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Viviennemary · 26/11/2025 12:46

Its absolutely scarey that this incompetent lot are running the country. Not as bad as Liz Truss but that's hardly a yardstick . Some old Labour. Squeeze the money out of the workers and give it away. They had a real chance to reform benefits they didn't. Now more handouts for folk with large families. While the rest of us pay.

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/11/2025 21:17

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:13

Rubbish

rose tinted glasses

look forward to adjusting to 20 hours of dark

So why do you think higher earners are happy to stay blinking in the darkness of Scandinavian countries whilst paying higher taxes? My partner is working in one right now and the photos he is sending back are stunning. Beautiful clean streets. Amazing scenery. I’d move there in a heartbeat. If you can’t recognise just how dilapidated this country has become you really need to get out more. Nothing works. Literally nothing works.

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:15

I cannot believe that people on here are moaning how squeezed they are on £140k bringing up one child yet think someone getting £25k a year with masses of children is rolling in money and having the life of Riley

it doesn’t make logical sense

surely they have 5-6 times that amount so must be living a life of luxury according to their own logic

888casino · 26/11/2025 21:15

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 21:04

Most 15 year olds don't get pregnant. They know better.

What I'm pointing out is your hypocrisy. Unsurprisingly, you can't see it. I won't comment on your very evident lack of understanding of why the two-child cap was introduced in the first place (hint: it wasn't because of what "most people" thought).

Hypocrisy how? When I’m arguing in favour of a two child cap not a zero child cap. Yeah I had one child when I was super young but then I didn’t have any more until I was in a better place financially. It was brought in because some people took the piss having ten kids and expecting everyone else to pay

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:13

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/11/2025 21:11

Because their country is beautiful and functional not a bin fire like the UK. If I had money I’d hotfoot it out of here so fast you wouldn’t see my arse on the way out.

Rubbish

rose tinted glasses

look forward to adjusting to 20 hours of dark

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 21:13

888casino · 26/11/2025 21:02

lol removing the two child cap was deeply unpopular with everyone except labour backbenchers and people with a multitude of kids they can’t support

"lol removing the two child cap was deeply unpopular...you forgot to say "among everyone I know, and I make sure only to socialise with people who think exactly like me". Maybe you should get out more.

It's a practical measure that will have an immediate positive effect and has a lot of support. I'm not particularly interested in what single mothers who lived on benefits for years think about it.

888casino · 26/11/2025 21:12

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 21:03

Did you support your own child, as a teenager?

You’re welcome, btw.

No but I didn’t have any more children until I was older and in a better place financially. It was a two child cap not a zero child cap I support

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/11/2025 21:11

Frequency · 26/11/2025 18:54

Genuine question;

If high(er) taxes mean the rich will leave in droves (which is highly disputed, btw), then why do the Scandinavian countries still have wealthy people living there?

They pay far more tax than we do, and have a much higher standard of living to show for it.

Because their country is beautiful and functional not a bin fire like the UK. If I had money I’d hotfoot it out of here so fast you wouldn’t see my arse on the way out.

suki1964 · 26/11/2025 21:10

Viviennemary · 26/11/2025 13:57

Its a benefit people have paid into with contributions.

Erm not quite true

I could have claimed carers allowance for caring for mum ( I do care for her as I did her husband till he died ) and whilst claiming it, Id have had my pension payments also paid for by the tax payer

I actually only paid my missing years ( the years where I was unwell or caring for parents so not working - or claiming ) recently and still have to work another 5 years and I only managed to pay those years and ill health made me claim my Private pension so I had a small lump sum

I know plenty of people on the road to full pension who have claimed benefits all their working lives

Frequency · 26/11/2025 21:07

888casino · 26/11/2025 21:02

lol removing the two child cap was deeply unpopular with everyone except labour backbenchers and people with a multitude of kids they can’t support

I am in full support of it. I am not a politician, and my two children are adults now. I am also genuinely in the "squeezed middle" as in I earn £30,000 p/a, not £100k.

I won't benefit at all from this budget; I'll pay slightly more tax, but I am not in the slightest bit upset by it. It is doing what taxes should do and taking more from those who can afford to pay more while supporting those who need it most.

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 21:04

888casino · 26/11/2025 20:57

For you it’s not different because you’re arguing with me and trying to make it personal 😉. But for most other people it is different that’s why it was a two child cap and not a zero child cap. Also I got pregnant at 15 not the same as grown women who should know better getting pregnant multiple times while expecting everyone else to pay

Most 15 year olds don't get pregnant. They know better.

What I'm pointing out is your hypocrisy. Unsurprisingly, you can't see it. I won't comment on your very evident lack of understanding of why the two-child cap was introduced in the first place (hint: it wasn't because of what "most people" thought).

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 21:03

888casino · 26/11/2025 21:02

lol removing the two child cap was deeply unpopular with everyone except labour backbenchers and people with a multitude of kids they can’t support

Did you support your own child, as a teenager?

You’re welcome, btw.

888casino · 26/11/2025 21:02

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 20:58

Wow, it "got a lot of likes" did it. On a social media platform. Gosh, you must be "right" then, if your post "got a lot of likes".

How many "likes" is "a lot"? 3? 5? 15? Do tell.

lol removing the two child cap was deeply unpopular with everyone except labour backbenchers and people with a multitude of kids they can’t support

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 20:58

888casino · 26/11/2025 20:31

Well a lot of people WERE thinking it because it got a lot of likes

Wow, it "got a lot of likes" did it. On a social media platform. Gosh, you must be "right" then, if your post "got a lot of likes".

How many "likes" is "a lot"? 3? 5? 15? Do tell.

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 20:57

Frequency · 26/11/2025 20:49

Do it. If you genuinely believe you will be financially better off being unemployed and having lots of children, then do it.

I suspect you won't because you know full well you are far better off working, short-term and especially in the long-term.

As well as impact on mental health

people who think people have babies to get off work are deluded

the same people say “I love work, it’s easier than being at home raising kids” and moan about the strain their partners don’t do childcare and what an easy life they subsequently have while they are left holding the baby

888casino · 26/11/2025 20:57

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 20:53

Bit different from having multiple children while on benefits expecting tax payers to fund them

For the taxpayer - me - it's no different at all. You chose to have a child without being able to support it and expected taxpayers to do that for you.

For you it’s not different because you’re arguing with me and trying to make it personal 😉. But for most other people it is different that’s why it was a two child cap and not a zero child cap. Also I got pregnant at 15 not the same as grown women who should know better getting pregnant multiple times while expecting everyone else to pay

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 20:53

888casino · 26/11/2025 20:28

yeah I was young and only had one kid and waited years until I was financially better off before having my younger two. Bit different from having multiple children while on benefits expecting tax payers to fund them especially when grown women do this and they should know better.
not sure what your point is someone agrees with a two child cap doesn’t mean they want a zero child cap?

Bit different from having multiple children while on benefits expecting tax payers to fund them

For the taxpayer - me - it's no different at all. You chose to have a child without being able to support it and expected taxpayers to do that for you.

Frequency · 26/11/2025 20:49

dollyblue01 · 26/11/2025 20:42

If you want more kids you should be able to pay for them yourself, why should I go to work to support your choices ? Utter madness , might have a few myself and stop working 🙄 not.

Do it. If you genuinely believe you will be financially better off being unemployed and having lots of children, then do it.

I suspect you won't because you know full well you are far better off working, short-term and especially in the long-term.

EveningSpread · 26/11/2025 20:48

It’s a solid, sensible budget and frankly I’m surprised and pleased.

The fact that some people are foaming at the mouth even though they’ll continue to be comfortable just boggles the mind.

EveningSpread · 26/11/2025 20:46

You do realise that we’ve got an ageing population and need people to have kids so there are enough working people to pay for future pensions?

You do realise the vast majority of benefit claimants are in work? And that it’s false economy to have children in poverty?

I see the tired old vitriol for benefit scroungers is overriding any sense of reason or logic. The question “Why should I pay for others” totally misses the point. We all benefit. Next you’ll be wanting your taxes for the NHS back because Maggie next door, has been to the GP 4 times this year and you’ve only been once. After all, why should you pay for other people who are so careless as to get sick?

bittertwisted · 26/11/2025 20:45

LaurieFairyCake · 26/11/2025 17:23

Great budget, very pleased the 2 child benefit cap removed - a horrible attack on families by the Tories gone forever

Not at all
pay for your own family, that is what should be encouraged

dollyblue01 · 26/11/2025 20:42

If you want more kids you should be able to pay for them yourself, why should I go to work to support your choices ? Utter madness , might have a few myself and stop working 🙄 not.

SuffolkSun · 26/11/2025 20:41

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 26/11/2025 17:05

State pension is classed as a benefit by the government. However, you only get tbe full benefit if you've paid enough into the system or have credits for being a carer etc. Ive just paid the government about £5k to increase my and hubby's benefits ... though we have paid taxes for 50 years abd never claimed benefits.

You say you worked for fifty years so... you're now a pensioner and claiming the state pension.

Everyone is (or should be) aware that you can't retrospectively "pay' to increase the state pension or other benefits. You can pay (before claiming the pension) to make up gaps in your NI record so you get the full amount. But if there were gaps in your NI record, you didn't work anywhere close to 50 years.

I suggest you think of a story that sounds halfway believable.

Biskieboo · 26/11/2025 20:40

I think Rachel Reeves made a pretty good fist of a virtually impossible job, and quite a lot of the stuff being posted here is hyperbolic drivel.

SeaAndStars · 26/11/2025 20:36

888casino · 26/11/2025 20:28

yeah I was young and only had one kid and waited years until I was financially better off before having my younger two. Bit different from having multiple children while on benefits expecting tax payers to fund them especially when grown women do this and they should know better.
not sure what your point is someone agrees with a two child cap doesn’t mean they want a zero child cap?

I didn't have any children and never minded paying tax for other people's kids.
I would rather that then have children raised in poverty for whatever reason.

UninitendedShark · 26/11/2025 20:36

Anybody who voted for Brexit needs to stop moaning about the budget. You’re getting the financial landscape you voted for.

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