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Shop won't refund or exchange faulty toaster!

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AcorgicalledTiffany · 26/11/2025 22:15

So about six weeks ago I went to DC's school as they were holding an autumn fair. I bought a book of raffle tickets, £5 in total, and later found out I had won a prize. All prizes had been donated by local businesses for free advertising I suppose, not sure how they got involved but there we are.

I won a brand new four slice toaster, it said on the label it was "worth" £49 and had been donated by a local hardware shop. All was ok until last week when one side of the toaster stopped holding the bread down. So I took it back to the shop where it had originally come from. Man in the shop said there was absolutely nothing he could do as it was a gift to the school, which I really wasn't happy about. He said I could try contacting the manufacturers, so I went home and called them and they said no way could they do anything as this toaster had been out of production for almost FIVE years!!!

So back I went to the hardware shop and told this to the man, I was really cross by now as it was obviously some old stock he'd given away which he admitted it was, he said it was something he'd had in the stockroom for sometime and that he hadn't had such expensive toasters for sale for a while as nobody seemed to buy them, all of this of course is not my problem. The only thing he said he would be prepared to do for me would be to order me a new toaster and sell it to me at the cost price, he showed me the suppliers catalogue and the cheapest one he could get that is anything like this was over £30, so obviously I told him no.

I am really peed off about this as he got free advertising for his shop only its backfired now! As I will be telling people to avoid the place. But why should I lose out?

OP posts:
SouthernNights59 · 27/11/2025 01:22

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 26/11/2025 23:08

I'm amazed at the responses on here. I'm with you, OP. If it had been a genuine gift to you on the quiet, I'd say to leave it; but instead of the shop being paid for it with money from a customer, they were paid in valuable advertising within the community - which most certainly would not have been forthcoming if they'd given/advertised the prize as as 'faulty old toaster donated by Smith's Electrical Emporium of Anytown'.

And the price paid for the prizes including this one is not just OP's £1, but rather the total of every £1 that was spent on tickets, including all of the non-winning ones.

I bet nobody on here would decide to 'not make a fuss' if they'd bought a £2 ticket for the lottery and won a prize - even if only a tenner, let alone a big amount - if they were told that they couldn't have their prize because 'reasons' - but hey, at least it only cost them £2, so it's not like they've really lost any amount worth complaining about. It's the principle here, even though it's not a high value prize.

Some of us buy raffle tickets solely as a way to help whoever is selling them. Most of us have no expectations of a prize, sometimes we win things we have no use for. We just shrug our shoulders and move on.

I don't know anyone who would behave the way OP - and you - because a prize was faulty and I'm so thankful I don't know people like this in real life.

Onautopilot · 27/11/2025 01:16

Hmmm...thank goodness the raffle prize wasn't a new car that broke down in 6 weeks. How many MNters would just suck that up?

PluckyChancer · 27/11/2025 01:06

So this business is getting of rid of defective electrical items by donating them as charity prizes and posters think this is perfectly acceptable???

Fuck sake!

@AcorgicalledTiffanyYou could try reporting him to Trading Standards for donating defective electrical goods.

I also think you should post about this dodgy practice online via social media. The business owner is clearly a chancer who has donated old stock in return for free advertising. Shady business owners like that deserve to lose their business!

sweeneytoddsrazor · 27/11/2025 00:43

It wasn't broken though was it. It worked and 6 weeks later developed a fault.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:20

Jeschara · 27/11/2025 00:15

I find this post very cringy. I would leave it. I find this post embarrassing. Please don't show yourself up.

How much would a competition prize have to be worth before you wouldn't find it embarrassing to challenge the supplier if the prize failed to materialise?

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:18

Bologneselove · 27/11/2025 00:06

It was bad luck for you the toaster developed a fault but you can’t expect the donator or manufacturer to repair or replace it for you. It was a gift donated to the school to help raise their funds so irrelevant that it’s an old model. If you want a latest model, buy it from a shop. 😂 or you could complain to the school who may refund your ticket cost.

It's not the fact that it's an old model per se, but rather that it is broken. The offered prize was a new toaster (which any reasonable person would obviously expect to work as normal) and the received prize was a broken toaster!

Although most people wouldn't blame the school or want them to be out of pocket, there are actually strict laws surrounding the licensing and organising of raffles. Failing to supply the prizes as advertised in pursuit of financial gain - even for a good cause - can get you into serious trouble.

Jeschara · 27/11/2025 00:15

I find this post very cringy. I would leave it. I find this post embarrassing. Please don't show yourself up.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:12

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 00:05

It was older than that. The manufacturer said it was out of production almost five years, so goodness only knows how long he'd had it for.

Whew, what kind of business can sustain itself by keeping stock in for that long?! At the very least, you'd expect them to cut their losses and free up stock space by reducing the prices - preferably whilst they were still current (but still replacing them if they do turn out to be faulty).

I'm wondering if he'd had one of those customers we read about on MN retail threads - the kind who stamp their feet and make a scene, insisting on receiving a replacement for a very old item that has eventually broken after many years of good service (and which they may not even have bought from that particular shop!) - and he saw this as a way of getting rid of the duff returned one; maybe hoping that the winner would be like the majority of people on this thread who think it pathetic to expect a prize to function as promised and/or not link it back to his business.

Bologneselove · 27/11/2025 00:06

It was bad luck for you the toaster developed a fault but you can’t expect the donator or manufacturer to repair or replace it for you. It was a gift donated to the school to help raise their funds so irrelevant that it’s an old model. If you want a latest model, buy it from a shop. 😂 or you could complain to the school who may refund your ticket cost.

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 00:05

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:00

He'd had it in for five years, though?!

And if he had given it in good faith, he would be mindful that he'd promised a toaster to the winner, apologise and replace it with a new one that did work.

To be honest, even if he doesn't have personal integrity in something like this, you'd think that from a purely business perspective he'd be keen not to undo all the good publicity by risking losing all future custom from OP and all friends and family she might mention it to.

In the present day, small local electrical shops will almost certainly have a much smaller range and much less competitive prices than the big online retailers. The massive reason why people choose to buy from them is because of their knowledge of the product and the fact that, if something goes wrong, they will resolve it for you with minimal fuss. If they're going to fob people off when something does go wrong anyway, there's no incentive whatsoever to bother using them.

We have a long-established family electrical firm in our town and I specifically made a point of using them to buy something that I could have got cheaper online, because I thought it was a good thing to support small businesses and also it was new technology, and I wanted to be sure of having a straightforward solution if anything went wrong. It did go wrong and they just didn't want to know. This was several years ago, and ever since, every time we want electrical items, we now just ignore them and go straight to Amazon.

Edited

It was older than that. The manufacturer said it was out of production almost five years, so goodness only knows how long he'd had it for.

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Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:04

Anywherebuthere · 26/11/2025 23:53

You took a gamble and you lost. Get over it.

The gamble is meant to be in whether you win a prize or not for your money; not whether any prize that you do win will be fit for the described purpose!

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:00

sweeneytoddsrazor · 26/11/2025 23:39

It was old stock. That doesn't mean it was faulty or he knew it was faulty. It means it didn't sell and had been sitting in the back of the shop for a while.

He'd had it in for five years, though?!

And if he had given it in good faith, he would be mindful that he'd promised a toaster to the winner, apologise and replace it with a new one that did work.

To be honest, even if he doesn't have personal integrity in something like this, you'd think that from a purely business perspective he'd be keen not to undo all the good publicity by risking losing all future custom from OP and all friends and family she might mention it to.

In the present day, small local electrical shops will almost certainly have a much smaller range and much less competitive prices than the big online retailers. The massive reason why people choose to buy from them is because of their knowledge of the product and the fact that, if something goes wrong, they will resolve it for you with minimal fuss. If they're going to fob people off when something does go wrong anyway, there's no incentive whatsoever to bother using them.

We have a long-established family electrical firm in our town and I specifically made a point of using them to buy something that I could have got cheaper online, because I thought it was a good thing to support small businesses and also it was new technology, and I wanted to be sure of having a straightforward solution if anything went wrong. It did go wrong and they just didn't want to know. This was several years ago, and ever since, every time we want electrical items, we now just ignore them and go straight to Amazon.

Anywherebuthere · 26/11/2025 23:53

You took a gamble and you lost. Get over it.

Viviennemary · 26/11/2025 23:42

The shop has no legal obligation to replace the toaster of refund you. Approach the school as they gave you a dodgy prize and ask for your raffle money back. But probably best just to drop it.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 26/11/2025 23:39

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 26/11/2025 23:29

I'd hardly call him a 'poor guy' - dishonestly gaining publicity for his business by passing off faulty old stock as though it were a desirable prize that he was donating.

If, instead of asking sponsors for raffle prizes in exchange for publicity, the school had sold/given out a programme of the event and charged local businesses a price for their advert in it - and the shop owner had paid them for his advert with what he knew to be counterfeit banknotes... I wonder if people would be saying "leave the poor guy alone" then?!

Instead of supporting the school as a good cause, he's actually potentially harmed their profile. I'm guessing the toaster wasn't the top prize; but imagine if the business donating the proudly-advertised first prize (which had encouraged a lot more sales) had actually supplied something worthless instead. It's not really a good look if you have the PTA asking people at every opportunity to buy tickets on the strength of one particularly highly-enticing prize and, unknown to them, it turns out that they're actually promoting a scam.

He should have just politely declined their request when they asked if he would give them a prize - but then he would also have foregone the good PR for his business, of course.

It was old stock. That doesn't mean it was faulty or he knew it was faulty. It means it didn't sell and had been sitting in the back of the shop for a while.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 26/11/2025 23:35

AgnesMcDoo · 26/11/2025 23:24

In this instance it’s the school you should seek recourse from as they are the ones who awarded the prize

bit you know that would be a total arsehole thing to do right

I wouldn't demand that the school make good on the prize, as it wasn't their fault; but I would let them know and warn them not to accept any donations or requests for advertising from that business in future.

In a sense, OP was 'lucky' that the fault only prevented the toaster from working as it should; but what if, instead, it had caught fire - as ancient, faulty electrical goods frequently do? What if it had been a local bakery donating a beautiful-looking cake, but which had actually been made using very old ingredients and which left the 'lucky' winner violently ill?

OneKhakiFish · 26/11/2025 23:31

Throw it out, buy a cheap one from a supermarket if you really want a new one, I feel my face flush just reading you went for a refund

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 26/11/2025 23:29

Offyourrocker · 26/11/2025 23:14

Bahahaha, this is the silliest thing I've ever seen on mumsnet 🤣

That poor guy, leave him alone 🤣

I'd hardly call him a 'poor guy' - dishonestly gaining publicity for his business by passing off faulty old stock as though it were a desirable prize that he was donating.

If, instead of asking sponsors for raffle prizes in exchange for publicity, the school had sold/given out a programme of the event and charged local businesses a price for their advert in it - and the shop owner had paid them for his advert with what he knew to be counterfeit banknotes... I wonder if people would be saying "leave the poor guy alone" then?!

Instead of supporting the school as a good cause, he's actually potentially harmed their profile. I'm guessing the toaster wasn't the top prize; but imagine if the business donating the proudly-advertised first prize (which had encouraged a lot more sales) had actually supplied something worthless instead. It's not really a good look if you have the PTA asking people at every opportunity to buy tickets on the strength of one particularly highly-enticing prize and, unknown to them, it turns out that they're actually promoting a scam.

He should have just politely declined their request when they asked if he would give them a prize - but then he would also have foregone the good PR for his business, of course.

AgnesMcDoo · 26/11/2025 23:24

In this instance it’s the school you should seek recourse from as they are the ones who awarded the prize

bit you know that would be a total arsehole thing to do right

PInkyStarfish · 26/11/2025 23:24

Sounds like you went into the shop with an attitude.

You should have tried to butter him up! Poor man is only trying to make a crust!

(Gets coat….)

Member869894 · 26/11/2025 23:20

Frankly, you sound like a loon.

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Offyourrocker · 26/11/2025 23:14

Bahahaha, this is the silliest thing I've ever seen on mumsnet 🤣

That poor guy, leave him alone 🤣

LetMeGoogleThat · 26/11/2025 23:13

I think you should consider suing the school and contacting your MP!

Or just get a grip, jees! This can't be real 😳

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 26/11/2025 23:11

ItsABarbecueShowdown · 26/11/2025 23:02

Are you on the wrong thread? One about a business routinely selling faulty goods? 👀

Not at all - read what I wrote: I said supply, not sell.

Obviously most of the goods they supply will be via normal sales to customers, but if they proudly put their name to goods that they supply, knowing (or having a very good idea) that they will be faulty, it's hardly going to be positive for their business, is it?

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