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Absolutely rinsed in this budget - almost £1k a year worse off.

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Mushroo · 26/11/2025 13:43

Honestly in despair at this government. On a very high level calc, we are so much worse off!

We both pay a lot into pensions, so the NI change is about £700 a year worse off.

We have an EV car, so based on our 4k a year mileage, it’s about £120 a year. (Although how it will be enforced I have no idea).

Stagnating tax thresholds, probably about £100 a year between us.

Council tax F house (4 bed end terrace, not a mansion, needs renovating). So risk of revaluation after having paid a fortune in stamp duty. We didn’t get first time buyer stamp duty relief because we bought about 2 years too early, and we moved before Covid so no relief there either. So overall we’ve paid about £30k in stamp duty already over our lifetime.

Weve already had the private school hit (which is a separate debate and we’ve accepted that) but wow, we are just being kicked on all sides.

We are classic ‘middle earners’ - earn about £70k each, but have mahoosive mortgage and pay over £2k a month in nursery fees already.

Every measure just seems to have a negative effect on our lifestyle, which is ‘comfortable’ but increasingly squeezed.

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FallingIntoAutumn · 26/11/2025 14:13

Wingedharpy · 26/11/2025 13:48

Car mileage is recorded every time your car goes in for an MOT so I suspect, though don't know, that the pay per mile will be linked to that.

Motor trade here. I sincerely hope this is not the route they chose. It’s an obvious one, but there’s so many holes in that.

DinoLil · 26/11/2025 14:13

What @frozengrapes1 said

BIossomtoes · 26/11/2025 14:13

Leaves £700pcm for ALL savings, so holidays, Xmas, birthdays, emergency fund.

Heartbreaking. 💔

vodkaredbullgirl · 26/11/2025 14:12

Have to cut back on unnecessary spending.

Baninarama · 26/11/2025 14:12

GentleOlive · 26/11/2025 13:53

Don’t complain. You have done your public service so that half a million people already welfare dependent who choose to have kids they cannot afford get a £5k a years additional final raise.

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Please show your calculations on this one - child benefit for subsequent children is about £17.50 a week or just under £900 a year. These parents are hardly swimming in cash.

MellowPinkDeer · 26/11/2025 14:12

People on benefits around 5k a Year better off. An absolute fucking disgrace. Have as MANY kids as you like and some idiot in the middle will pay for them.

shit show.

HairsprayBabe · 26/11/2025 14:11

are your diamond shoes also too tight?

Itsaknockout235 · 26/11/2025 14:11

Watch how this thread fills up with ‘Be gratfeul you’ve got a shirt on your back! Have you got a pot to pee in? If yes, you’re privileged then’

The only time these comments will stop is when all earners, regardless of their hard work, higher education level and greater work-related responsibilities (which triangulate into a higher salary), are reduced to mere homeless wretches.

Wompet · 26/11/2025 14:11

frozengrapes1 · 26/11/2025 13:50

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This

TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango1 · 26/11/2025 14:11

So no private school fees? I’m confused!

randomchap · 26/11/2025 14:10

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Is this satire? I've not read such a big pile of bullshit in a long time

If it's not, then you should be embarrassed by spouting such rubbish

PolyVagalNerve · 26/11/2025 14:10

Mushroo · 26/11/2025 14:07

Our take home is c.£7k
Nursery fees £2k
Mortgage £2.5k
Commute x 2 £500
Food / petrol / misc £600
Council tax, bills £500
clothes, activities for family of 4 per month: £200

Leaves £700pcm for ALL savings, so holidays, Xmas, birthdays, emergency fund.

Like I say, we’re comfortable, but we absolutely watch every single penny and £84 a month is a lot to us! And not the lifestyle I would imagine if you told me what we earn. It’s just hard working full time, in a high pressure job, not seeing the kids.

Genuinely thinking of leaving the SW, buying a cheap house, and taking a part time job as I’d be less stressed, see the kids more and be about the same per month!

Rinsed - my arse

the fact that you can consider selling / moving / reducing hours / juggling things to improve your quality of life indicates you have it been rinsed …

you have options and agency -
that’s more than many have -
count yer blessings !

Spirallingdownwards · 26/11/2025 14:09

Lincslady53 · 26/11/2025 13:51

But you don't have an mot until the car is 3 years old. How is it going to be measured on newer cars?

I suspect you will be taxed on a basic average mileage of say 10,000 a year unless you upload the actual mileage if lower and that if people upload fraudulent mileage it will be equalised upon first MOT.

TangoWhiskeyAlphaTango1 · 26/11/2025 14:09

frozengrapes1 · 26/11/2025 13:50

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This!!

BadgernTheGarden · 26/11/2025 14:09

frozengrapes1 · 26/11/2025 13:58

I don't know. I'll pay what is asked for. I'm a happy tax payer.

Don't worry they'll make you unhappy next time.

Boomer55 · 26/11/2025 14:08

Well, this government, the leak and this budget are a farce, as ever. 🙄

It might sound good, but taxing landlords will just put tenants out of a home.

The mansion tax disproportionately affects London and other high price areas.

I’m not much affected after it, on a personal level, as I live in social housing, and am retired, and don’t claim any benefits. I live on my pensions. And it’s good news that the ISA changes won’t affect pensioners. 👍

But, on a moral level, it’s unfair that hard working people, as I was, and my ACs are, should not be propping up those (healthy) people that don’t work, and who bring forth children they can’t afford to keep themselves.. 🤷‍♀️

berlinbaby2025 · 26/11/2025 14:08

I’m guessing this is another “We live in a bigger expensive than we need and in an expensive area, and we couldn’t be bothered to plan for the inevitable day when interest rates to go up when we bought” thread but framed differently.

2thumbs · 26/11/2025 14:08

You pay nearly £40k into your pensions each year, plus for private school (presumably primary school age), and your fretting over £1k?

Mushroo · 26/11/2025 14:07

Our take home is c.£7k
Nursery fees £2k
Mortgage £2.5k
Commute x 2 £500
Food / petrol / misc £600
Council tax, bills £500
clothes, activities for family of 4 per month: £200

Leaves £700pcm for ALL savings, so holidays, Xmas, birthdays, emergency fund.

Like I say, we’re comfortable, but we absolutely watch every single penny and £84 a month is a lot to us! And not the lifestyle I would imagine if you told me what we earn. It’s just hard working full time, in a high pressure job, not seeing the kids.

Genuinely thinking of leaving the SW, buying a cheap house, and taking a part time job as I’d be less stressed, see the kids more and be about the same per month!

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Kilot · 26/11/2025 14:07

YANBU OP. You work hard for an increasingly basic existence and a never-ending welfare state that doesn’t benefit anyone who pays into it.

Summerhillsquare · 26/11/2025 14:07

With that life shopping list, do you not realise you are in the richest decile of the population?

TheCountessofLocksley · 26/11/2025 14:07

You are in an incredibly privileged position. Forgive me if I don’t agree with you.

you have choices:
•downsize or renovate on a more budget scale if you think you’re going into the £2m band
•anyone who buys a house knows the is SLDT -you budget for it. If you can’t afford it, you probably can’t afford the house
•find a different nursery, use childminder
•sell the car and use public transport as having a car for 4k miles a year is an extravagance you could do without.

Be bloody grateful for the fact you have a home, jobs, reliable cars and a good income now and in the future via your pensions etc. There are people out there who are really struggling despite doing their utmost - more than happy to pay my share to help others. You should be too.

user836367392 · 26/11/2025 14:05

frozengrapes1 · 26/11/2025 13:50

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Not small enough! 😏

LakieLady · 26/11/2025 14:04

Lincslady53 · 26/11/2025 13:51

But you don't have an mot until the car is 3 years old. How is it going to be measured on newer cars?

Maybe they'll charge 3-years worth at once, based on the mileage recorded at the first MOT.

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