to let it go as she was just a young black female MP. HH accepted it.

Shame she wasn't torn to shreds like she does to others.

This.

lt wasn’t Baroness Harman’s emails, she hacked her website and altered the content; a criminal offence.

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 21:12

TheignT · 29/11/2025 08:20

It was interesting to hear Aysha Azarikas take on it. She said when it came out that Badenoch had hacked Harriet Harman's emails (I think it was emails could have been some other internet account) she contacted zHH begging her to let it go as she was just a young black female MP. HH accepted it.

Shame she wasn't torn to shreds like she does to others.

Totally agree.

How she didn't have her arse kicked for that is beyond me. She is not fit for public office in any capacity. For the Tories to elect her as their party leader just tells me all I need to know about their ethics.

HellsBalls · 30/11/2025 20:44

The Tories are now an irrelevance, at least for a generation.
Reform would seem to be incompetent, however they are scaring Labour into being more right wing than the Tories were over their 14 year reign.
If Labour can fix the NHS, law & order, and the bug bear of immigration, they should win easily next election.

Kirbert2 · 30/11/2025 20:29

MyLimeGuide · 30/11/2025 20:06

Yeah everyone is happy to help support disabled ppl.

You've clearly missed some threads on here because that isn't the case at all.

HPFA · 30/11/2025 20:19

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

That's extremely difficult to do. Almost all public sector pension schemes don't put contributions in a pot.

Set up a DC scheme and you have to invest all those contributions which means a big black hole in your current finances.

The coalition government tried to do this and couldn't manage it .

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 20:14

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 19:44

Most PS pension schemes are DC now.

Just correcting myself slightly here. I think most public sector pension schemes are now some form of career average/DC schemes. Final salary PS pension schemes are mostly are no longer open to new members AFAIK.

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 20:09

MyLimeGuide · 30/11/2025 20:06

Yeah everyone is happy to help support disabled ppl.

This is really not the case, sadly. For example, have you seen some of the MN threads about the Motability scheme?

MyLimeGuide · 30/11/2025 20:06

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 18:33

People who are able to work should do so, I have no argument with that. However, I would imagine being a parent of disabled children could be very much a full time job. I am happy for my taxes to go towards supporting those families.

Yeah everyone is happy to help support disabled ppl.

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 19:44

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

Most PS pension schemes are DC now.

Legolava · 30/11/2025 19:44

EasternStandard · 30/11/2025 19:41

No she didn’t. You’ve jumped to that in your own posts.

Mnhq have deleted it anyway so they agree

They are arguing semantics. Saying something like that, even in jest, would definitely be an offence under the malicious communications act. That’s why MNHQ had to delete it. Some might want to remember that piece of legislation when hurling abuse at people for having differing opinions.

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:43

Legolava · 30/11/2025 19:41

The only people supporting Labour right now are retired public sector workers or those in receipt of welfare.

As proven yet again. Ex/current public sector workers with great pensions (compared to majority of private sector workers) and rely on the state for employment.

Legolava · 30/11/2025 19:41

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

The only people supporting Labour right now are retired public sector workers or those in receipt of welfare.

EasternStandard · 30/11/2025 19:41

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:36

A poster said it was a death threat. If I saw a death threat the police would be my first port of call.

No she didn’t. You’ve jumped to that in your own posts.

Mnhq have deleted it anyway so they agree

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:38

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:36

A poster said it was a death threat. If I saw a death threat the police would be my first port of call.

Stop misquoting me. I never said it was a death threat, read my post.
I said "you are supporting the killing of an MP just because you disagree with her?".
I didn't say they made a death threat.
Your comprehension is poor.

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:36

EasternStandard · 30/11/2025 19:25

What are you talking about with police?

A poster said it was a death threat. If I saw a death threat the police would be my first port of call.

ilovesooty · 30/11/2025 19:36

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:33

Public sector worker?

I was for a period of my life, yes. What has that got to do with being on benefits?

tinytemper66 · 30/11/2025 19:34

No. Just that.

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:33

Yes, I appreciate that I am a Tory and that I generally disagree with most of the MN left. But if none of your MP's have ever even tried to succeed in business, then why would people who have small companies, or bigger ones, take you seriously? They do not know anything about keeping a business going.