Dsis and I only exchange presents for our children. A few weeks ago I messaged asking what her DD might want for Christmas, as I absolutely hate buying presents for the sake of it. She sent me a long list of ideas, mostly pretty expensive stuff like specific Barbie playsets, themed Lego, Disney play sets and dress up. I expected her to also ask what my DS would like given her list was so prescriptive, but she didn’t.
As I said it’s been a few weeks now and I’ve had a few messages from her asking when I can drop her DDs gifts off but still nothing asking what my DS might want? She’s also asking what I’ve bought so she can ensure her DD doesn’t have any duplicates that might ‘ruin her Christmas morning’. AIBU to think this is rude? If I wasn’t going to ask in return I wouldn’t have been so demanding on the initial gift list.