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Shop won't refund or exchange faulty toaster!

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AcorgicalledTiffany · 26/11/2025 22:15

So about six weeks ago I went to DC's school as they were holding an autumn fair. I bought a book of raffle tickets, £5 in total, and later found out I had won a prize. All prizes had been donated by local businesses for free advertising I suppose, not sure how they got involved but there we are.

I won a brand new four slice toaster, it said on the label it was "worth" £49 and had been donated by a local hardware shop. All was ok until last week when one side of the toaster stopped holding the bread down. So I took it back to the shop where it had originally come from. Man in the shop said there was absolutely nothing he could do as it was a gift to the school, which I really wasn't happy about. He said I could try contacting the manufacturers, so I went home and called them and they said no way could they do anything as this toaster had been out of production for almost FIVE years!!!

So back I went to the hardware shop and told this to the man, I was really cross by now as it was obviously some old stock he'd given away which he admitted it was, he said it was something he'd had in the stockroom for sometime and that he hadn't had such expensive toasters for sale for a while as nobody seemed to buy them, all of this of course is not my problem. The only thing he said he would be prepared to do for me would be to order me a new toaster and sell it to me at the cost price, he showed me the suppliers catalogue and the cheapest one he could get that is anything like this was over £30, so obviously I told him no.

I am really peed off about this as he got free advertising for his shop only its backfired now! As I will be telling people to avoid the place. But why should I lose out?

OP posts:
NemesisInferior · 27/11/2025 09:30

Hahahah get over yourself.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 09:28

Isittimeformynapyet · 27/11/2025 02:14

There are no cake ingredients that when old would make anyone "violently ill" 🤣😂

This thread has really brought out the nutters.

OK, then, if you want to analyse the minutiae of every analogy... how about if a local restaurant offered a free three-course meal for two as a prize in a local raffle - also of course courting the good PR; not annuncommon prize.

Somebody wins it, goes for the meal, and then they and their companion go down with food poisoning immediately after. All well and good, and just something to laugh about and put down to experience because they hadn't paid the restaurant directly?

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 09:23

Isittimeformynapyet · 27/11/2025 02:11

@Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService this is seriously like something out of Viz Letterbox. Hilarious 🤣

If, instead of asking sponsors for raffle prizes in exchange for publicity, the school had sold/given out a programme of the event and charged local businesses a price for their advert in it - and the shop owner had paid them for his advert with what he knew to be counterfeit banknotes... I wonder if people would be saying "leave the poor guy alone" then?!

🤣😂😆😂🤣

I love crazy Viz tips and letters as much as anybody, but I don't see how it remotely applies to somebody making a clear promise and then deciding that they just couldn't be bothered to keep it.

I presume you're aware that local organisations do frequently sell advertising space in event programmes and local newspapers in order to make it viable?

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 09:20

SouthernNights59 · 27/11/2025 01:24

Did you miss the part where it worked perfectly well for six weeks? Did the retailer have a crystal ball and know that after six weeks it was going to develop a fault? Confused

No, but if it hadn't been extremely old stock, they could have returned it to their supplier and got the winner a replacement.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 09:17

Onautopilot · 27/11/2025 01:16

Hmmm...thank goodness the raffle prize wasn't a new car that broke down in 6 weeks. How many MNters would just suck that up?

Indeed. I haven't seen them for a few years, but some local fetes used to have stalls whereby you could win a car - an actual brand new car - if you threw 6 sixes in one throw.

Obviously it drew an enormous amount of interest and huge publicity for the local dealership that supplied the car. In reality, the odds of winning were infinitesimally tiny - and the garage would usually buy insurance against somebody winning it - but if you did beat the odds, you would indeed become the owner of that brand new car.

As you say, if luck was on your side - and they then brought out a beaten up ancient jalopy as your 'prize' instead of the shiny new car they had displayed and offered - I can't see many of the people on this thread just accepting it nonchalantly.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 09:09

SouthernNights59 · 27/11/2025 01:22

Some of us buy raffle tickets solely as a way to help whoever is selling them. Most of us have no expectations of a prize, sometimes we win things we have no use for. We just shrug our shoulders and move on.

I don't know anyone who would behave the way OP - and you - because a prize was faulty and I'm so thankful I don't know people like this in real life.

But what's the point in holding a raffle at all, then? Why not just ask for donations? Yes, nobody is banking on a school fete raffle ticket bringing them a life-changing prize, but the chance of a serendipitous decent thing to win always increases interest and participation.

It should be a win-win, as the school/charity/good cause don't have to provide the prize themselves, but instead they 'buy' it from the donor with publicity for them. The business got the publicity and the goodwill, but reneged on their side of the deal after the event.

There's a world of difference between winning a perfectly good bottle of wine that you pass on to somebody else because you personally don't drink alcohol, and a faulty - and quite possibly dangerous - electrical appliance.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 08:55

sweeneytoddsrazor · 27/11/2025 00:43

It wasn't broken though was it. It worked and 6 weeks later developed a fault.

It was clearly defective, then.

A toaster is meant to last far longer than that as a basic minimum standard. If you'd bought it from them directly, instead of them supplying it via the raffle, would you shrug and just ignore it if it only lasted six weeks?

They would obviously not have to bear the loss themselves, as they'd return it to their supplier and get a credit/replacement for it... well, they would if they hadn't had it hanging around unsold for maybe a decade, or taken in an old broken one from a scene-making CF customer who bought it many years previously.

I reckon, by telling OP to go to the manufacturer herself, instead of taking charge of it themselves - a common sign of a shoddy, poorly-run business - they knew they were sending her on a wild goose chase that would achieve nothing.

Their happiness to waste her time like that is really not showing them in a positive light.

Onemorestepalongtheroad · 27/11/2025 08:04

I’m quite jealous that you have the time and head space to dedicate to such a non issue.

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 27/11/2025 07:58

I think the main point about this fiasco, which was made by another poster was that this toaster was faulty and could well have caught fire or given you an electric shock.

The bloke who runs the shop sounds like a real miser and a piss taking get . I bet someone returned that toaster years ago because it was faulty even then

I an also surprised that the school even include Electrical goods in their raffle prizes.

Many Charity Shops no longer accept Electrical goods Due to liability and insurance problems .

Contact Trading.Standards for advice

And have a quiet word again with the school.

Doveyouknow · 27/11/2025 07:39

I can't believe people are saying that it's a problem that the toaster was old. It's a toaster - they don't go off! It was working when it came out of the box so the shop didn't supply a faulty toaster. I doubt the shop owner gave the item to gets loads of great advertising (it really won't) - he probably just wanted to support a local school. It's a mistake he won't make a second time I suspect.

ChopstickNovice · 27/11/2025 07:25

It's annoying, but it's a school raffle. Try and get it repaired.

Londonrach1 · 27/11/2025 07:25

Yabu. I'm shocked someone can act like you

Onelifeonly · 27/11/2025 07:24

littleblackdress26 · 26/11/2025 22:56

Wait ,what ? You threw it away 🙈

It was an early version with limited function. That's what obsolete means. No one would have wanted it.

Keroppi · 27/11/2025 07:23

Put it in the bin and move on with your life.

Tourmalines · 27/11/2025 07:21

You are OTT . You have no recourse because the toaster was a raffle prize . The retailer has absolutely no obligation to you. And neither does the school. The school sold raffle tickets and you bought the chance to win a prize. Simple .

ThejoyofNC · 27/11/2025 07:09

I would be so embarrassed to act this way. You got a free toaster, it doesn't work so throw it in the bin. You're not owed anything.

Of course he gave away old stock. He could have given nothing but chose to donate an item he had spare. Clearly no good deed goes unpunished.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 27/11/2025 07:02

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 00:20

How much would a competition prize have to be worth before you wouldn't find it embarrassing to challenge the supplier if the prize failed to materialise?

But strictly speaking the supplier of the prize, from the OPs perspective , was the school. So that’s who she should go back to, IMO.

TimeForATerf · 27/11/2025 02:39

Your contract is with the school not the hardware shop or the manufacturer, so if you want to make a complaint you need to make it with the school and get back the price of the raffle ticket because that is all you paid for. How many tickets were in your book? Let’s say 5, so you lost a quid? Same as the other four tickets that won nothing, but you contributed to the school funds.

You being completely unreasonable taking it out on the hardware shop, and you have pretty much ensured they will never donate to the school again.

bevm72yellow · 27/11/2025 02:33

Maybe he is inundated with requests to donate something to lots of local charities and that is what he does he donates. Charities clubs groups looking something for free regularly. Bearing in mind costs for small businesses are choking them. Ask someone to fix it and if it works you still got a bargain. But having lots of time to hunt down the shopkeeper looks appalling whilst you supported a school event for the huge value of one pound or 5 pounds. I have had worse happen with a £50 ticket raffle for a family holiday accommodation where it was legally allowed for the donater to win the prize through family syndicate!! ( tax purposes issue). If the toaster had been donated from a non business person would you hunt them too. Just drop the hunger to win on this occasion as there are bigger issues to put time into.

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · 27/11/2025 02:29

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This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

Unfortunately Neveranynamesleft,
I think that your post calling the OP 'Karen', is just as bad as the OP's OP. Please only ever call someone Karen if that is their actual name. I think it is awful to use someones perfectly normal name as an insult, and no, my name isn't Karen, and I don't personally know anyone with that name.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 27/11/2025 02:18

Embarrassed for you, OP. It was a free toaster!

Isittimeformynapyet · 27/11/2025 02:14

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 26/11/2025 23:35

I wouldn't demand that the school make good on the prize, as it wasn't their fault; but I would let them know and warn them not to accept any donations or requests for advertising from that business in future.

In a sense, OP was 'lucky' that the fault only prevented the toaster from working as it should; but what if, instead, it had caught fire - as ancient, faulty electrical goods frequently do? What if it had been a local bakery donating a beautiful-looking cake, but which had actually been made using very old ingredients and which left the 'lucky' winner violently ill?

There are no cake ingredients that when old would make anyone "violently ill" 🤣😂

This thread has really brought out the nutters.

Isittimeformynapyet · 27/11/2025 02:11

@Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService this is seriously like something out of Viz Letterbox. Hilarious 🤣

If, instead of asking sponsors for raffle prizes in exchange for publicity, the school had sold/given out a programme of the event and charged local businesses a price for their advert in it - and the shop owner had paid them for his advert with what he knew to be counterfeit banknotes... I wonder if people would be saying "leave the poor guy alone" then?!

🤣😂😆😂🤣

cannynotsay · 27/11/2025 01:56

You have not rights, you didn’t buy it from him. Can’t believe you didn’t realise that, you’ve shown yourself up here. Don’t repeat this story to anyone. You’ll look foolish!!

SouthernNights59 · 27/11/2025 01:24

PluckyChancer · 27/11/2025 01:06

So this business is getting of rid of defective electrical items by donating them as charity prizes and posters think this is perfectly acceptable???

Fuck sake!

@AcorgicalledTiffanyYou could try reporting him to Trading Standards for donating defective electrical goods.

I also think you should post about this dodgy practice online via social media. The business owner is clearly a chancer who has donated old stock in return for free advertising. Shady business owners like that deserve to lose their business!

Did you miss the part where it worked perfectly well for six weeks? Did the retailer have a crystal ball and know that after six weeks it was going to develop a fault? Confused

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